Como chamar a atenção de uma rapariga e fazer com que ela te queira MUITO

In every single guy’s life, there are two important questions to be answered:

1. How to get a girl’s attention?
2. Onde está a minha cerveja?

Enquanto a última pergunta é relativamente fácil de responder (e de obter), a primeira é a mais difícil e é frequentemente seguida por estas duas perguntas: Como fazer uma investida numa rapariga? Como seduzir a rapariga que quiser?

Too many how to’s and not a single answer. Do you know what? I think it’s high time we change that!

My fellow friend, I daresay that you’re in luck because if there’s anyone in the world who can teach you how to get a girl’s attention, it is a woman, or should I say – myself.

I suppose I have already captured your attention with the second question where I mentioned (almost) every guy’s Holy Liquid known as beer. (Don’t get me wrong, I’m a female and I enjoy beer just as any other Holy Liquid lover.)

So, I think we shall get along pretty well. If you wanted to get my attention, a pint of beer would (probably) do the job, BUT (“prepare for disappointment”), this doesn’t work on every girl out there (or should I say on the girl you like).

É por isso, meu amigo, que tens de melhorar o teu jogo e aprender o que uma rapariga quer de ti e como podes faz com que ela te deseje mal pessoalmente, no Instagram, no Snapchat e através de texto!

And, don’t worry… in case you fail at mastering the art of capturing her attention and arranjar uma namoradaLembrem-se que têm sempre uma cerveja. (Eu sei, devia deixar de tentar ser tão bem-humorado e reconfortante).

How To Get A Girl’s Attention (And Keep It)

Impressione-a com o seu estilo

If anyone ever said to you that girls don’t care much about your looks, outfits, and similar, I feel obliged to tell you that this is a BIG lie!

Pergunte a si próprio em que é que repara primeiro numa rapariga? É o seu sorriso, a sua roupa e outros pormenores que captam a sua atenção?

Bem, a mesma coisa pode ser aplicada a si. So, if you want to get a girl’s attention, you need to make a good first impression! (I’m so excited about this sentence because it even rhymes!).

Get yourself a cool jacket, along with t-shirts and jeans. Spice your outfit up with a powerful watch, scarf, or ring (my, my… Johnny Depp surely knows how to rock those rings!).

Por outras palavras: Don’t just wear the first thing that comes to your mind, but rock your own style!

This doesn’t mean that you need to follow the latest fashion, but at least make an effort to find some interesting accessories and pieces of clothing to impress the girl you like!

Tornar a sua vida interessante e emocionante

Qual é a sua maior paixão na vida? Tem alguns passatempos interessantes? Se responder que é ver futebol, beber cerveja e jogar videojogos, então algo tem de ser mudado o mais rapidamente possível.

Truth be told, I have nothing against any of it. I like beer, I like video games, and I tolerate football. But, do you think that this is interesting and exciting enough and that it will surely capture her attention? And… I thought so.

Se souber tocar algum instrumento (de preferência a guitarra), metade do seu trabalho de chamar a atenção está feito.

E, se souberes fazer o teu próprio estilo, juro que já consigo ver a rapariga a apaixonar-se por ti à velocidade da luz!

Todas as raparigas sabem que os homens apaixonados são os melhores parceiros, por isso, se quiser arranjar uma namorada em tempo recorde, esforce-se por adquirir novas perspectivas e aprender coisas novas. Desfrute da vida e torná-la-á suficientemente sedutora para que ela queira juntar-se a si!

Encontre o seu perfume de assinatura (ou simplesmente cheire bem)

Girls love scents! If you want to get that one girl’s attention, then you will need to find your signature scent.

Find a perfume that perfectly describes your personality and lifestyle. I think that won’t be a challenging task given that the media is doing a great job describing every single perfume and the message behind it to us.

The reason why you need to do this is to implement the scent into the girl’s mind so whenever she smells something close to your scent, it will instantly remind her of you.

However, if you’re not really sure which perfume suits you best (or if you don’t have your favorite one and you know you never will), then just smell nice.

Any scent is better than no scent. I’m sure the character from the movie Perfume: A História de um Assassino concordaria comigo neste ponto.

