Como deixar uma rapariga excitada (O único guia de que precisa)

És um daqueles homens que pensam que deixar uma rapariga excitada é canja? Acha que as raparigas pensam da mesma forma que os homens quando se trata de fazer amor?

Reserve algum tempo para refletir sobre o assunto antes de continuar a ler.

I know you didn’t take some time because you’re curious about what I’m going to write next which is good because it means you’re interested in the topic. I’ll try to be as clear as possible:

NO, women don’t experience arousal the same way men do. Deixar uma rapariga excitada não é uma coisa aleatória que se faz com pouco esforço.

Deixar uma rapariga excitada é uma arte em si, e os verdadeiros homens sabem disso.

I’ve seen men bragging about themselves, thinking that this or that will make a girl fall for them in record time.

I’ve seen men ignoring women thinking that playing hard to get will make them wet. (Love this rhyme.)

I’ve seen men wasting their time accentuating trivial things like their biceps, triceps, or bank accounts. Don’t get me wrong. Some women are turned on by a six-figure salary, but the majority of them aren’t.

If you think that all this time you’ve been doing it wrong (and even if you don’t believe that), it’s high time you step up your game and learn how to make a girl horny the right way!

Caros homens: Para a maioria das raparigas, dormir com alguém tem um significado muito mais profundo do que podem imaginar.

This is going to be really challenging for me, but I’ll try to explain physical intercourse from a girl’s perspective.

Here’s the thing, men. When we see a good-looking guy, we don’t immediately get horny (well, most of us don’t) or express a will for him to jump into our pants and make us his goddess.

A hot, handsome, good-looking guy is just that. He’s nice to look at, and he’s a great source for our wild imagination.

But would we really throw ourselves at such a guy without him lifting a finger? I don’t think so.

Quando se trata de aprender como deixar as mulheres molhadas, é preciso entender uma coisa: It’s all about the amount of EFFORT you put in.

You could be the hottest guy on the planet with a six-figure salary, but if you don’t know how to treat a woman the way she deserves and desires, you will not make her wet. It’s as simple as that.

Again, there are exceptions, but I’m talking about the majority of women out there.

Agora, acha que uma rapariga se apaixonaria instantaneamente por si se lhe dissesse algumas das seguintes coisas: OMG, you’re so pretty. You’re really hot. Do you find me handsome? I would like to get to know you better (if you catch my drift)…

Yes, it’s flattering to know that you think of us being pretty or hot, but this doesn’t make us horny at all.

Actually, words don’t play an important role when it comes to deixar uma rapariga excitada.

It’s all about your actions. It’s all about making a girl feel special.

Então, como é que se faz uma rapariga sentir-se especial? Aprendes a lista definitiva de perguntas sujas de cor e recitá-las à frente dela?

Bem, perguntas sujas e mensagens de sexting para ela pode certamente ajudar deixá-la excitada, but you shouldn’t overdo it or rely only on that one source.

The best way to make a girl feel special is by showing her that you’re different from the rest of the men out there. You make a girl feel special by paying attention to her personality and not only her looks.

Uma mulher quer ser escutada.

Uma mulher quer ser cortejada.

Uma mulher quer ser cuidada.

A woman wants to know that you’re making a damn effort.

Achas que pagar-lhe a renda a vai deixar excitada? Ou comprar-lhe aquela peça de joalharia cara? Certamente, estes são alguns dos métodos favoritos de excitação preferidos pelas garimpeiras, mas não pelas raparigas comuns.

Então, como é que se faz uma rapariga sentir-se especial?

Simples. Em vez de a encher de presentes caros, exprime o desejo de a conhecer melhor.

You accentuate her personality’s unique traits and let her know how different she is from the rest of the girls out there.

You pay her a compliment or two, but you don’t overdo it. Most importantly, you don’t rush her into anything but give her some space to make her own decisions.

Did I mention courting? Given that I have so much to say about the importance of courting, I’ll make another heading just for that purpose.

