Pessoas Miseráveis: 19 hábitos de pessoas cronicamente infelizes
Life will not always be easy. There will be some bad times and we’ll all have to deal with them. The only way we can make it easier is to be an optimistic person, someone who always believes that better times will come.
Pessoas miseráveis seem like they can’t understand that everything in life is temporary.
Those bad periods in your life won’t last forever. Your problems will be solved and then coisas más voltará a acontecer porque a vida é um círculo.
Se está atualmente a lidar com algum coisas más in your life, you should be patient and have faith because good times will come soon. You don’t have to worry about them because your perspective is what really counts.
How you look at your problems is what’s important and that’s why you should always choose to be happy. Choose to see something positive in every situation. See only the best in others. Hope always for the best.
Pensar positivo. Seja otimista em relação a tudo na vida. Escolha enviar apenas coisas boas vibrações to other people. That’s how you’ll always be happy in life.
Unfortunately, some people can’t think like this. They are always miserable and they don’t think that they can help themselves or change it. Being miserable has become their modo de vida. That’s why you should be careful.
O vibrações they’re sending out are somehow addictive. Pessoas negativas gostam de fazer os outros sentirem-se infelizes e sabem, a miséria adora companhia.
Eis alguns hábitos de pessoas miseráveis. Para o seu bem-estar e bom saúde mentaltente evitar pessoas que tenham alguns destes hábitos.
1. Nunca vêem o lado bom de nada
An eternal pessimist always hopes for the worst. Even if everything is good, they’ll try to find something bad in it and they’ll enjoy it.
Optam por transformar um olho cego to everything that is good and right in this world. Their perspective of the world is miserable and that’s what also makes them miserable.
They’ll always point out only the coisas más in every situation because that’s what makes them happy, in their own weird way.
2. Criam uma identidade negativa
They weren’t born this way. Something happened to them and it made them create that whole new identity for themselves.
Algo aconteceu-lhes algo de mau no passado e deixou-os com problemas de autoestima. Pode até causar-lhes sentimentos de ansiedade e depressão.
They weren’t strong enough to fight those feelings and they let them define them. They let those feelings create a negative identidade para eles. Tornou-se uma pessoa tóxica, cheia de emoções doentias.
3. Andam sempre à bulha
É claro que, de vez em quando, podemos ter alguns desentendimentos com algumas pessoas, mas esses desentendimentos crónicos pessoas infelizes vontade provocar brigas do nada, só para deixar outra pessoa infeliz também.
They won’t even fight about important things, they’ll choose something irrelevant and absurd. Because for them, the only thing important is to fight with someone; the reason isn’t so important.
It’ll be difficult to stop that fight because they won’t stop until they finish their purpose—to make that other person miserable.
4. São motivados apenas por ganhos pessoais
Nunca ajudam os outros se ganho pessoal isn’t involved in it somehow. The word ‘help’ just isn’t in their vocabulary.
They’ll do everything to get what they want. They don’t pay attention to other people and they don’t care if they hurt others.
Their personal interests are most important to them. They don’t like to please others because they are selfish and self-centered.
5. São egoístas
We are all a little bit selfish at times. Sometimes we need to be a bit selfish to protect what’s important to us but if selfishness is one of your personality traits, then you are a miserable pessoa.
An egoist prioritizes their own needs over someone else’s. They don’t care about other people, their bem-estar is what’s only important to them.
They don’t have an understanding of the needs of other people. They aren’t generous and they don’t do things for other people if that doesn’t involve ganho pessoal.
6. O seu maior receio é a perda económica
Pessoas miseráveis are always greedy. Money is one of the most precious things to them. They don’t realize that money is a material thing and it won’t fazer-vos felizes.
You’ll never see them participating in charity events because they consider those events stupid. They aren’t generous and you won’t see them giving their money to anyone, not even to their partner.
Têm sempre um grande fundo de poupança e nunca fazem nada com esse dinheiro.
Pensam que as férias são um luxo para eles e nunca gastam dinheiro em viagens ou férias. Limitam-se a poupar dinheiro porque são gananciosas e querem sempre mais.
7. Têm inveja das pessoas bem sucedidas
Other people’s success makes them envious. Detestam quando vêem que alguns dos seus amigos ou pessoas que conhecem tiveram sucesso em alguma coisa.
They’ll never have any good comments on that; they’ll just try to find and point out all the negative things about someone else’s success.
Invejam o seu sucesso porque pensam sempre que são os únicos que merecem ter sucesso. Por mais estranho que pareça, eles acreditam que o seu boa sorte rouba aos seus.
8. Comparam-se sempre com as outras pessoas
It seems like some people can’t understand that we are all unique individuals and that we all have different lives.
Pessoas miseráveis don’t appreciate anything and no matter how good their life is, they’ll always be jealous or envious of other people’s lives. They just can’t help themselves with those feelings.
Someone will always be more successful, richer or more famous than them and comparing their life with someone else’s will only make them realize it and bring them more misery.
9. Gostam muito de coscuvilhar
We have to be honest and say that we all love to gossip sometimes and that’s perfectly normal as long as that doesn’t happen every day.
Gossiping about other people’s lives a toda a hora é um hábito de pessoas miseráveis. The truth is that other people’s lives are more interesting to them than their vidas próprias.