Faça com que a sua presença seja conhecida e sentida

When you walk into the room, do you have a feeling that you’re invisible and other people don’t notice you and don’t even try to do so? Perhaps there’s a valid reason behind this.

If you’re having difficulties making your presence known and felt, this will reflect on how others perceive you as well.

If you don’t let others know that you’re being there at that moment, you will not get their attention.

Pior ainda, não conseguirá chamar a atenção dela! Se quer que ela repare em si, fale com dignidade e confiança, ande com confiança como um chefe e pense como um.

Show to the world that you know how to get any girl’s attention effortlessly and naturally. Until you become a master of this game, fake it till you make it!

Jogar psicologia inversa

They say that men fall in love with a woman’s absence, and not her presence. I’m sure the same thing can be applied to women as well.

I assume you already know what I’m talking about. Yes, I’m talking about the art of jogar duro para conseguir.

Faça-lhe muitos elogios, seja um verdadeiro cavalheiro, ouça atentamente cada palavra dela, mande-lhe mensagens com frequência e, depois, por um momento, um dia (ou alguns), deixe de fazer tudo isso.

Sabes o que acontece depois?

She will start asking herself what she has done wrong, she will feel like she lost something she didn’t even have, and she will become the one fighting for your attention!

Embora este jogo de psicologia invertida pareça brilhante, como sou uma pessoa que pensa demais, odeio-o do fundo do coração.

And, even though I perfectly know how it works, I fall into the same trap every single time. “The perks” of being a woman overthinker.

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Cuide bem de si

No matter what your hobbies are, or what your manners are, if you don’t take good care of yourself, the girl will not notice you.

Por cuidar bem de si, quero dizer ter uma boa higiene, dormir o suficiente, comer alimentos saudáveis, fazer exercício e afins.

If you’re feeling brave and determined, you might want to start practicing a estilo de vida holístico também.

Take a shower, brush your teeth, apply deodorant (but don’t overdo it), put clean clothes on, add a dash of perfume, and you’re ready!

You’re ready to conquer the world with your unique outfit, your great hygiene, and your aura! The thing is, taking good care of yourself will make you feel better about yourself.

Terá mais hipóteses de captar a atenção dela com uma mentalidade positiva do que com uma mentalidade negativa.

Fazê-la rir (sempre que puderes)

Interrogações como fazer com que uma rapariga o beije? Então, aprenda como fazer uma rapariga rir!

If you ask any girl out there whether they like to laugh at a guy’s jokes, their answer will be affirmative. Yes, we like to laugh at good, witty jokes and we praise this quality in every man.

A sério, o sentido de humor desempenha um papel importante quando se trata de chamar a atenção dela! Todos nós queremos divertir-nos e rir às gargalhadas, por isso, estar com alguém que nos pode proporcionar isso não tem preço.

And, don’t worry, you don’t need to be a stand-up comedian in order to make a girl laugh.

Tudo o que precisa de fazer é ser criativo e estar à procura de novas formas de mostrar os seus dotes humorísticos. Mas, como em tudo o resto, certifique-se de que não exagera.

Não ter esforço

Já alguma vez viu uma pessoa a andar na rua de forma apressada? Ou a apressar-se a dar uma resposta a uma pergunta? Essa pessoa é você?

If yes, then it’s high time you learn how to be perfectly effortless and attractive. Everything is about the little things (the way you talk, walk, treat others, and so on).

If you’re capable of doing all those things in an effortless manner, then you will be noticed. Ela vai certamente reparar em si, porque é uma caraterística poderosa.

There’s something truly magical about people who are capable of doing everything with little or no effort. They look spontaneous and inviting!

If you want to look that way, too, then it’s time to implement this effortless style into your daily life.

Shower her with attention (but don’t overdo it!)

A lot of guys make the common mistake where they shower the girl they like with full attention to the extent of spoiling her. Trust me, you don’t want that to happen to you.

Yes, it’s true: If you want to keep her, treat her like you’re still trying to win her. But, always make some space for her to doubt whether you’re still winning her or she’s the one winning you.

