Questo è per tutte le ragazze che sono stanche di rincorrere qualcuno

Are you familiar with the feeling when you fall in love with someone so deeply, that it even makes you think that you can’t live without that person?

You’re ready to do whatever it takes to keep them in your life. He’s the man of your dreams and you’re hoping that one day he’ll feel the same about you.

After some time, though, you start to realize that it’s impossible to make someone love you. You constantly tried to get closer to him, but it actually pushed him away.

Avete dato il massimo per quella persona e da qualche parte lungo la strada, hai perso te stesso. Vi siete stancati di dover dimostrare a qualcuno il vostro valore e il vostro amore.

You got sick of chasing someone who’ll never be able to appreciate all those things you did for him.

Ecco alcuni consigli che vi aiuteranno a lasciarlo andare e ad andare avanti con la vostra vita.

1. You weren’t meant for each other

If you are destined to be together, then you won’t have to chase him. And if you are chasing him, it means that he isn’t the right guy for you.

Then you have only one option left: to let him go. Mr. Right will come someday and he’ll show you what true love is.

You won’t have to try that hard to win and keep that person because he’ll choose you himself.

Give up on him. You deserve someone who’ll love you and choose you no matter what.

Chasing him will only bring you more pain because he won’t change. If you don’t want to spend your life in pain, you have to let him go.

2. Iniziare a inseguire l'amore per se stessi

Remind yourself of your worth and never let anyone disrespect you. If you lack self-respect, then you’ll allow others to treat you how they want, without any respect.

However, if you respect yourself enough, then you’ll be able to walk away from or let go of people who make you unhappy or unloved.

3. Meritate di essere inseguiti

You’re the one who deserves to be chased. Se dimostrate a un uomo quanto lo amate ogni giorno, è davvero troppo aspettarsi che lui faccia lo stesso con voi?

You are a unique, one-of-a-kind girl and if someone doesn’t see it, then it’s his loss.

You don’t have to make him see it, because he’ll realize it once he loses you. And then he’ll be left with a broken heart.

Vi meritate qualcuno che vi veda al peggio ma che scelga comunque di restare.

Someone who’ll love you the strongest even when you are being the most difficult to love.

4. Don’t ever humiliate yourself

Inseguirlo vi farà sempre sembrare disperate e patetiche.

So che il fatto di perderlo e di non poter fare nulla ti sta facendo impazzire. Ma non dovete mai mostrargli che siete alla ricerca disperata del suo amore.

Siate coraggiosi. So che vedere un uomo che ami lasciare la tua vita fa molto male. Ma dovete sorridere e sopportarlo.

Don’t humiliate yourself for someone who doesn’t even deserve you.

Don’t do that to yourself. You know you are better than that – that you deserve more than that.

5. You can’t force him to love you

Chasing someone won’t make them love you. That’s only how you’ll push them further away. To be honest, no one likes pathetic people who just don’t know when to stop.

There is nothing wrong with you, but you have to understand that the harsh reality is you can never make someone love you. Love is something that can’t be forced.

Se lo ami davvero, non puoi fare altro che aspettare. Smettete di inseguirlo e vedrete cosa succederà.

Maybe it’ll make him realize that no one will love him as much as you do, and he’ll start to appreciate all those things you’ve done for him.

Maybe then he’ll start chasing you. If he doesn’t, then it means that it’s time to let him go forever.

Accettatelo e andate avanti, non importa quanto sia doloroso. Il tempo guarirà tutte le ferite.

6. You’ll be left with a broken heart

Inseguirlo vi porterà solo al crepacuore. E la colpa sarà solo delle vostre aspettative.

Every time you’re full of expectations that this time something will change – that he’ll finally love you the same.

But every time those expectations will lead you to disappointment. Disappointment after disappointment, you’ll finally start losing hope.

Dovete sapere che potete fare molto meglio. Dovete apprezzarvi abbastanza da sapere quando è il momento di andarvene. Devi lasciarlo andare per non perdere te stessa.

Chasing the man you love won’t bring you anything good. It will only lead you to an emotional handicap.

You’ll be left with self-esteem issues and not be able to move on for a long time.