COURTING – the forgotten art of seduction.

Quando alguém menciona a palavra cortejar, o que é que lhe vem à cabeça? Imagina cerimónias à moda antiga, como falar com o pai dela antes de decidir passar ao nível seguinte e dormir com ela?

Forget all about that. I’m talking about modern-day courting. I’m talking about the things that any man can do for a woman regardless of his bank account, social status, or anything else.

I’m talking about the little things that mean so much to every woman.

Tanto a corte antiga como a moderna incluem ser um cavalheiro. Então, como é que exibe os seus traços de cavalheirismo em frente a uma rapariga que quer deixar excitada? Simples.

Trata-a como sua amiga. Investe tempo para a conhecer melhor. Faz-lhe perguntas com sentido e mergulha em conversas profundas em vez de conversa fiada.

De facto, a importância de uma conversa profunda é muitas vezes subestimada no mundo dos homens.

É claro que deve estar equipado com alguns coisas sujas para perguntar a uma mulher no seu jogo de sedução, mas também deve encontrar alguns tópicos interessantes que lhe permitam saber que é um tipo brilhantemente criativo.

Through meaningful conversation and other courting elements, you are establishing a connection with that one girl. And, trust me, without a connection, you’ve got nothing.

Estabelecer uma ligação = deixar uma rapariga excitada.

Now, let’s go back to what we mentioned in the beginning. We talked about how women experience physical attraction differently.

They might notice a good-looking guy who hits the gym every single day and knows tons of big words, but he won’t be able to make them horny just with his physical appearance.

Se um homem não conseguir estabelecer uma LIGAÇÃO EMOCIONAL com uma mulher, não conseguirá excitá-la.

Como é que funciona uma ligação emocional?

Simple. (I really like using that word.) Now, imagine that you’re on a date and only talk about yourself, your achievements, personality, goals, etc.

Obviously, if you’re only talking about yourself, a woman won’t be an active participant in the conversation.

Uma ligação emocional consiste em permitir que uma mulher se expresse, ouvi-la atentamente e retribuir. It is about stimulating a woman’s mind instead of her body.

Actually, by stimulating a woman’s mind, you indirectly stimulate her body because it is really hard for a woman to experience arousal without feeling an emotional connection.

By simply asking her how her day was, you are letting her know that you care about her and you’re interested in what is going on in her life.

Now, you don’t need to learn her whole life story from her childhood until today, but it’s important that you show some interest in her personal life.

Recently I’ve been texting with a guy who would shower me with nice words and compliment my passions.

No matter how many times he repeated that I’m an inspiration to him, what really made me attracted to him was his Atitude de cuidado.

Antes de terminar uma conversa, dizia sempre algo do género: Até logo, pequeno tesouro. 4 p.m.; a minha hora. (Vivemos em dois continentes diferentes).

This is something I haven’t experienced with other guys. They would seldom be so determined about hearing me again because most guys consider texting a pain in the ass. But not this guy!

He would even text me to ask if I could talk to him in between his meetings. How wouldn’t I feel ultimately special?

A guy who always makes sure to let you know how much he cares about you is a guy who can stimulate a woman’s mind in no time!

I thought to myself: Damn, this guy REALLY cares about me given that he tries hard to make me feel special; he always finds time for me and doesn’t get in touch with me only when it’s convenient for him.

Be that guy. Treat a woman like she’s the only girl in the world when you’re courting her, and you’ll make her horny in no time.

Namorisque com ela, seja espontâneo e, acima de tudo, seja gentil com ela. Evite exibir a sua masculinidade ou gabar-se dos seus feitos.

Of course, you can mention some things you’re really proud of, but don’t let that be the main topic of your every conversation.

Se queres deixar uma rapariga excitada, tens de fazer um esforço, observar a sua linguagem corporal e ouvi-la. Isto ajudá-lo-á a estar sempre um passo à frente do jogo.