É simples: Se ele não está a perseguir-te, não quer estar contigo

É difícil ser honesto consigo próprio quando as suas emoções estão à flor da pele. Ouve-se o que se quer ouvir. Repara nos sinais de que ele está interessado em si, mesmo que eles não estejam realmente lá.

You do everything to convince yourself that he cares. Maybe it’s a bit less than you do, but still there are some feelings there.

But there aren’t any, not genuine feelings at least. He might like you.

He might drop by when it’s convenient. He might give you crumbs but he will never be all in.

It’s simple really, and we shouldn’t complicate things. If a man wants you, he will pursue you.

If he doesn’t, he might be living across the street, and he would still find excuses not to see you.

The desire to pursue is incorporated into a man’s DNA. He will go after the one he wants, and he will do the impossible to be by her side.

If he doesn’t, he is not interested in having a real and committed relationship.

It’s just that it’s so hard to be aware of that sometimes. Not just because you are so in love that you can’t see clearly but because most men want something, but they don’t want everything.

Assim, eles >Enganar-vos . Servem-vos mentiras e sabem todas as palavras certas para vos fazer ficar ao seu lado.

Dar-te-ão o suficiente para te segurares, mas nunca o suficiente para saberes que os seus corações são apenas teus.

He will have his charming days. Days in which you’ll be sure he’s totally into you. Then he will flip the story upside down.

He will forget to text you, sometimes even for days. He will come by when it’s convenient. He will get mad without a reason.

E sentir-se-á confuso com tudo isto. Terá um milhão de perguntas a passar-lhe pela cabeça.

Tentarás chegar ao fundo das coisas. Vai questionar-se e até começar a pensar que foi algo que fez.

Stop! He’s not worth it. He’s not worth your time. He’s not worth the chase.

There’s no point in going after someone who always has one foot out of the door.

There’s no happiness with a man who is not one hundred percent sure about his feelings for you.

Don’t be a woman who waits for his text as if her life depended on it. Don’t let him come in and out of your life as he pleases.

Don’t let him treat you like a doormat. Don’t settle for less than you deserve.

Your feelings aren’t toys he can play with. Your mind isn’t something that he should mess with.

Your body isn’t at his disposal. Don’t let him think that for a second.

Ser uma mulher que sabe o seu valor. Seja confiante. Seja corajosa. Seja independente.

Tome a sua vida e a sua felicidade nas suas próprias mãos.

Never allow a man to waste your time. Don’t wait for him to change. He never will.

Be the one who doesn’t measure her value by her relationship status. Be the one who knows that being single is always better than putting up with a crappy relationship.

Don’t deny yourself the right to be with someone who can give you that old-fashioned type of love the one in which a man courts you and stops at nothing until he makes you his.

No, this way of thinking is not a fairy tale. It’s true, and it exists. It’s just that you don’t see it because of the all wrong men that surround you.

Espere pela história de amor em que um homem lhe mostra que está interessado em si. Aquela em que ele planeia com antecedência. Aquela em que ele se lembra de enviar mensagens.

Aquela em que ele encontra tempo. Aquele em que ele te mostra como és importante. Aquele em que ele te persegue.

That’s not too much to ask. You deserve a real love story with a man who is devoted to you.

You deserve someone who will respect you and be there for you at all times. You deserve someone who accepts your flaws and doesn’t rub your nose in them every time he feels like it.

Mereces alguém em quem te apoiar, um homem que seja o teu maior apoiante e que te inspire a fazer grandes coisas.

Mereces o amor que te faz sentir segura. Mereces o verdadeiro, não algo falso e temporário.

Don’t put up with >Sinais mistos e pouco esforço. Deves ser a sua prioridade, não uma opção.

You should be his destination, not a stop along the way. Remember that, and don’t fall for his lame excuses.

Rest assured that the man you are supposed to end up with will pursue you. He won’t complicate things and make your life a living hell.

Ele mostrar-te-á que o amor nunca é forçado. Flui sempre naturalmente do coração dele para o teu, e vice-versa.