Faça com que ele te queira mais usando estas 5 palavras simples
Temos tendência a complicar as coisas quando se trata dos assuntos do coração, embora tudo pudesse ser triste com algumas palavras simples.
Nem sequer temos consciência de como tudo o que dizemos afecta as outras pessoas. Elas também podem não ter consciência disso.
Let’s face it—who has the time to think about what someone said and what they meant by it?
Mas, a um nível subconsciente, eles captam o que está a dizer e sentem todas as boas vibrações a chegarem-lhes.
Por isso, quando se quer alguém está interessado em to want you more, don’t go all philosophical on them.
Há 5 palavras simples que funcionarão como um encanto e aumentarão as suas hipóteses de os afetar:
“ YOU”
We are not even aware how much power is hidden behind a simple word like ‘you’. How are YOU? What do YOU want to do?
Do YOU want to go somewhere with me? Did YOU get home safely? And so on…
When we use ‘you’ often in our conversation with the person we are into, we are letting them know that we want to include them in our lives.
Ao fazê-lo, estamos a demonstrar a nossa atenção e o nosso desejo.
Não está lá apenas por causa das suas próprias necessidades e desejos. Está a deixar claro que também se preocupa com ele.
Se ele estiver a fazer o mesmo por si, a vossa relação está no bom caminho.
“I”
Just because you are into someone it doesn’t mean that you should lose your sense of self. That’s why “I” is probably the most important word.
Just because you start using the word YOU more frequently doesn’t mean that your individuality, hopes, dreams and desires should go down the drain.
Stay true to who you are. Make yourself happy and satisfied with your life, and be with someone who will add to all of that. Be with someone who wants you for you, and don’t settle for anything less.
Lembre-se que as relações são feitas para dois, por isso lembre-se de dar a mesma atenção a si e a mim.
“YES”
“YES” is a word that immediately evokes positivity.
By saying “YES” to new things and ideas you make your life richer with experiences, and by default, it makes you more interesting to the opposite sex.
Let’s face it—looking on the bright side and being optimistic is what draws people to you. Life is hard as it is, and nobody needs additional pessimism brought into their lives.
So say ‘yes’ when someone asks you out, when they want to go on a road trip in the middle of the week or for a midnight walk in the park, and see how your luck turns for the better.
“NO”
At first glance, “NO” is a negative word, but when you look at it’s deeper meaning, it can be even more positive than “YES”.
NO means standing up for yourself, having your boundaries and knowing the things you won’t tolerate. NO means not allowing anybody to treat you as a pushover.
Precisa de um homem que a trate como igual, que a trate com respeito e que invista tanto como você na relação.
Por isso, nunca deixe que ele a trate como um capacho e atreva-se a dizer NÃO. O homem certo respeitará isso imensamente.
Chose wisely when to say ‘YES’ and when to say ‘NO’. They are both so simple yet such powerful words.
“THANKS”
‘Thanks’ is the word we tend to forget so often. We forget to notice the little things, and take somebody’s goodness and care como garantido.
We should always find time to say ‘thank you’ when anybody does something nice for us, not just to the people we care for.
Os homens gostam especialmente de ser reconhecidos pelos seus esforços. Certifique-se de que pára, repara e sempre say ‘thank you’.
