Los hombres de verdad te quieren con acciones reales, no con palabras falsas
Cuando se trata de amor, los hombres nos han puesto muy difícil a las mujeres mantener nuestros estándares. Si somos exigentes, pedimos demasiado.
If we don’t have boundaries—we are too compliant. If we do nothing—we don’t know what we want.
Pero, ¿y los hombres?
¿Bastan sus palabras para dejarnos sin palabras? ¿Creen que debemos contentarnos con el trato pobre y poco inventivo que nos dispensan (en la mayoría de los casos)?
No. We definitely shouldn’t! And do you know why?
Because real men love you with the realest of actions, not the fakest words. They don’t believe in just sweet nothings.
Se arremangan y hacen realidad sus sueños.
Real men don’t just say they want you to be theirs and then wait for you to jump into their arms. They roll up their sleeves and work hard to win you because you deserve to be chased.
Lo único en lo que creen es en sus sueños y acciones.
And you are their dream. Real men don’t treat you like something replaceable because they are afraid that they will never find someone like you.
And they don’t make you wait. They appreciate every second spent with you.
Real men don’t just say they love you. They make an effort to prove it to you with their actions.
Sí. Lo más fácil que puede hacer un hombre es decir que te quiere y luego no hacer nada al respecto, esperando que le creas.
The easiest thing a man can do is repeat these three words for the rest of their life and even then they probably wouldn’t realize that their words mean nothing if they are not followed by actions.
Hombres de verdad don’t do this. They don’t act like boys. They don’t say they love you and the next day turn their back on you.
Están aquí. Están presentes y quieren que sepas que siempre estarán a tu lado cuando los necesites.
Te miman con gestos dulces porque quieren hacerte sentir especial. Te escuchan porque les interesa todo lo que tienes que decir.
Te abrazan y te estrechan entre sus brazos en lugar de limitarse a decir que todo irá bien.
And they do so because they want to (not because you asked them to). They do so because they know a woman deserves to be treated like a delicate flower that they need to water if they don’t want it to wither.
Lo hacen porque aprecian su verdadera belleza interior y no sólo su apariencia.
Real men shower you with the realest affection, not the fakest of promises. They don’t tell you that you are the one and then cheat on you for their selfish purposes.
They don’t promise you a fairy tale if they are not sure of their feelings because real men don’t live in fairy tales. They know how they feel about you and they act accordingly.
They don’t expect you to fall head over heels for them after one date.
They don’t expect you to believe anything they say if they don’t prove it to you with their actions. They don’t expect you to be something you’re not only to fit the definition of perfect.
Real men don’t expect you to be perfect because they themselves know that they are far from that.
They don’t have a problem with you wearing baggy clothes because they know you feel comfy in them. They don’t have a problem with you being mad at them when they don’t give you the treatment you deserve.
They don’t have a problem with anything that te hace feliz.
Tu felicidad es su prioridad.
When they fuck things up—they do everything for you to forgive them. When you’re feeling sad—they do everything to make you smile. When someone hurts you—they hurt them.
They don’t take your happiness for granted because seeing you smile is their priority.
Real men don’t give up until they succeed in making you happy. They don’t give up fighting for what they believe in at the first obstacle they face.
They don’t give up fighting for love because they know that every beautiful thing requires efforts. They don’t give up on you.
Los hombres de verdad te alimentan con amor verdadero, no del tipo tóxico.
They stick to their promises instead of breaking them. They watch the stars with you instead of buying you expensive gifts. They hold your hand when you’re scared.
Te dicen que te quieren tal y como eres. Los hombres de verdad se deshacen de tus inseguridades en lugar de hacerte sentir indigna.
Los hombres de verdad te aman con un corazón puro y no egoísta.
