5 maneiras simples de ser uma esposa melhor e construir um casamento feliz
Se alguma vez se sentiu perdida no seu papel de esposa, sem saber como o fazer feliz e melhorar a vossa relação, este livro é para si!
As mulheres e os homens são diferentes em termos das suas necessidades e formas de pensar, pelo que we often don’t realize what they really want e esperam de nós.
I’ve been there, confused and not knowing how to navigate these new waters. What does he really want? How can I make him happy but still not lose myself in the process?
It’s important to know that being a devoted wife doesn’t mean forgetting about yourself or not staying true to yourself. It’s just about creating a better environment for everyone.
É preciso perceber que understanding a man’s needs is like unlocking a secret weapon to an amazing marriage you’ll both be satisfied with! And trust me with this one, because I’ve seen it all!
Depois de anos de casamento, de ouvir as opiniões dos meus amigos, da minha família e até de especialistas em encontros, aprendi que há 5 maneiras simples de melhorar o seu casamento e de se tornar a mulher dos sonhos dele!
1. Deixem-no assumir a liderança!
I’ll be honest with you, I’ve always been a control freak. So naturally, I felt the need to control my marriage as well or as some people say be the one to wear the pants in a relationship.
No entanto, aprendi que agir dessa forma não é bom para nenhum de nós. Deixá-lo assumir a liderança mostra-lhe que confia nas suas capacidades e decisões but also lets you be in your feminine energy. It’s a win-win situation!
This has been a game changer for us and brought balance and respect to our marriage. Men simply love to be our heroes but also need appreciation for what they do for us, so don’t forget about that!
2. Mostrar apreço e ser respeitoso
You love it when he’s thankful for everything you do around the house so it doesn’t go unnoticed, right? Well, he loves that too!
Don’t only show appreciation for big gestures, but small ones as well. Se ele levar o lixo para a rua sem que tenha de o chatear, agradeça-lhe!
I realized that once I started showing appreciation and happiness when he’s doing those small things, like bringing home flowers or cleaning with me, he does them even more often because he sees how much it means to me.
O mesmo se aplica ao respeito! É preciso fazer-lhe saber que valoriza as suas opiniões even when you don’t agree with them. Besides this, always respect him and don’t do something you wouldn’t like him to do!
3. Faça da sua casa um lar
Mais mulheres precisam de perceber que, embora as tarefas domésticas sejam da responsabilidade de ambos os parceiros, são elas as responsáveis por fazer da sua casa um lar.
Since we all love spending our time in the home decor aisle at Target, this shouldn’t be a problem! Faça da sua casa um lugar para o qual terá sempre prazer em voltarcomo o seu próprio refúgio de paz.
But don’t think it’s only about decorating your place with candles and family pictures. It’s also about filling your home with love, positive energy, and peace.
4. Ser o seu porto numa tempestade
Life can be hard. However, everything is a bit easier when you have someone you can rely on during those times. Sometimes he’s stressed about work, maybe there’s family drama, or he’s worried about some big decision.
Seja qual for a situação, tem de estar sempre presente para o ouvir e apoiar. Ele precisa de saber que pode sempre recorrer a si quando a vida se torna difícil and you’ll be his safe place.
I used to brush my husband off whenever he talked about work problems thinking it’s no big deal since everyone experiences it.
Só quando ele finalmente ficou demasiado sobrecarregado e se abriu é que percebi que estava sob demasiada pressão. Quando comecei a ser mais compreensiva e a levá-lo a sério, a nossa ligação tornou-se muito mais forte!
5. Don’t be stingy with affection and intimacy!
Sometimes couples lose a spark that keeps their marriage alive, especially if they’ve been together for years.
It’s important to know that esta é a base para uma relação saudável and it should always be your priority. And no, I’m not only talking about divertir-se no quarto. O afeto pode ser demonstrado de muitas formas!
Cuddle on your couch, hold hands while you’re walking, and give him lots of hugs and kisses whenever possible! I think people forget about these fundamental things after some time, and that’s a huge mistake.
You’re not doing all of this for him, you’re doing it for yourself too. Of course, everything goes in both directions, and ele também deve retribuir e ser um bom parceiro. Don’t be anyone’s doormat, but show love where it’s deserved.
