As primeiras 6 coisas que os homens notam em si

Todas nós conhecemos o procedimento. Ele finalmente convida-te para sair e a primeira coisa que fazes é ligar à tua melhor amiga e contar-lhe todos os pormenores.

After that, you realize that you’ve got nothing to wear (even though you know it’s a lie). Your hair is all messed up. You have doubts about the color of your nail polish and so on.

I know you’re worried about your appearance, and you want to look the best you can because you really like that guy, and you want everything to be perfect.

And you’re absolutely right about it. But, what if he doesn’t even notice the color of your nails, whether you have washed your hair properly or even if you have matched the colors in your outfit?

Believe me, he doesn’t.

I’ve realized it the hard way. I was in a rush before going on a date with the guy I really, really liked.

I couldn’t even match my socks, let alone the entire outfit because I was freaking out, and I didn’t want him to wait forever in front of my house.

Só consegui lavar os dentes, pentear o cabelo e vestir as minhas calças de ganga pretas preferidas e uma T-shirt branca simples.

Sentia-me literalmente uma merda, mas ele fazia-me sentir como se eu fosse a rapariga mais bonita do mundo.

Two months later, when I asked him about the first things he noticed about me that night, he explained to me that men’s perception of us is completely different from what we might be thinking.

I realized the first things men notice about you have almost nothing to do with the details that you’re paying attention to.

1. Sorrir

Enquanto se preocupa com a cor do seu batom, os homens só vão reparar no seu sorriso.

When it comes to men, your smile is the most powerful weapon in your possession, but sometimes when we’re preoccupied with other less important things, we simply forget to smile.

Um sorriso é um sinal universal que dirá ao seu homem you’re happy e confortável na sua pele.

2. Olhos

No, they’re not interested in the amount of mascara on your eyelashes. They don’t notice any of it.

Mas, eles vão reparar se os seus olhos demonstram tristeza, mágoa ou felicidade. Os seus olhos dir-lhes-ão se o seu sorriso é genuíno e se gosta de estar com eles.

There’s no need to worry about anything else except being in the moment and appreciating the moment, and he’ll notice it in your eyes.

3. Se gosta da vida

Para além do seu sorriso e dos seus olhos, vão reparar na sua maneira de andar e de falar.

Tudo isto são indicadores da sua personalidade e do seu contentamento geral com a sua vida.

They notice if you’re talking with passion and whether you’re interested in what’s happening around you.

Eles reparam se desfrutamos da vida e apreciar as pequenas coisas que a vida nos dá.

4. The way you treat people you don’t know

They notice the way you treat others whom you don’t know. Men notice whether you have the same level of respect for everyone (taxi drivers, homeless people, etc.).

If you’re all generous towards waiters and then you behave completely different in front of taxi drivers, he’ll notice it. Men are really case sensitive when it comes to this.

Gostam de ver mulheres que tratam toda a gente de forma igual, porque essas mulheres sabem o seu valor e não têm medo de mostrar o seu apreço por todos à sua volta, independentemente do seu estatuto.

5. O quanto confia no seu exterior

Todos sabemos que os homens são criaturas visuais e, por vezes, devido a esse facto, as mulheres esquecem-se de acentuar também o seu interior. Os homens reparam se se baseia apenas na sua aparência ou se tem muito mais para oferecer.

If you show your wild side and confidence, they will be intrigued by you, and you’ll undoubtedly capture their hearts.

Preocupar-se com a maquilhagem reflecte-se negativamente na sua confiança e acaba com toda a diversão.

6. Tens opiniões?

Se é o tipo de mulher que tem uma opinião sobre tudo e não se limita a acenar com a cabeça a tudo o que ele diz, ele vai reparar nisso.

If he sees that you have strong opinions regardless of the topic, he’ll see you as his equal, and he’ll respect you.

Men want to be challenged because it’s in their blood. They want you to tell them that they’re wrong, and they’ll do everything in their power to prove you differently.

And they’ll respect you for that because you’re forcing them to think and to become the best versions of themselves.