If you give a girl everything at once, she will not know how to appreciate it. The same thing goes for you guys. It’s just how human beings are wired.

You need to find the balance between spoiling her and showering her with attention. It will be hard (especially if you like her a lot), but it’s something that needs to be done.

Ser um cavalheiro

Um cavalheiro. Creio que os dicionários do futuro explicarão a palavra cavalheiro como um unicórnio que ainda ninguém viu, mas que toda a gente acredita que existe.

Se queres fazer do mundo um lugar melhor e devolver a esperança às gerações futuras, por favor, sê um cavalheiro. A moda vai e vem, mas as boas maneiras estarão sempre na moda.

If you’ve seen the series Peaky Blinders, then you know what I’m talking about. Ask any woman whether Thomas Shelby (from the series) caught their attention.

Aposto que todas as mulheres do mundo que viram a série (incluindo eu) casariam com ele imediatamente se ele lhes pedisse.

Being a gentleman is no longer a matter of manners, it’s about being different. In a world full of selfishness, disrespect, and impoliteness, choose to be different and treat girls like um verdadeiro cavalheiro.

This doesn’t only include opening doors for them, but it also includes being honest with them, finding time for them, protecting them, and making them feel special.

This will most DEFINITELY catch any girl’s attention. I can promise you that.

Ser protetor com ela

Here’s one of the most valuable pieces of conselhos para encontros de mim para ti, meu amigo: Proteja-a! Na verdade, este está em estreita ligação com o signo anterior.

If you want to catch her attention, then protect her with both your actions and your words. Don’t let other people take her for granted… ask her how her day was and just listen to her.

Basicamente, diga-lhe que se alguém a tentar magoar, terá de o fazer primeiro a si. Girls LOVE that. And, how wouldn’t we?

Sempre que penso num tipo que é protetor, imagino imediatamente alguém com aquela atitude machista de não se importar com o que os outros vão pensar dele.

Imagino alguém que é simultaneamente sensível para com aqueles de quem gosta e um mauzão para com aqueles que despreza (por razões válidas). Trust me, there’s nothing more powerful than that.

If you’re that guy (or if you become one), then you will not only succeed in catching her attention, but she will stick to you like glue!

Além disso, mostra-lhe o teu lado sensível

Many guys are scared of showing their feelings because they don’t want to appear weak in front of a girl they like. But, do you know what?

Girls don’t see you that way. Se lhes mostrar o seu lado sensível, eles não o julgarão, mas ficarão espantados com a sua força, porque é preciso coragem para mostrar a alguém o que se sente.

Another reason why you should do that is that you don’t want her to think that she’s dealing with an homem emocionalmente indisponível. If I suspect that I’m dealing with such a man, I instantly run away for life.

Embrace your masculine side, but don’t be afraid to show your sensitive side as well. If you do that, then every girl will see you as a real man and not as a boy who is scared of his own feelings.

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Provoca-a como um profissional

One of the fastest ways to get a woman’s attention is to tease her! No matter what she tells you and no matter how mad she is when you’re teasing her, know that she (secretly) enjoys it!

We love being teased because it’s fun and it gives us the opportunity to feel special and to pretend that we’re mad at you. Sounds silly, I know, but this is the truth.

Se quiser chamar a atenção dela, experimente dar-lhe uma alcunha engraçada ou pode apontar algo especial/engraçado sobre ela.

You can also mimic her. Pretend that you’re treating her like a child, or playfully disagree with her.

E, o melhor de todos (obviamente o meu favorito): Desafia-a! Desde desafios mentais a desafios físicos, ela vai gostar de ter a oportunidade de lhe mostrar como é espirituosa, inteligente e forte.

Mostre as suas capacidades

Porque eu sei que tu queres fazer isso. Na verdade, todos os homens querem mostrar a uma rapariga que gostam de como ele é forte e poderoso.

Querem competir com outros homens e, acima de tudo, todos os homens querem SER O VENCEDOR (ou, pelo menos, sentir-se como tal). Será que tenho razão? Claro que tenho.

If you want to catch a girl’s attention, you need to show her your talents, skills, and things you’re passionate about. And no, the fact that you can’t drink several beers in twenty seconds doesn’t count.

