No necesitas a un hombre para completarte

Sé que estás abrumado por todo lo que te ha pasado. Sé que es difícil dejar ir a quien amas.

Pero créeme, a veces es mejor dejar que las cosas se vayan para estar preparados para cosas nuevas y mejores.

Sé que tienes el corazón roto y que sólo un hombre es culpable de ello. El que aún amas y al que sigues llamando cada noche en tus sueños.

You see, darling, he is just a jerk who didn’t know what kind of woman he had next to himself. And if you think that it will be hard without him, you are so wrong. It will be hard only until you realize that he was toxic.

Sólo te dolerá hasta que veas que eres mucho mejor por ti mismo.

Porque no es el hombre que te mereces. And he is definitely not the one who will complete you. Can’t you see that you are enough? Can’t you see that you are worthy? And believe me, you don’t need a man to be happy. That is something that you can accomplish by yourself, by doing things you like, by spending time with the people you love. So, don’t think that you lost something valuable when he left.

It is not your fault he left and you don’t need to stress out about that.

By leaving you he just showed how much of a coward he was. He just showed you that he can’t make it for two. That’s not the life he wants. He wants something else and you can’t provide him with that. And you shouldn’t because you are not someone who should make his dreams come true when he didn’t even ask you about yours.

Please, don’t cry over a man who never treated you like a priority. You were always the one who waited and the one he went to when it was convenient. If I were you, I would be so sick and tired of that kind of behavior. So, you are allowed to leave the past where it belongs.

Y hagas lo que hagas, ten siempre presente que eres suficiente tal y como eres.

You don’t need a man para moldearte en algo que él quiere. Eres una persona que puede valerse por sí misma. Y sé que lo harás. La próxima vez que venga a rogarte que vuelvas, espero que recuerdes cómo te trató.

And I want you to tell him that he already lost you once and that you don’t want to get back with him. You are like a diamond he never knew to cherish. And he can be sorry for everything he did to you but that is not a valid reason to take him back. He didn’t know what he had.

Te hizo daño una vez, y volverá a hacerlo.

The first time you say something that he doesn’t like, he will leave and cheat on you again. Don’t let him get away with that. Don’t think that you need him. Darling, love is what you need, not a toxic ex. He is not the man who can complete you.

Eso es algo que sólo tú puedes hacer por ti misma. Y cuando llegue la persona adecuada, nunca intentará cambiarte. Nunca te pedirá que cambies por él.

Él sólo estará ahí, para amarte y aceptarte por completo, ¡pero nunca intentará completarte!