Os homens de verdade amam-na com as acções mais reais, não com as palavras mais falsas
No que diz respeito ao amor, os homens tornaram muito difícil para nós, mulheres, manter os nossos padrões. Se tivermos padrões elevados, estamos a pedir demasiado.
If we don’t have boundaries—we are too compliant. If we do nothing—we don’t know what we want.
Mas e os homens?
Será que as suas palavras são simplesmente suficientes para nos arrebatarem? Pensam que devemos contentar-nos com o seu tratamento pobre e pouco criativo para connosco (na maioria dos casos)?
No. We definitely shouldn’t! And do you know why?
Because real men love you with the realest of actions, not the fakest words. They don’t believe in just sweet nothings.
Arregaçam as mangas e transformam os seus sonhos em realidade.
Real men don’t just say they want you to be theirs and then wait for you to jump into their arms. They roll up their sleeves and work hard to win you because you deserve to be chased.
A única coisa em que acreditam são os seus sonhos e acções.
And you are their dream. Real men don’t treat you like something replaceable because they are afraid that they will never find someone like you.
And they don’t make you wait. They appreciate every second spent with you.
Real men don’t just say they love you. They make an effort to prove it to you with their actions.
Sim. A coisa mais fácil que um homem pode fazer é dizer que a ama e depois não fazer nada, esperando que acredite nele.
The easiest thing a man can do is repeat these three words for the rest of their life and even then they probably wouldn’t realize that their words mean nothing if they are not followed by actions.
Homens de verdade don’t do this. They don’t act like boys. They don’t say they love you and the next day turn their back on you.
Eles estão aqui. Estão presentes e querem que saibas que estarão sempre ao teu lado quando precisares deles.
Mimam-nos com gestos doces porque querem fazer-nos sentir especiais. Escutam-te porque estão interessados em tudo o que tens para dizer.
Abraçam-nos e apertam-nos nos braços, em vez de se limitarem a dizer que tudo vai correr bem.
And they do so because they want to (not because you asked them to). They do so because they know a woman deserves to be treated like a delicate flower that they need to water if they don’t want it to wither.
Fazem-no porque apreciam a sua verdadeira beleza interior e não apenas a sua aparência.
Real men shower you with the realest affection, not the fakest of promises. They don’t tell you that you are the one and then cheat on you for their selfish purposes.
They don’t promise you a fairy tale if they are not sure of their feelings because real men don’t live in fairy tales. They know how they feel about you and they act accordingly.
They don’t expect you to fall head over heels for them after one date.
They don’t expect you to believe anything they say if they don’t prove it to you with their actions. They don’t expect you to be something you’re not only to fit the definition of perfect.
Real men don’t expect you to be perfect because they themselves know that they are far from that.
They don’t have a problem with you wearing baggy clothes because they know you feel comfy in them. They don’t have a problem with you being mad at them when they don’t give you the treatment you deserve.
They don’t have a problem with anything that faz-te feliz.
A sua felicidade é a prioridade deles.
When they fuck things up—they do everything for you to forgive them. When you’re feeling sad—they do everything to make you smile. When someone hurts you—they hurt them.
They don’t take your happiness for granted because seeing you smile is their priority.
Real men don’t give up until they succeed in making you happy. They don’t give up fighting for what they believe in at the first obstacle they face.
They don’t give up fighting for love because they know that every beautiful thing requires efforts. They don’t give up on you.
Os verdadeiros homens alimentam-te com amor verdadeiro, não com o tipo tóxico.
They stick to their promises instead of breaking them. They watch the stars with you instead of buying you expensive gifts. They hold your hand when you’re scared.
Dizem-te que te amam tal como és. Os verdadeiros homens livram-se das tuas inseguranças em vez de te fazerem sentir indigna.
Os verdadeiros homens amam-na com um coração puro e não com um coração egoísta.