Show off your cooking skills, DIY skills, problem-solving skills, or anything else that you’re good at. If she needs help with lifting something heavy, be her Superman because I know how much you want it!

But, make sure that your showing off doesn’t turn into boasting. You don’t want girls to think that you’re superficial. Keep it classy.

Destacar-se da multidão

E, por amor de Deus, destaca-te da multidão! I think the rhyme is not a matter of coincidence here. Let me tell you something…

Todas as raparigas (a partir da adolescência) têm na cabeça a imagem de um rapaz que é conhecido nos meios de comunicação social como "O tal".

E, sabes quem é esse misterioso? Alguém que fará a sua vida, que estará lá para ela, que saberá exatamente o que fazer num determinado momento e que NUNCA a tomará por garantida.

Alguém que saberá como fazê-la sentir-se especial e alguém que lhe devolverá a fé nos encontros.
Basicamente, o que as raparigas querem é alguém que seja DIFERENTE. Alguém que as trate de forma diferente.

You can be the One, too. If you want to become that mythical creature, all you need to do is stand out from the crowd and show girls that you’re not like the rest of the guys.

A maneira mais fácil de o fazer é ser um cavalheiro (porque esses tipos tornaram-se uma verdadeira escassez). Pense nas formas como pode fazê-la sentir-se especial, e ela vai reparar em si!

FALAR menos, FAZER mais

Isto parece um anúncio para o ginásio. Na verdade, se fosse para o ginásio, soaria assim: Falem menos, olhem-se menos ao espelho e levantem mais peso!

Where were we? No, I’m not a certified dating coach, but I can tell you from my female perspective that women appreciate your actions more than your words!

You can tell them that you love them, adore them, that you’ll do anything for them, but if you don’t show it with your actions, then they will not believe a single word you have said to them.

So, my friend, the only way to get a girl’s attention is to do something nice for her, to keep your promises, to give her a compliment, and to do all those little things that are often overrated.

Lembre-se que real men don’t make excuses. Em vez disso, fazem um esforço. Seja esse HOMEM!

Ser confiante

A auto-confiança é uma grande atração! Quando se aumentar a confiança no seu núcleo, you’ll instantly become more successful in dating (or online dating) and your love life will flourish.

Não se esqueça de que a sua linguagem corporal (ou a falta dela) pode revelar muito sobre a sua confiança.

To show her that you’re feeling confident in your skin, you need to look into a girl’s eyes, keep your shoulders back, and keep your chin up.

Contacto visual prolongado é uma das formas mais poderosas de seduzir uma rapariga de quem gosta. Isto fará com que a rapariga se sinta especial e ligada a si. Mostra-lhe a confiança que tem em si.

How To Get A Girl’s Attention On Instagram

Segui-la antes de entrar nas suas DMs

If you want her to notice you, here’s a simple thing you can do right now: Follow her! And, if she follows back, boy, you’re ahead of the game!

Cada um de nós quer ter o maior número possível de seguidores no Instagram. Aparentemente, quanto mais seguidores tivermos, mais populares somos.

Even though I don’t really agree with this statement, I cannot deny the truthfulness of it.
Para além de contar o número de novos seguidores, ela vai querer saber que tipo de pessoas a estão a seguir.

Por isso, certifique-se de que o seu perfil do Instagram parece convidativo quando ela o verificar!

If you follow her before sliding into her DMs, then you’ll have greater chances that she’ll text you back because you’ll be approved and you’ll be one of her people – her followers.

Don’t like every single photo she posts

Yes, I know, Instagram abounds in attractive women of all shapes and sizes, but please, don’t like every single photo they post! Why?

Simples. Porque grita DESESPERADO and she’ll start assuming that you’re head over heels for her. You: Mas estou a fazê-lo.

Well, even if you are, you mustn’t show it to her (at least not so early). You don’t want her to friend-zone you or classify you as a creep. The thing is, women pay more attention to those who ignore them.

Not liking her every photo doesn’t exactly mean ignoring her, but it might motivate her to start asking herself why you aren’t liking her photos.

That fact will surely capture her attention! Also, she will see that you’re not desperate, but classy.

