As melhores mulheres são as mais difíceis de lidar porque sabem o seu valor

Caros homens, ainda acham que as melhores mulheres são as que ficam caladas perante os vossos maus tratos ou as que dançam ao vosso som? Continuam a pensar que as melhores mulheres são aquelas que aceitam todas as vossas tretas sem nunca dizerem uma palavra?

Se o fizerem, por favor, pensem de novo.

Durante todo este tempo, as mulheres têm sido vistas de forma injusta. As pessoas pensam que se uma mulher se está a fazer de difícil—ela é cheia de si. E se uma mulher está a ser honesta—ela é demasiado fácil. Se ela o estiver a contradizer—ela é demasiado intimidante. Se ela ficar calada—she doesn’t have an opinion.

But what if she’s playing hard to get because she is afraid of getting hurt again? What if she’s being honest because she’s sick of all of the mind games? What if she’s contradicting you because she wants to help you improve yourself? And what if she’s staying silent because she realizes that her words are not appreciated enough and not because she doesn’t have an opinion?

She might seem confusing and hard to deal with but this is because she’s learned valuable lessons from her past and she won’t let anyone break her again. She’s learned that if she doesn’t fight for herself, no one else will.

A verdade é que as melhores mulheres são as mais difíceis de lidar porque sabem o seu valor.

Durante todo este tempo, a sociedade forçou as mulheres a serem algo que não são, apenas para se enquadrarem na definição de serem as melhores. Mas a verdade é que as melhores mulheres não são aquelas que acenam com a cabeça a cada palavra que diz. As melhores mulheres são aquelas que o desafiam.

They don’t pretend that they didn’t notice you tomá-los como garantidos. They take things into their own hands and teach you a lesson to let you know that if you’re not going to respect them, you will lose them.

They don’t treat you with respect if they see you’re not doing the same. They let you know that they are not satisfied with your treatment and they will not tolerate it because they don’t deserve it. They don’t invest all of themselves if they see you’re not reciprocating. They don’t waste their time on someone who is not making an effort to keep them.

E sabem porquê? No, it’s not because they want to see you suffer or punish you for your mistreatment. The only reason why is PORQUE SABEM O SEU VALOR.

No, they are not easy to deal with because they will say what they really mean. They have high standards and they stick to them. And you’re either there with them or you’re not. And that is what makes them the best! That is what makes them AWESOME.

As melhores mulheres são as mais difíceis de amar porque amam muito.

As melhores mulheres são as mais difíceis de compreender porque têm mentes complexas.

As melhores mulheres são as mais difíceis de satisfazer porque sabem o seu valor.

They know what they bring to the table and they are not afraid to eat alone. The best women don’t just wait for happiness to find them. They fight hard for their own happiness and that is why they don’t take it for granted.

The best women aren’t satisfied with mediocrity because they know they are born for greatness.

And you should know it, too. You should know that the best things are the most difficult. The best things don’t just appear in your life out of nowhere. You fight hard for them and hope for the best. And that is exactly how you should treat them.

As melhores mulheres reconhecem os seus erros e apreciam os seus esforços. São as mais difíceis de lidar porque querem ajudá-lo com todo o seu coração a tornar-se a melhor versão de si próprio.

Elas são altruístas e generosas, mas também sabem o seu valor e não se contentam com nada menos do que merecem. As melhores mulheres são as mais difíceis de lidar porque conhecer o seu valor e tu devias sabê-lo também.