Passam horas a fio nas suas redes sociais contas, espiando outras pessoas só para poderem coscuvilhar sobre isso mais tarde.
10. Estão sempre aborrecidos
Nothing is ever adventurous enough for them. They don’t like to try new things and that’s why they feel bored all the time.
They complain about it all the time but they don’t want to do anything about it. They want everyone to know how bored they are and when someone suggests that they do something, they immediately resent that person.
Nunca participam em actividades de tempos livres com os amigos, porque gostam de estar deitados em casa o dia todo e todas as pessoas que lhes são próximas já se habituaram aos seus comentários sobre o seu aborrecimento.
11. They can’t admit their mistakes
Todos nós somos seres humanos e todos nós cometemos erros, mas também devemos admitir os nossos erros e pedir desculpa por eles.
An apology is unfamiliar to these kinds of people and you should never accept one from them. They don’t think that they can make mistakes and if they have made one, they would never admit to it.
If you’re the one who made a mistake, then they’ll expect you to apologize immediately and they still won’t forgive you that fast. They’ll expect you to prove to them that you are truly sorry.
12. Culpam os outros
After they have made a mistake, it will be easy for them to point their finger at someone else. They won’t mind lying because lying is easier for them than admitting that they are wrong.
De facto, pretendem culpar outra pessoa por todos os coisas más na sua vida como seu inteligência emocional deixa-os jogar o jogo da culpa com os outros.
It takes courage to admit that you are wrong and that you’ve made a mistake. These people aren’t that strong and that’s why they choose the easy way—shifting the blame onto someone else.
13. Querem ter o controlo
Se tiverem um parceiro, tentarão controlar a sua vida. They’ll want to have control over every single thing in their life.
They would like to know more about their partner’s life than they should because they’ll think that they have every right to it.
Os seus inteligência emocional is high and they’ll first use it to make their partner dependent on them; then they’ll be able to have complete control over their life.
They crave control. They think it’s how they’ll prove to themselves that they are a real alpha.
14. They don’t trust anyone
Maybe someone hurt them in the past and those past hurts still hold them back so they don’t think that they should trust anyone.
They consider that no one is trustworthy and they’ll use your secrets against you sooner or later, which is why they don’t have so many friends.
They don’t think that they would survive confiding in someone and then getting their trust broken again. For them, it’s safer for them to keep it all to themselves.
15. Nunca querem ter uma conversa séria
They are afraid of responsibility and every time you ask them to have a serious talk, they’ll find a way to avoid it.
They are always satisfied with their life and they don’t want to change things so often; in fact, they are afraid of change.
A primeira vez you ask them to have a serious talk, you’ll see how nervous they’ll look. They won’t immediately have an excuse ready but you’ll see that they’ll manage to successfully avoid the conversation.
16. Estão sempre à procura de atenção
They are like little kids. They’ll behave so silly just to be in the center of attention, as it’s important for them to feel important.
Todos nós queremos e precisamos de um certo grau de atenção. No entanto, há que estabelecer um limite. Pessoas infelizes don’t know when to draw the line. They will always be prone to attention-seeking behavior.
17. Nunca estão satisfeitos com a sua aparência física
They always have a negative body image and they don’t like anything about their looks. It affects their self-esteem and makes them feel miserable.
Estão sempre a comparar-se com os outros e têm ciúmes de todas as pessoas que têm um nariz mais bonito do que elas ou que são mais bonitas ou mais belas.
Essa inveja é o que torna a sua vida miserável. Deus criou todas as pessoas diferentes e únicas e haverá sempre alguém mais bonito ou mais jeitoso do que tu.
Só se deve concentrar em si próprio e em criar a melhor versão de si próprio, mas isto é algo que pessoas miseráveis can’t understand.
18. They don’t have any plans for the future
They don’t like to make any plans for the future. They are pessimistic about the future and they always think of the worst.
They overthink every decision they make and that is how they actually create problems that don’t exist. It’s like they can’t accept the fact that there are good things in life and that those good things are happening to them.
Overthinking doesn’t allow them to enjoy qualquer situação da vida.
They don’t have any expectations in life because they think those expectations would always lead to disappointment and suffering. They are living empty lives, without any dreams and goals.
19. They don’t want to improve
They are never satisfied with anything in life. They don’t like their job, they hate their looks and nothing in their life seems to be right.
Still, they don’t want to do anything about those things. They will complain about those things every day but they’ll never be ready to change anything.
Para terminar
‘A man’s as miserable como he thinks he is’ says Seneca. Being miserable is a choice. If you decide to be truly happy, no one can make you miserable; only you have control over your feelings.
Algumas pessoas escolherão sempre ser pessoas miseráveis, porque têm perspectivas pessimistas e gostam muito de ser cronicamente infelizes.
Don’t try to help those people because they don’t want to change. They are addicted to their misery and it has become their modo de vida.
It’s easy to recognize these people because you’ll immediately feel the negative vibrações coming from them. That’s why you should try to avoid these kinds of people because their vibrações pode ser contagioso.
Life is short, don’t waste your precious time around people who have negative energy. Ignore them. Don’t let anyone’s negativity ruin your happiness.