Envie-lhe uma DM atenciosa e interessante

E, quando decidires enviar-lhe uma mensagem, certifica-te de que o fazes como um chefe! O que é que isto significa?

It means that you shouldn’t be generic and send her corny pick-up lines like “I am not a photographer, but I can picture us together” ou mensagens de sexting para ela (when it’s still too early for that). Seriously? Don’t send that.

Instead, send her a thoughtful direct message where you ask her something about her life (something interesting you’ve noticed in her photos or in her captions).

By doing this, you’ll show her that you’re paying attention to details, and that you’re genuinely interested in her, not just her looks.

However, if you really “need to” send her a pick-up line, then melt her heart with frases de engate românticas como “My friend over there thinks you’re cute, but I disagree. I think you’re gorgeous.” Text a girl in an interesting way and you’ll win her in no time!

Don’t be creepy

Please, don’t be creepy or desperate because this is a huge turn-off and I’m sure you already know that. Don’t be creepy on dating apps, social networks, in person, you name it.

Uma forma infalível de se tornar um verdadeiro creep no Instagram é enviar-lhe várias mensagens de texto sem receber uma única resposta dela! If she hasn’t texted you back, then there must be a reason behind it.

Since we are pros at overthinking, trust me, we’re doing everything for a reason. If you see the word “Seen,” but no response, then don’t be tempted to send her multiple texts to get her attention.

You won’t get her attention, you will only make things worse. To sum it all up: Don’t be creepy and you’ll get her attention.

Instagram abounds with creeps and other not-so-inviting people, so showing her that you’re not one of them will certainly capture her attention. Sad, but true.

Elogie-a de uma forma única e criativa

“Cute girl.” “Pretty.” “Beautiful.”

If a guy compliments me using one of the above words (or similar to them), I immediately think of him as being totally uncreative, unoriginal, and boring. I mean, everyone can write “pretty.” What does that even mean?

The word “pretty” has become so overused that it has almost lost its original meaning.

Sure, every girl wants to know that she’s pretty, but she also wants to feel special and noticed for other reasons apart from her physical look.

How to compliment a beautiful girl’s picture?

Pay attention to all the details on her picture like what she is doing in the photo, compliment her choice of accessory and her natural beauty (but first, make sure she’s not wearing tons of makeup in the pic.).

Mais importante ainda, elogie-a por algo que a faça sobressair das outras pessoas. Isso fá-la-á sentir-se mais do que ESPECIAL.

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Don’t be repetitive

Here’s another “expert tip” written by a humble female: Don’t be repetitive. Seja interessante e imprevisível! Porquê? Porque as raparigas adoram isso.

Todas as raparigas sonham em conhecer aquele homem que as impressionará com a sua criatividade, perspetiva interessante e estilo de vida excitante.

We don’t like repetitive guys, especially those who always start a conversation with “Hey, what are you up to?”

To me, there’s nothing more annoying than that in the whole wide world. Há tantas perguntas interessantes para fazer a alguém e tantos temas interessantes, desde o sentido da vida até ao cinema!

Talk about things that provide scope for the imagination (yes, I’ve been watching the series Anne com um E há já algum tempo).

Don’t be superficial or shallow, but always have something exciting, thought-provoking, and funny in store.

How To Get A Girl’s Attention On Snapchat

Tirar a selfie perfeita

Selfies have become the most important tool for seducing and getting someone’s attention, BUT only if you do it right.

When you’re taking a selfie, are you looking into the camera or at yourself?

If you’re looking into the camera, then you’re doing it right. Why? Because you’re focusing on the person who is receiving the picture and not on yourself.

Pode optar por ficar giro ou durão nas selfies. As raparigas preferem ambas as versões, por isso talvez a melhor aposta seja dar-lhes ambas, mas não ao mesmo tempo.

Don’t overdo the selfie thing. Send her one interesting selfie and wait for her to reply to you. Who knows, perhaps she will send you a cute selfie back.

Criar ideias originais para histórias do Snapchat

As histórias tornaram-se um modo de vida, por isso aposto que a sua rapariga publica muitas delas no Snapchat. Adivinha? Esta é a oportunidade perfeita para enviar uma mensagem criativa ao escrever uma resposta à história dela.

