Estas 4 crenças tóxicas são o que o está a impedir de encontrar o amor

Todos os casais do mundo têm os seus problemas. Não se deixem enganar pelas publicações nas redes sociais.

Uma fotografia é um momento no tempo, mas uma relação real é um compromisso muito mais longo.

So don’t be too hard on yourself. Everybody out there is just trying to make it work to the best of their ability.

Alguns conseguem, outros acabam por seguir o caminho mais difícil.

But at the end of the day, we’re all in the same boat, and when it comes to love, we all struggle.

Ninguém está imune à auto-depreciação e a uma ocasional perda de fé na ideia do amor.

Even that one couple that seems to have it all, I assure you, they don’t.

Ninguém vai lavar a roupa suja em público, e o que se vê nem sempre é a realidade.

Keep that in mind the next time you feel everybody’s got their shit figured out but you.

If you’re struggling com a descoberta do amor and you’re being too harsh on yourself, please don’t. If you’re not kind to yourself, how can you expect somebody else to be?

Apague esses pensamentos tóxicos que estão a atormentar a sua cabeça neste momento e tente encontrar uma forma mais positiva de lidar com a sua situação, porque as coisas melhoram.

A sua situação atual não é o seu destino final!

Decida agora mesmo mudar a sua mentalidade e tire estas 4 crenças tóxicas da sua cabeça, porque elas são a única coisa que o impede de encontrar o amor!

1. Não és digno de ser amado

Adivinha o quê? Sim, tu és!

You’re only human, so cut yourself some slack. We can all be a bit selfish, impatient, and rash.

Todos nós cometemos erros e más decisões que estragam a nossa vida.

But we also know that nobody is perfect, and neither are you. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to find your amor verdadeiro! A sério que sim!

Once you realize that everybody just wings it most of the time and nobody really knows what the fuck they’re doing, you’re going to see that you’re doing so much better than you actually think you are.

2. És péssima a ser namorada

Okay, so you may have had a few failed relationships… but, who hasn’t?

Name one person you know that has it all figured out and hasn’t once fucked up their relationship. I’ll wait.

You can’t, can you?

That’s because being perfect is a myth and has nothing to do with actual reality! We are all deeply flawed.

We all tend to screw up every now and again, but that doesn’t mean we suck at relationships.

All it means is that we’re all learning as we go, and the same goes for you.

If you don’t feel like you’re good at relationships, you probably haven’t met a guy that’s right for you yet.

Com o homem certo, you’re not going to feel like a failure, trust me.

Don’t let a bad relationship and an ill-fit boyfriend convince you otherwise.

3. If it’s not simple and easy, it’s not worth the bother

And that’s where you’d be wrong. Nothing good and worthy in this life will ever come easy. When has it ever?

Everything that’s going to make a dent in your life for the better is going to require some hardships and challenging days.

But just because it takes a lot of effort to get to that place, doesn’t mean it’s not worth it.

It means that once you get past all the difficult stuff, you’re going to enjoy it that much more profoundly.

Fight for things that matter to you. Never give up at the first sign of trouble because if you do, you’re never going to get to your happy place.

Don’t be afraid of a challenge. Embrace it, work on it, and never give up if you can’t go a day without thinking about it.

4. There’s nobody out there for you

If I had a nickel every time I thought that, it’d be swimming in dough.

Everybody goes through a rough patch where it seems like you’ve tried everything and there’s simply nobody out there for you.

You’re not even sure if it’s worth putting yourself out there anymore.

But it is! There are so many people in this world that it’s simply ridiculous thinking you’ll never find your “one.”

It’s going to take time and effort, and yeah, at times, you’ll lose hope… but that’s exactly when you should try even harder.

It can’t be worse, right? So what have you got to lose if you believe in yourself for just a little while longer?

You’d be surprised how far a little faith in yourself can take you.

Chances are, when you stop the active pursuit of finding your match, you’re going to have the best chances of doing so.

Let your guard down, live your best life, and don’t give up on yourself yet.

Saia, dance a noite toda e mantenha-se positivo.

1One day, he’s going to just pop up in front of you, ask you for a dance, and you won’t know what hit you.

Life really does work that way. So let go of the toxic beliefs you’ve convinced yourself of, and give yourself the benefit of the doubt.

You’re pretty amazing; you just need to believe in yourself for a change, then the world is going to seem much less daunting, and full of endless possibilities. Promise!