É assim que se consegue que um homem confesse o que sente por si

Passa cada vez mais tempo com ele, sente-se nervosa e excitada sempre que o vai ver, mas ainda não aconteceu nada.

Sente-se como ele gosta de si and there are signs that he does, but he simply isn’t making that first move.

You’re wondering how you should play this to get him to tell you he likes you. Follow our advice and you’ll soon know how he feels.

Divertir-se com ele

You’re at the very beginning so keep things light, breezy and fun. Show him how interesting you are to make him want to explore things further with you. 

Relax and use this flirty, exciting period as best you can. Nothing beats the beginning of a crush and the excitement you feel when you’re not certain how you feel about each other.

Usa toda essa adrenalina para te divertires ao máximo.

Listen to him and don’t be judgmental

Se quer que ele confesse que tem sentimentos por si, tem de o fazer sentir-se suficientemente confortável para se abrir e ser vulnerável ao seu lado. 

Ouça com atenção quando ele decidir contar-lhe a sua vida e as suas experiências e tente ser o mais compreensivo e amável possível.

Se espera que ele confie em si o suficiente para lhe dar a conhecer os seus sentimentos, faça-o sentir que pode.

Mostre que se preocupa com os interesses dele

Todos os rapazes gostam de uma rapariga que se preocupe com os seus passatempos e se interesse pelas coisas de que ele gosta.

Of course you shouldn’t pretend to like something you don’t, but I’m sure there’s something – otherwise you wouldn’t like him at all.

Show him that you’re interested in the things he loves and suggest doing them together if you think that it could be something you’d enjoy.

Expressar gratidão pelas coisas que ele faz

Os homens querem sentir-se apreciado. Para que ele se sinta suficientemente à vontade para partilhar os seus sentimentos consigo, mostre o seu apreço e gratidão pelas coisas boas que ele faz por si.

Allow him to feel good about himself when he’s around you.

Preste atenção à sua linguagem corporal

A guy who really likes you will show you he does, even if he doesn’t tell you directly. His face and body will face you, his eyes will be wide open when you’re speaking and he’ll be slightly smiling almost constantly.

Even though he hasn’t directly told you he likes you yet, he’s already told you with his linguagem corporal. Try to be as approachable to him as he is to you and show him that you’re responding positively to his feelings.

Começar a prestar um pouco de atenção inocente ao seu amigo

If this has been going on for a while now and it doesn’t seem like he’s going to make that first move, you can try this little trick.

Speed up his “getting brave enough to tell you’’ process by innocently flirting with his friend. He’ll get scared that he might lose you if he waits for too long and will finally make a move.

Don’t let him know you like him too soon

You don’t want him to be too sure of your feelings for him, so it’s best to keep him guessing.

I’m not saying you should pretend to be an ice queen, but don’t be too open about your feelings, the same way he isn’t open about his.

Mantenha-o intrigado e com dúvidas, para que ele não tenha outra alternativa senão confessar os seus sentimentos para descobrir os seus.

Pergunte-lhe diretamente e de uma forma muito gira

If you’re usually really straightforward or you’re getting tired of waiting, you can simply confess your feelings and ask him about his.

Make sure you don’t make this too serious, and choose a charming, playful approach instead.

Wait until you’re enjoying a fun moment together and say something like: “You kinda like me, right?” or “I really enjoy everything we do together, I hope you do too.”

Nesta situação, um rapaz que goste realmente de si responderá da forma que espera, partilhando as suas emoções consigo.

Seja sempre você mesmo

Make sure you don’t seem desperate for his attention and don’t ever do anything that isn’t who you are just to get his attention.

You want him to like you for who you are, not to like a version of you that’s completely fake.

Don’t get lost in the game of making him like you and remember that you’re looking for um homem com quem pode ser você mesma.