Avoid texting something like “LMAO” or “HAHA”. This is not funny and neither is it interesting.

Se quer chamar a atenção dela, então tem de se destacar da multidão! Escreva algo engraçado, como uma pequena legenda para a fotografia dela ou algo espirituoso que a faça pensar.

If you do that, then she will surely remember you because you’re not one of those guys throwing “haha’s” wherever they (virtually) go.

You need to show her that you’re capable of making interesting conversations, and also making her laugh. More than anything in the world, girls like to feel connected to others, so give your best to make that happen.

Entrar nas DMs dela

Enviar selfies é uma excelente forma de captar a atenção dela, e entrar nas suas DMs pode ser igualmente eficaz. Mas, como sempre, lembre-se de não exagerar.

Don’t send her multiple texts if she’s not responding. Ser sedutor, but don’t be too flirtatious because you don’t want to scare her off.

Don’t ask too many questions, but also don’t send one-word texts because you want to keep the conversation going.

Don’t give her too much info about yourself because she might lose interest in you. Keep it light with a dash of mystery and excitement.

Quando começarem a ficar realmente envolvidos numa conversa, sugira que visitem o café (ou bar) mais próximo e continuem a falar lá. Afinal, este é o seu principal objetivo, certo? Pois é.

Ser criativo

Here’s one of the most valuable dating tips: Be creative! I know I repeated this multiple times so far, but I just want to make sure that you memorize the importance of being creative and original.

Quando se trata do Snapchat, pode mostrar o seu lado criativo de muitas maneiras!

You can change your voice, add some fun stickers, draw, you name it. You can play with a wide array of creative tools until your heart’s content.

E aqui vem a parte divertida (mas só para os corajosos)! Provavelmente já conhece os Mapas do Snapchat, que lhe permitem ver onde os seus amigos estão no momento.

Well, this feature can let you know where your crush is right now, see with whom they are, and also what they’re doing.

Now, here’s the challenge for the brave ones: Podes perguntar-lhe se te podes juntar a ela.

Perhaps she’ll like the originality of your idea and she will admire your courage. But, be prepared for potential rejection as well.

Lembre-se que menos é mais

Don’t send multiple snaps (especially if you know she won’t be very interested in seeing them in the first place). Be careful of the content you’re sharing with her.

If you know that she’s a feline lover, then you can record yourself playing with a cute cat, or take a selfie with that fluffy creature and send it to the girl you dig.

Se o fizeres, é muito provável que ela se derreta instantaneamente e te envie uma mensagem do género “Omg, you two look so cute!”

Acredita, se uma rapariga te disser que estás giro, já a ganhaste. Num mundo em que todos os rapazes tentam imitar um homem macho, parecer bonito é muito mais apelativo para as raparigas.

It will show them that you’re different, sentimental, and that you love cats (just like she does)!

O segredo está em descobrir o que vocês têm em comum. Depois de o encontrar, mantenha-se fiel a ele e conseguirá certamente chamar a atenção dela!

How To Get A Girl’s Attention Over Text

Manter a atitude positiva

Regra número um: Don’t text a girl when you’re in a negative mood. Imagina que envias uma mensagem de texto a uma rapariga de quem gostas, mais ou menos assim: “My day was so boring and I feel so lonely right now…”

Se me enviasse esta mensagem, eu responderia o seguinte: “Okay.”

First of all, keep in mind that the girl you like is not your venting buddy, so you shouldn’t text her when you’re in a negative mood because it will also make her feel down.

Em vez disso, o objetivo é manter as coisas positivas. Quer que ela sorria sempre (ok, quase sempre) que ler a sua mensagem e que associe as mensagens de texto consigo a uma atividade divertida e emocionante!

Tell her about that funny situation at your job, surprise her with your unique way of thinking, or share funny GIFs (when appropriate) and you’ll get her attention (and keep it)!

Ser brincalhão e sedutor

Regardless if you’re texting her on Tinder, Instagram, or something else, remember to keep things light. Stay away from serious conversations and focus on making the conversation as playful as possible.

