Cómo poner cachonda a una chica (La única guía que necesitarás)

¿Es usted uno de esos hombres que piensan que poner cachonda a una chica ¿es pan comido? ¿Crees que las chicas piensan igual que los hombres a la hora de hacer el amor?

Tómese un tiempo para reflexionar antes de seguir leyendo.

I know you didn’t take some time because you’re curious about what I’m going to write next which is good because it means you’re interested in the topic. I’ll try to be as clear as possible:

NO, women don’t experience arousal the same way men do. Poner cachonda a una chica no es algo aleatorio que se hace con poco esfuerzo.

Excitar a una chica es un arte en sí mismo, y los hombres de verdad se dan cuenta de ello.

I’ve seen men bragging about themselves, thinking that this or that will make a girl fall for them in record time.

I’ve seen men ignoring women thinking that playing hard to get will make them wet. (Love this rhyme.)

I’ve seen men wasting their time accentuating trivial things like their biceps, triceps, or bank accounts. Don’t get me wrong. Some women are turned on by a six-figure salary, but the majority of them aren’t.

If you think that all this time you’ve been doing it wrong (and even if you don’t believe that), it’s high time you step up your game and learn how to make a girl horny the right way!

Queridos hombres: Para la mayoría de las chicas, acostarse con alguien tiene un significado mucho más profundo de lo que puedas imaginar.

This is going to be really challenging for me, but I’ll try to explain physical intercourse from a girl’s perspective.

Here’s the thing, men. When we see a good-looking guy, we don’t immediately get horny (well, most of us don’t) or express a will for him to jump into our pants and make us his goddess.

A hot, handsome, good-looking guy is just that. He’s nice to look at, and he’s a great source for our wild imagination.

But would we really throw ourselves at such a guy without him lifting a finger? I don’t think so.

Cuando se trata de aprender cómo mojar a las mujerestienes que entender una cosa: It’s all about the amount of EFFORT you put in.

You could be the hottest guy on the planet with a six-figure salary, but if you don’t know how to treat a woman the way she deserves and desires, you will not make her wet. It’s as simple as that.

Again, there are exceptions, but I’m talking about the majority of women out there.

Ahora bien, ¿crees que una chica se enamoraría de ti al instante si le dijeras alguna de las siguientes cosas? OMG, you’re so pretty. You’re really hot. Do you find me handsome? I would like to get to know you better (if you catch my drift)…

Yes, it’s flattering to know that you think of us being pretty or hot, but this doesn’t make us horny at all.

Actually, words don’t play an important role when it comes to excitar a una chica.

It’s all about your actions. It’s all about making a girl feel special.

Entonces, ¿cómo hacer que una chica se sienta especial? ¿Aprendes la lista definitiva de preguntas sucias de memoria y recitarlas delante de ella?

Bueno, preguntas sucias y mensajes sexting para ella seguramente puede ayudar ponerla cachonda, but you shouldn’t overdo it or rely only on that one source.

The best way to make a girl feel special is by showing her that you’re different from the rest of the men out there. You make a girl feel special by paying attention to her personality and not only her looks.

Una mujer quiere que la escuchen.

Una mujer quiere ser cortejada.

Una mujer quiere que la cuiden.

A woman wants to know that you’re making a damn effort.

¿Crees que pagándole el alquiler se pondrá cachonda? ¿O comprarle esa joya tan cara? Ciertamente, estos son algunos de los métodos de excitación preferidos por las cazafortunas, pero no por las chicas normales.

Entonces, ¿cómo hacer que una chica se sienta especial?

Sencillo. En lugar de hacerle regalos caros, expresa tu deseo de conocerla mejor.

You accentuate her personality’s unique traits and let her know how different she is from the rest of the girls out there.

You pay her a compliment or two, but you don’t overdo it. Most importantly, you don’t rush her into anything but give her some space to make her own decisions.

