É por isso que fizeste com que ela amasse outra pessoa

“I was told not to hurt the heart of whom I care. But when I was so busy taking care of that heart, I didn’t notice my own was bleeding…” ~ Desconhecido

Cometeste um grande erro.

You’ve lost the most precious thing in the world. And it’s all your fault.

Tomou-a por garantida.

You weren’t paying attention to anything she said. Mantiveste-a por perto só para te divertires—you were bored so you decided to have ‘fun’ with her. You wanted someone to occupy your thoughts. You were never serious about her.

E o que se passa é que ela estava a falar a sério sobre ti. Ela queria dar-te o seu coração numa bandeja de prata. O que se passa é que ela nunca te tomou como garantido. Ela estava lá para ti sempre que precisavas dela.

Nunca estiveste presente quando ela precisou de ti.

You gave her zero emotional support. The thing that makes your ‘love story’ even sadder is that you knew what she had been through. She told you her life story and when you heard it, you cried your eyes out. Porque é que essas emoções fortes desapareceram de repente? They weren’t gone—they never existed.

You told her you will take care of her—you will cherish her. But, somehow, your words faded away as your relationship grew. Although you knew she went through hell and back and she’s finally happy now (at least she thought so) with you, you betrayed her.

Cometeu os mesmos erros que o anterior.

Negligenciou-a e colocou as suas necessidades SEMPRE before hers. You never compromised. Your word was the final one. She cried so many times because of you. She cried so many times because of the guy before you—and she left him. You did the same thing—you drove her into the arms of another man.

Fizeste-a amar outra pessoa.

She is a strong woman—nada a pode deitar abaixo. She still hopes she will take that hopeful leap with someone into a happy future together. She never lost hope—she will always keep trying. She is a fighter.  

That’s why you didn’t break her. She is much more than you thought.

You made her love someone else because you made her think she’s not important.

You made her think she was just a casualty—something along the way, something that kept you occupied. You made her think she is just a small spectacle of dust in the large and vast universe—at least you tried to make her think that. You failed.

You see, she is the kind of person that will put up with you and give you a lot of second chances—but only to a certain point. Then, she will cross you out like you never existed and she will move on.

To her, you will become a shadow—someone that she used to know but forgot. And she is not sorry. She doesn’t hold any grudges. She understands you are the way you are and it’s not up to her to change you. Only you can do that—but you are too weak to admit it to yourself. You will never change.

You’ve lost ela porque ignoraste o seu coração e negaste-lhe uma oportunidade de felicidade.

You’ve lost her because she is not afraid to take what she wants and needs—and she needs someone with which to share all the love she has.

Fizeste com que ela amasse outro de cada vez que lhe falhaste.