A beleza de ter uma rapariga reservada apaixonada por si

O problema da rapariga reservada é que, para alguns, ela pode parecer insensível, mas o que muitos não compreendem é que ela é tudo menos insensível.

Quando alguém ama tão profunda e imensamente como ela, a dor que se segue ao desgosto é maior do que seria numa pessoa normal.

E quando sentiu tanta dor, jurou nunca mais deixar ninguém entrar. Depois de ter sido quebrada por alguém que amava, tudo na sua vida mudou.

Então, quem a pode culpar por guardar o seu coração?

Luckily, her story doesn’t end with her getting her heart broken. Because even though she felt immense pain, she felt immense love once as well. Thanks to that love, she won’t have to guard her heart forever.

Once someone worthy of her love comes along, she’ll let go. And if you happen to be that someone, you’ll see all the beauty of having a guarded girl fall for you.

When a guarded girl falls for you it means you’ve passed her friends’ test

It might seem funny at first, but trust this: If her friends hadn’t given you the green light, you wouldn’t have had a chance with her.

São as pessoas que estavam lá quando ela estava a viver um inferno.

They supported her, they held her hand when she couldn’t stop the tears from rolling down her face and they never for a moment left her alone to deal with her pain. Of course, their opinion matters to her and she knows they only want the best for her.

If you’ve passed that test, know that they’ll be there to help you around her. They’ll ship you two and they’ll help her realize that it’s safe to give you her heart.

Don’t mistake it for manipulation, but after what she’s been through, she might need some guidance after all.

When a guarded girl falls for you it means she’s ready to let go of the past and give it a shot with you

Letting go of the past is something she’s been struggling to do for a long time.

She had her past clinging to her and she was unable to shake it off. But if she decided to try with you, if she decided to let you in, it means she’ll do her best not to look at you through the prism of her last heartbreak.

It means she’s finally ready to let someone step in and she’s ready to try despite the fear that’s hugging her soul.

Significa que ela decidiu lutar contra si própria e contra todas as promessas que fez a si própria sobre o facto de não se apaixonar mais.

It means you’re one hell of a lucky guy, you know?

When a guarded girl falls for you it means she’s finally ready to put her walls down

It took her a lot of pain to build her walls up so it won’t be so easy to break them down. And it won’t be happening all at once.

She’s probably going to take one brick out at a time because she’ll need to see you’re someone who she can trust before she takes all the walls down.

Mas até isto requer mais energia do que aquela que se consegue compreender. E ela merece uma medalha por isso.

Mas pense bem: tudo isto, só para si, será a sensação mais fantástica do mundo.

When a guarded girl falls for you it means she’s ready to be vulnerable again

Even if it scares the shit out of her, she’s ready to show you her soul. Esta rapariga foi demasiado forte durante demasiado tempo.

Ela engarrafava os seus sentimentos, parecia ser de pele grossa e não deixava que ninguém se aproximasse dela.

She had a small circle of people whom she trusted, she’d pull away the minute she saw she was getting undesired emotions and she convinced everyone how she had no feelings whatsoever.

And you made her reveal to the whole world that she isn’t truly like that and you reminded everyone else of this other side of her personality.

She is still strong, but she decided to let you see this other side, too. She decided you’re the one in front of her whom she’ll feel comfortable bearing her soul to.

She decided to be human again, to stop bottling up her feelings and just be true to herself. And she hasn’t been that in a long time.

When a guarded girl lets you in it’s because she wants to, not because she needs to

Esta rapariga deixou de precisar das pessoas há muito tempo. Ela aceitou que não se vai apegar mais na sua vida e conseguiu safar-se bem sozinha até agora. E depois decidiu comprometer a sua felicidade por uma tentativa consigo.

Ela decidiu dar uma nova oportunidade ao amor e decidiu ignorar toda a dor que passou no passado. Decidiu confiar em ti e permitiu-se sentir este amor imenso como já sentiu uma vez.

If this isn’t one of the most beautiful feelings in the world, I don’t know what is.

Please, don’t prove her wrong. Don’t show her that she should’ve stayed guarded and don’t break her.

Don’t treat her badly once she lets you in. Once she starts falling, be there to catch her.