Isto é para todas as raparigas que estão cansadas de perseguir alguém

Are you familiar with the feeling when you fall in love with someone so deeply, that it even makes you think that you can’t live without that person?

You’re ready to do whatever it takes to keep them in your life. He’s the man of your dreams and you’re hoping that one day he’ll feel the same about you.

After some time, though, you start to realize that it’s impossible to make someone love you. You constantly tried to get closer to him, but it actually pushed him away.

Deu tudo de si a essa pessoa e algures no caminho, perdeu-se. Fartou-se de ter de provar o seu valor e o seu amor a alguém.

You got sick of chasing someone who’ll never be able to appreciate all those things you did for him.

Eis alguns conselhos que a ajudarão a deixá-lo e a seguir em frente com a sua vida.

1. You weren’t meant for each other

If you are destined to be together, then you won’t have to chase him. And if you are chasing him, it means that he isn’t the right guy for you.

Then you have only one option left: to let him go. Mr. Right will come someday and he’ll show you what true love is.

You won’t have to try that hard to win and keep that person because he’ll choose you himself.

Give up on him. You deserve someone who’ll love you and choose you no matter what.

Chasing him will only bring you more pain because he won’t change. If you don’t want to spend your life in pain, you have to let him go.

2. Começar a perseguir o amor-próprio

Remind yourself of your worth and never let anyone disrespect you. If you lack self-respect, then you’ll allow others to treat you how they want, without any respect.

However, if you respect yourself enough, then you’ll be able to walk away from or let go of people who make you unhappy or unloved.

3. Mereces ser perseguido

You’re the one who deserves to be chased. Se mostrarmos a um homem o quanto o amamos todos os dias, será realmente demasiado esperar que ele faça o mesmo por nós?

You are a unique, one-of-a-kind girl and if someone doesn’t see it, then it’s his loss.

You don’t have to make him see it, because he’ll realize it once he loses you. And then he’ll be left with a broken heart.

Mereces alguém que te veja no teu pior, mas que ainda assim opte por ficar.

Someone who’ll love you the strongest even when you are being the most difficult to love.

4. Don’t ever humiliate yourself

Persegui-lo fará sempre com que pareça desesperada e patética.

Sei que o facto de o estar a perder e de não poder fazer nada está a deixá-la louca. Mas nunca lhe deves mostrar que estás desesperada pelo amor dele.

Sê corajosa. Eu sei que ver um homem que amamos sair da nossa vida dói muito. Mas tens de sorrir e aguentar.

Don’t humiliate yourself for someone who doesn’t even deserve you.

Don’t do that to yourself. You know you are better than that – that you deserve more than that.

5. You can’t force him to love you

Chasing someone won’t make them love you. That’s only how you’ll push them further away. To be honest, no one likes pathetic people who just don’t know when to stop.

There is nothing wrong with you, but you have to understand that the harsh reality is you can never make someone love you. Love is something that can’t be forced.

Se o amas verdadeiramente, tudo o que podes fazer é esperar. Deixe de o perseguir e veja o que acontece.

Maybe it’ll make him realize that no one will love him as much as you do, and he’ll start to appreciate all those things you’ve done for him.

Maybe then he’ll start chasing you. If he doesn’t, then it means that it’s time to let him go forever.

Aceita-o e segue em frente, por muito doloroso que seja. O tempo curará todas essas feridas.

6. You’ll be left with a broken heart

Persegui-lo só te vai levar a um desgosto. E as suas próprias expectativas serão as únicas culpadas por isso.

Every time you’re full of expectations that this time something will change – that he’ll finally love you the same.

But every time those expectations will lead you to disappointment. Disappointment after disappointment, you’ll finally start losing hope.

Tens de saber que podes fazer muito melhor. Tens de te apreciar o suficiente para saberes quando te deves afastar. Tens de o deixar ir para te manteres a ti própria.

Chasing the man you love won’t bring you anything good. It will only lead you to an emotional handicap.

You’ll be left with self-esteem issues and not be able to move on for a long time.