8 erros que as pessoas cometem quando percebem que o relacionamento está errado, em vez de simplesmente terminá-lo

Todos nós devemos estar conscientes do facto de que nem todas as relações são feitas para durar para sempre.

Sometimes you’ll realize that your relationship isn’t going the way you wanted it to and the only thing to do, a única opção razoável para siseria acabar com ele imediatamente.

Yes, that might hurt your partner but trust me, if you drag it out some more and pretend that everything’s okay, you’ll hurt them even more.

Here are some things, some very wrong things, that people do when they realize that their relationship isn’t the real deal.

A única coisa que conseguem é magoar profundamente o seu parceiro.

Começam a evitar o parceiro

They don’t want to open up to their partner and speak directly about their problems, so they don’t know how to behave around them.

Pensam que evitar o parceiro é a sua única escolha.

They want to seem distant to their partner as they think that is going to make them break up with them first and that they’ll be less hurt.

It’s so wrong. Uma comunicação honesta é sempre a melhor escolha que se pode fazer.

O jogo da culpa está a começar

Começam um jogo de culpas com o seu parceiro e, de alguma forma, ganham sempre. A cada desentendimento ou problema na relação, começam a culpar o parceiro.

They never want to admit when they have made a mistake or seek their partner’s forgiveness; instead, they always want them to apologize first.

Só querem pressionar a pessoa amada e deixá-la com uma única opção, que é acabar com ela.

They tell other people they’re single

They start behaving like they’re single and they tell their friends and family that they’re no longer in a relationship.

They probably think that it’s going to be less painful for their partner to find it out from other people but the fact is, it’s going to hurt them even more.

Estão sempre a criar dramas desnecessários

They’ll start arguing with their partner over some stupid little things.

Their partner won’t be able to please them anymore and no matter what they do or say, it won’t be good enough for their other half, who’s using these sneaky ways to put an end to their romantic relationship.

Com todo este drama desnecessário, só querem criar um ambiente emocional tóxico e fazer com que o seu parceiro termine a relação.

Fazer ciúmes ao parceiro é agora a sua principal função

If they’ve been in a relationship for some time, then they know their partner and the things that bother them the most.

If their partner has always been a little bit jealous, that’s the first thing they’ll use.

They’ll tentar fazer-lhes ciúmes first with some small things, like hiding their phone or going out every night but then if that doesn’t work, they’ll start flirting with other people in front of them.

Cortam a comunicação

They’ll start avoiding them as much as they can. They’ll start canceling plans or stop going to the places where they go.

But the thing that’s going to bother their partner the most is that they’ll try to cut off all communication they had.

They’ll stop replying to their calls and messages, even though they’ll be active on their social media, and we all know that can make us all crazy.

Qualquer tipo de abuso está envolvido

Esta é a pior. Como é que abusar de alguém emocionalmente ou de qualquer outra forma pode ser mais fácil do que falar com essa pessoa e dizer-lhe diretamente que quer acabar com ela?

If you ever even cared for that person, you won’t allow them to go through that.

Sobreviverão à rutura e curar-se-ão dela mais cedo ou mais tarde, mas a O abuso emocional vai deixar consequências no seu coração e mente para o resto da sua vida.

Começam a ver outras pessoas

Break up with your other half, leave them via a message or any other way you can but don’t ever cheat on them and start seeing other people while you’re still in a relationship.

It’s easier to be direct with someone even though it’s going to hurt them than to live with knowing that you broke someone’s heart just because you weren’t man enough to tell them the truth.

Quando se trata de romper com alguém, especialmente se soubermos que essa pessoa ainda nos ama, não há mentiras brancas ou formas fáceis de a deixar.

There’s only one way; to be honest with them and tell them how you really feel and that the best thing for both of you would be ending your relationship.

Yes, someone will be hurt but that’s the only way neither one of you will be left with a broken heart.