8 Coisas que uma mulher com autoestima de ferro deve fazer
Tu és uma MULHER. Tens de ter consciência do teu valor. You have to know that you’re more than good enough…For him, for everyone and everything.
You have to realize that you deserve everything you have and everything you wish for. You deserve even more than that. You deserve the world and you shouldn’t settle for any less than that.
Isto não é pura conversa de feminista. It’s a fact. Women carry so many burdens. We have to take care of so many people in our lives and we are loaded with even more responsibilities and preoccupations.
That’s precisely what makes us so brave and strong. That’s why I’m so proud that I’m a woman e tu também devias estar.
Conheça o seu valor próprio and have faith in yourself. Show the world that you’re one badass self-respecting woman! Here are some things you should do.
Nunca se compare com os outros
There will always be someone prettier than you or someone more intelligent or more successful. Don’t waste your time comparing yourself to others because you’ll get nothing out of that.
It won’t make you work on improving yourself. It will only make you bitter or envious. You don’t need that.
Think the other way; no one can be like you and that’s super awesome. Na verdade, há tanta beleza nas nossas diferenças.
Sentir pena de si próprio está fora de questão
A autocomiseração é o seu pior inimigo, por isso esforce-se por superá-la. Se alguém próximo de si lhe fez algo de mau, perdoe-o, perdoe-se a si próprio por ter confiado nele e deixe-o ir.
Pense positivamente e tente sempre ser a pessoa mais importante. A vida é bela. Haverá sempre alguns períodos difíceis, mas nada dura para sempre. Tudo pode ser mudado num minuto.
Don’t try to hide your flaws and imperfections
Your flaws are also part of you. Trust me, it is what makes you strong. Embrace them. Show others that you know you have imperfections like all human beings and that you’re okay with it.
Others may try to hurt you using your flaws because they consider them your weak point. By embracing them, you won’t allow them to succeed.
Don’t apologize for being yourself
You must have your own thoughts and opinions. You’re allowed to say how you feel. You have every right to disagree with others and have a different perspective on life.
Sabes quem és e nunca te arrependas disso. It’s called having self-respect. I know we all fear that other people won’t like it, but that’s their problem, not yours.
Don’t let your feelings control you
Amar alguém é a coisa mais bonita do mundo. Mas, saber que os seus sentimentos são recíprocos é ainda melhor. No entanto, às vezes, permitimos demasiado aos outros simplesmente porque os amamos.
Don’t put up with someone treating you badly just because you love them. Nunca deixes que os teus sentimentos te controlem. Isso nunca acaba bem, acredita.
Don’t allow anyone to tell you what to do
Women make so many mistakes when they’re in love with someone. The most common mistake is giving their power when they are in a relationship.
Deixamos que a pessoa que amamos nos diga o que fazer. Em breve, começamos a pedir permissão para tudo o que fazemos.
It’s your life only and only you have the right to make decisions about it. Sure, it’s good to hear some advice about certain things, but making the decision should be up to you alone.
Nunca esperar demasiado dos outros
Sometimes people aren’t ready to do the same things for you as you would for them and you should just make peace with that.
If you think that only your partner can make you happy, you’re wrong. Only you can. If you don’t lower your expectations, you’ll only be disappointed in the end.
Nunca olhar para trás
This is probably the most important thing on the list. Good things happen, bad things happen, someone broke your heart, someone left you…It just doesn’t matter.
It happened and now it’s gone. It’s past and leave it right there, no passado. Don’t continue hurting yourself by looking back at things that mean nothing to you anymore.
Mulheres como tu são tão raras hoje em dia. Truly, you’re like a rare diamond so continue to shine the brightest you can.
