Deixe-o ir e guarde-se

É difícil, mas tens de o fazer. Vais ter de o deixar ir.

I know that the pain of missing someone is sometimes harder than holding onto someone and getting hurt all over again. You’ll have to do it anyway.

There’s no point in holding onto things that keep hurting you. Things that destroy us are not love.

Therefore, you have to let it go to save the only person you can save – yourself.

You have to protect your heart. What you’re missing isn’t him, it’s just your memories of the good days and how it used to be.

O momento em que começamos a pensar em como as coisas costumavam ser é muitas vezes o momento em que, involuntariamente, admitimos a nossa derrota.

Reminiscing on the old days is one of the proofs that something in the relationship isn’t right.

We change, and as we get older, we’re less naive. It’s easier to spot toxic patterns when you’re sober from infatuation.

Why would you hold on to someone who’s not worth it – someone who doesn’t appreciate you or understand you?

Por que razão se agarraria a algo que sabe, no fundo do seu coração, que não é a coisa certa para si?

Sometimes we’re scared to admit that what we once called love isn’t love after all.

We risked all that we are and ended up losing ourselves for something that wasn’t even real.

It’s time for you to put the thing into perspective. Things that happened to you are not curses. They are not tragedies.

Everything bad that happens to us is a learning experience. If we don’t like where we are, we can move on from it. That includes him.

Progress is never a result of a perfect life. It’s the result of failures, pain, and our willingness to learn from them.

As coisas que lhe aconteceram são empurradas noutra direção. Uma direção melhor.

Every so often, life puts an obstacle before us, just to remind where we’re going.

Olhe à sua volta. É isso que queres? Pensar sem parar no que aconteceria se, por uma vez, se defendesse?

Give yourself a chance. You’re a strong woman, even if that’s not how you think of yourself now.

Letting go is an act of courage. That hope you feel inside yourself that won’t let you let go – save it for yourself.

Pára de comprometer o teu valor. Deixa a dúvida de lado. Confie no seu instinto. Decida ouvir-se a si próprio e veja o que acontece.

Admitting the truth to ourselves is always the hardest thing. You have to admit you’re the only person that can save you. And guess what? That means you’re going to make it.

A mesma paixão e determinação que o levaram a lutar pela sua relação irão agora transformá-lo na melhor versão de si próprio. Deixe-se ser quem é.

Open your eyes and see that you’re enough. Avoiding pain and unpleasant emotions isn’t courage; facing them is.

Growing isn’t comfortable because it’s new. It’s something you’re yet to explore. It’s not safe. It’s saying no to fear and stepping into something that will better you.

Stop looking for things you need in all the wrong places when you can find it all in yourself. You’re the one you need.

When you find yourself, that’s when the right person will come. You can’t be completed when you’re lost, and you can’t complete others when there’s no you.

When standing proudly in who you are, that’s when the right person can see you.

Keep yourself, for that’s the most precious thing you have. You’re irreplaceable, unique, and good enough as you are.

Nem num milhão de anos haverá alguém como tu. Faz um favor ao mundo e valoriza-te a ti próprio.

Make sure nothing stands in your way. What’s keeping you from having what you want is letting go.

Deixando-o ir. Abandonar as expectativas. Deixar a dúvida de lado.

What brings you closer is deciding the only thing you’re going to fight for is you. Because you deserve nothing less.

As dificuldades e a dor são chamadas de atenção. Comece agora, tire o melhor partido disso, e por favor:

"Deixa-o ir; guarda-te.” (Shrijan Shreyaans)