Gli uomini veri ti amano con le azioni più vere, non con le parole più false

Quando si tratta di amore, gli uomini hanno reso molto difficile per noi donne mantenere i nostri standard. Se abbiamo standard elevati, stiamo chiedendo troppo.

If we don’t have boundaries—we are too compliant. If we do nothing—we don’t know what we want.

Ma che dire degli uomini?

Le loro parole sono semplicemente sufficienti a farci perdere la testa? Pensano che dovremmo accontentarci del loro trattamento scadente e poco fantasioso nei nostri confronti (nella maggior parte dei casi)?

No. We definitely shouldn’t! And do you know why?

Because real men love you with the realest of actions, not the fakest words. They don’t believe in just sweet nothings.

Si rimboccano le maniche e trasformano i loro sogni in realtà.

Real men don’t just say they want you to be theirs and then wait for you to jump into their arms. They roll up their sleeves and work hard to win you because you deserve to be chased.

L'unica cosa in cui credono sono i loro sogni e le loro azioni.

And you are their dream. Real men don’t treat you like something replaceable because they are afraid that they will never find someone like you.

And they don’t make you wait. They appreciate every second spent with you.

Real men don’t just say they love you. They make an effort to prove it to you with their actions.

Già. La cosa più facile che un uomo possa fare è dire di amarvi e poi non fare nulla, aspettandosi che voi gli crediate.

The easiest thing a man can do is repeat these three words for the rest of their life and even then they probably wouldn’t realize that their words mean nothing if they are not followed by actions.

Uomini veri don’t do this. They don’t act like boys. They don’t say they love you and the next day turn their back on you.

Sono qui. Sono presenti e vogliono che sappiate che saranno sempre lì per voi quando ne avrete bisogno.

Vi viziano con gesti dolci perché vogliono farvi sentire speciali. Vi ascoltano perché sono interessati a tutto ciò che avete da dire.

Ti abbracciano e ti stringono tra le braccia invece di dirti che andrà tutto bene.

And they do so because they want to (not because you asked them to). They do so because they know a woman deserves to be treated like a delicate flower that they need to water if they don’t want it to wither.

Lo fanno perché apprezzano la sua vera bellezza interiore e non solo quella esteriore.

Real men shower you with the realest affection, not the fakest of promises. They don’t tell you that you are the one and then cheat on you for their selfish purposes.

They don’t promise you a fairy tale if they are not sure of their feelings because real men don’t live in fairy tales. They know how they feel about you and they act accordingly.

They don’t expect you to fall head over heels for them after one date.

They don’t expect you to believe anything they say if they don’t prove it to you with their actions. They don’t expect you to be something you’re not only to fit the definition of perfect.

Real men don’t expect you to be perfect because they themselves know that they are far from that.

They don’t have a problem with you wearing baggy clothes because they know you feel comfy in them. They don’t have a problem with you being mad at them when they don’t give you the treatment you deserve.

They don’t have a problem with anything that ti rende felice.

La vostra felicità è la loro priorità.

When they fuck things up—they do everything for you to forgive them. When you’re feeling sad—they do everything to make you smile. When someone hurts you—they hurt them.

They don’t take your happiness for granted because seeing you smile is their priority.

Real men don’t give up until they succeed in making you happy. They don’t give up fighting for what they believe in at the first obstacle they face.

They don’t give up fighting for love because they know that every beautiful thing requires efforts. They don’t give up on you.

Gli uomini veri vi nutrono di amore vero, non di quello tossico.

They stick to their promises instead of breaking them. They watch the stars with you instead of buying you expensive gifts. They hold your hand when you’re scared.

Vi dicono che vi amano così come siete. Gli uomini veri si liberano delle vostre insicurezze invece di farvi sentire indegne.

I veri uomini vi amano con un cuore puro e non egoista.