Ultrapassar um traidor não devia ser assim tão difícil (é por isso que é mesmo)

Parece tudo tão simples. Ele mentiu. Ele fez batota. Ele traiu a vossa confiança and played you for a fool. He broke your heart and the pieces are still stuck, intensifying the pain. There is nothing to think about, it’s all clear as day, you should just cut the cord, block him out of your system, kick him out of your life and forget he ever existed. He is not worthy of even being in your thoughts. You know that. It sounds simple yet you have such a hard time getting over him.

Kicking the cheater out of your life is the easy part. But kicking him out of your mind and heart is something completely different. It’s not at all as easy as it seems when you rationalize everything that happened. It’s not easy, it’s rather hard and there are a lot of reasons that make getting over a cheater so hard. It’s important to know them to be able to let go.

It’s hard to get over a cheater because somebody worthless meant the world to you. Pôs a sua fé e confiança nele, deu-lhe o melhor de si, deu-lhe o seu amor e ele não teve qualquer problema em virar as costas a tudo isso. Não teve qualquer problema em arriscar perder tudo o que construíram juntos por uma noite de paixão com alguém que mal conhecia.

Quando finalmente conseguir ultrapassar a situação, lembre-se sempre que, apesar de o ter perdoado, nunca poderá esquecer ao ponto de lhe dar mais uma oportunidade. He doesn’t deserve one.

It’s hard to get over a cheater because of all the good you shared. All those nice and priceless moments didn’t disappear just because he is an asshole. They are still with you and they hurt the most.
You can’t believe that the same man you shared your heart and mind with is the same one who betrayed you so shamelessly. That kind and loving man is the same heartless bastard who caused you all this pain. It’s a lot to process. It’s a lot to deal with so you keep holding on to the memories.

It’s hard to get over a cheater because of all the bad you shared. Because of all those nights you were talking endlessly about some problem and crying, trying to figure it out. Because you understood his silence and his mood swings. You were the one who offered him a hand to pull him up when he would start to fall. It’s hard to realize that he had no respect for that. That he didn’t value you as much as you did him. It hurts.

It’s hard to get over a cheater because all the dreams you had with him will never come true. E nada dói mais do que sonhos não realizados. Sonhos que é preciso deixar para trás mesmo que seja a última coisa que queiras fazer.

It’s hard to get over a cheater because despite their actions, love still remains and we can’t pull it out of our heart overnight. It makes us angry and it’s hard to admit that but no matter the reason, you need time to let that love go. You need time to realize that it was never meant to be.

It’s hard to get over a cheater because you can’t make sense of all of it. You were left without closure, without a good enough reason for his actions. And no, it wasn’t a mistake. “It will never happen again,” is not reason enough.

It’s hard to get over a cheater because you are replaying all of the above and all sorts of different scenarios in your head. Só queres dar sentido a todos estes sentimentos confusos e entrelaçados dentro de ti. Só queres acabar com eles e acabar com ele.

It’s hard to get over a cheater because you still resent him for everything. You are still mad at him and he is still a part of your thoughts. That gives him power over you. It still influences your life even though you don’t want it to. The sooner you forgive, the sooner you will let go of him and everything that is holding you back. It’s not as easy as it seems but you will get there.