Pense em alguns perguntas de sedução para fazer a uma rapariga quer impressionar, evite ser repetitivo e mantenha as coisas excitantes.

Even if she texts you something like “How was your day?” this doesn’t mean that you should reply to her in a serious, a.k.a., boring manner.

Keep in mind that the reason why she asked you that is because she’s the one who is feeling bored at the moment and she’s waiting for you to entertain her!

Por isso, seja brincalhão e sedutor. Entretenha-a e conseguirá a sua atenção de certeza.

Also, when she sees that you’re not taking yourself seriously and that you’re all laid-back and jockey, she will be more than willing to share everything with you.

If a woman is ready to share her thoughts and feelings with you, then you know you’ve done a great job, so keep up the good work.

Utilizar Emojis

I completely understand the fact that guys are not chat lovers… the only reason why they decide to text a girl is that they like her and they want to get her attention.

If you want to succeed in that attempt, then consider using plenty of Emojis (but don’t overdo it!).

Honestly, whenever I’m texting with um tipo que está a usar Emojis, I instantly feel more relaxed and, let’s say, special because he actually made an effort to express how he’s feeling at the moment.

Nem todos os homens estão preparados ou dispostos a fazer isso!

Os emojis dão a impressão de ser casual, descontraído e sedutor. Têm o poder de apimentar qualquer conversa, o que é ótimo.

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Ser descritivo

Uma forma infalível de fazer com que os seus textos pareçam aborrecidos é não utilizar palavras descritivas. Pense nas mensagens de texto como se estivesse a escrever um livro.

Of course, you’re not a legit writer (or maybe you are), but still, you need to keep in mind that the girl you’re texting is your reader.

Se lesse um livro desprovido de descrições vivas, continuaria a lê-lo? Suponho que não. O mesmo se aplica às mensagens de texto.

Ao descrever as coisas em pormenor, ajudá-la-á a imaginar tudo isso sem grande esforço. Mais cedo do que imagina, ela ficará ansiosa por receber as suas mensagens e por lhe enviar mensagens de resposta. Pode aplicar esta técnica sempre que quiser deixá-la com vontade no futuro.

Ser espontâneo

Don’t worry too much about punctuation. Don’t be one of those people who have the uncontrollable urge to correct their every single misspelled word.

It’s okay if you do it from time to time, but doing it constantly will only let her know that you’re either seeking perfection or you’re uma pessoa reservada.

You don’t want her to think that of you. You want her to see you as a spontaneous person who doesn’t care about one letter extra or a misspelled word.

De facto, há algo de especial nos homens que sabem ser simples.

Escolher temas de conversa interessantes

You certainly don’t want to talk about politics with the girl you like.

Of course, you can talk about that later once you get to know each other better, but avoid such things and similar topics when you’re texting her for the first time or if you haven’t known her for a long time.

Em vez disso, escolha temas de conversa interessantes sobre a vida, animais de estimação, talvez o emprego de sonho dela, etc. Certifique-se de que o seu perguntas para o primeiro encontro também são interessantes.

DON’T KEEP TEXTING HER IF:

• She hasn’t responded to your last text: If there’s one thing you should avoid when it comes to texting, it is envio duplo de mensagens de texto. If she hasn’t responded to your last text, then don’t text her again. Don’t send her multiple texts either.
• Ela envia-vos frequentemente textos de uma palavra: If you ask me, one-word texts exist for a reason. When you’re not interested in texting with someone, you just send a one-word text and make it impossible for the other person to keep the conversation going. If you keep sending novel-length texts even after she has sent multiple one-word texts to you, then know that you just messed up big time.
• Ela disse-te para não lhe mandares mensagens: I think there’s no need for me to explain this one.

(And, don’t forget to) Just Be Yourself!

Dominar a arte de How to get a girl’s attention não se trata apenas de vestir a melhor roupa ou de lhe enviar mensagens da forma mais criativa possível, mas também de sermos nós próprios.

Yes, you should definitely follow the above “rules,” but you should also keep in mind that the only way to win a girl is to be genuine. Be different. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” – Oscar Wilde