33 maiores inconvenientes que não podem ser ignorados

1. Quando um parceiro espera que estejas sempre presente quando ele precisa de ti, mas nunca pensa em fazer o mesmo por ti. Ter de pedir tudo é uma desilusão.

2. If they are unable to say they’re sorry. If someone is unable to apologize when they do something wrong, it’s childish and unattractive.

3. Quando um parceiro parece ter ilusões sobre a sua própria personalidade. Pensa que é um tipo de pessoa quando na realidade é completamente diferente.

4. Quando falam demasiado de si próprios e nunca ouvem as suas histórias ou o que tem para dizer sobre a sua vida. When they don’t let other people speak in general or show no interest in anything unless it has come out of their own mouth.

5. When a partner is too needy. I love being there for my loved one, but if they expect me to be there for them all the time and whine if I’m not, it’s a huge turnoff. Have a life even when they aren’t around, and I intend to keep it that way.

6. Quando dizem coisas só para as dizer. Quando fazem promessas porque soam bem, mas nunca fazem nada das coisas que prometem fazer.

7. When they share the most intimate details of your relationship or stuff you’ve told them in confidence with their friends or family.

8. When they stereotype. If someone judges others based on their skin color, sexual orientation, religion, or gender – that’s unacceptable to me.

9. E também quando julgam os outros com demasiada severidade sem olharem primeiro para si próprios.

10. When you’re excited about something or in a super amazing mood – whether you have a reason for it or not – and they put you down. Porque é que eles fariam isso? Estão incomodados com a sua felicidade?

11. When they have low self-esteem it’s a huge turn-off. If you feel like you always have to carefully watch every word you say so you don’t hurt their feelings, that’s way too much drama.

12. When they don’t know how to have an adult conversation or argue in order to resolve an issue. Quando gritam sempre ou se vão embora de forma imatura quando as coisas correm mal.

13. When they’re so full of themselves and think that you’re lucky to have scored them at all.

14. When they don’t act like you’re a team. Also, when they don’t support you in front of others or don’t defend you if others talk about you behind your back.

15. Quando fazem batota ou pensam que fazer batota é bom. Mentir também.

16. When you think about your relationship and realize that you’re the only one making plans and initiating things, and they just let go and don’t really do any work.

17. When they always have to talk or do something. If a person can’t be with you sitting silently and doing nothing from time to time, it just gets annoying.

18. Quando são demasiado negativos. Todos nós nos queixamos aos nossos parceiros e partilhamos as nossas emoções negativas, mas ter constantemente uma atitude negativa em relação a tudo é demasiado.

19. When they have no clear opinions about anything. It’s okay not to have an opinion on everything, but having no thoughts at all about the world is such a turnoff.

20. Quando falam demasiado dos seus ex. If a partner insists on discussing their past relationships and just goes on and on about them, there’s your red flag right there.

21. When your partner is that kind of person who’s willing to cause a fight intentionally because they are bored at that particular moment and that is their way of bringing a spark and passion into the relationship.

22. When they think it’s okay to call you names. I just find this to be a huge turn-off: if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.

23. When they don’t give their partner time alone. It’s okay to want to be with that special someone all the time, but if your partner gets mad because you went out with friends, or decided to watch a movie with family, that’s just a huge turnoff.

24. If they don’t have any ambitions in life. Being casual and free I get, but having no ideas and dreams about how your life should look is not attractive. I sure can’t imagine myself in your future if you can’t imagine me there.

25. If they don’t have a sense of humor and don’t know how to take a joke. Taking stuff way too seriously is not fun.

26. Quando mastigam muito alto e não têm maneiras quando estão a comer ou no seu comportamento em geral.

27. If they are unable to express their emotions at all. Some people can be more of a closed book and that’s fine, mas nunca partilhar nada sobre o que sentem contigo faz com que te sintas completamente excluído do seu mundo.

28. When they don’t take care of personal hygiene. Seriously, what’s with that?

29. Quando uma pessoa é tão obcecada com o dinheiro, ou gasta demasiado para se exibir, ou é demasiado rigorosa com o seu dinheiro e nunca paga nada.

30. Quando são aborrecidos. If there’s nothing about a person that’s special or out of the ordinary, I just can’t see myself being attracted to them.

31. Quando são mal-educados com o pessoal de serviço. Isto é tão embaraçoso e faz com que nunca mais queiramos sair com eles.

32. When your partner thinks it’s okay to make fun of others. Being a bully is not attractive.

33. When they try to make you jealous, and it’s so obvious they are doing it on purpose.