Did I mention courting? Given that I have so much to say about the importance of courting, I’ll make another heading just for that purpose.

COURTING – the forgotten art of seduction.

Cuando alguien menciona la palabra cortejo, ¿qué le viene a la mente? ¿Te imaginas ceremonias anticuadas como hablar con su padre antes de decidir pasar al siguiente nivel y acostarte con ella?

Forget all about that. I’m talking about modern-day courting. I’m talking about the things that any man can do for a woman regardless of his bank account, social status, or anything else.

I’m talking about the little things that mean so much to every woman.

Tanto el cortejo antiguo como el moderno incluyen ser un caballero. Entonces, ¿cómo exhibir tus rasgos de caballero delante de una chica a la que quieres poner cachonda? Muy sencillo.

La tratas como a una amiga. Inviertes tiempo en conocerla mejor. Le haces preguntas significativas y entablas conversaciones profundas en lugar de charlas triviales.

De hecho, la importancia de una conversación profunda suele infravalorarse en el mundo de los hombres.

Por supuesto, debe estar equipado con algunos cosas sucias que preguntar a una mujer en tu juego de seducción, pero también deberías encontrar algunos temas interesantes que le hagan saber lo brillantemente creativo que eres.

Through meaningful conversation and other courting elements, you are establishing a connection with that one girl. And, trust me, without a connection, you’ve got nothing.

Establecer una conexión = poner cachonda a una chica.

Now, let’s go back to what we mentioned in the beginning. We talked about how women experience physical attraction differently.

They might notice a good-looking guy who hits the gym every single day and knows tons of big words, but he won’t be able to make them horny just with his physical appearance.

Si un hombre no puede establecer una CONEXIÓN EMOCIONAL con una mujer, no conseguirá excitarla.

¿Cómo funciona una conexión emocional?

Simple. (I really like using that word.) Now, imagine that you’re on a date and only talk about yourself, your achievements, personality, goals, etc.

Obviously, if you’re only talking about yourself, a woman won’t be an active participant in the conversation.

Una conexión emocional consiste en permitir que una mujer se exprese, escucharla atentamente y corresponder. It is about stimulating a woman’s mind instead of her body.

Actually, by stimulating a woman’s mind, you indirectly stimulate her body because it is really hard for a woman to experience arousal without feeling an emotional connection.

By simply asking her how her day was, you are letting her know that you care about her and you’re interested in what is going on in her life.

Now, you don’t need to learn her whole life story from her childhood until today, but it’s important that you show some interest in her personal life.

Recently I’ve been texting with a guy who would shower me with nice words and compliment my passions.

No matter how many times he repeated that I’m an inspiration to him, what really made me attracted to him was his Actitud cariñosa.

Antes de terminar una conversación, siempre decía algo como: Hasta luego, pequeño tesoro. 4 p.m.; mi hora. (Vivimos en dos continentes distintos).

This is something I haven’t experienced with other guys. They would seldom be so determined about hearing me again because most guys consider texting a pain in the ass. But not this guy!

He would even text me to ask if I could talk to him in between his meetings. How wouldn’t I feel ultimately special?

A guy who always makes sure to let you know how much he cares about you is a guy who can stimulate a woman’s mind in no time!

I thought to myself: Damn, this guy REALLY cares about me given that he tries hard to make me feel special; he always finds time for me and doesn’t get in touch with me only when it’s convenient for him.

Be that guy. Treat a woman like she’s the only girl in the world when you’re courting her, and you’ll make her horny in no time.

Flirtea con ella, sé espontáneo y, lo más importante, sé amable con ella. Evita alardear de tu masculinidad o presumir de tus logros.

Of course, you can mention some things you’re really proud of, but don’t let that be the main topic of your every conversation.

Si quieres poner cachonda a una chica, tienes que esforzarte, observar su lenguaje corporal y escucharla. Esto le ayudará a ir siempre un paso por delante.