Namorar alguém que não quer saber de si

E estou a falar a sério. Esqueçam tudo o que leram até agora. Pára de esperar que o homem certo apareça. Quem sabe se ele está mesmo a chegar?

If you don’t believe me, keep on reading. I know but I’m dead serious.

Namorar com alguém que te trate como merda, alguém que doesn’t give a damn about you. Namora com um completo idiota!

Don’t look for a man who will take care of you and worship the ground you walk on.

Don’t date a man who will love you at your most unlovable. Forget about that! Don’t live in denial.

If you still don’t believe me… juuuust keep on reading!

You should date someone all of your friends hate. Someone who’s so not for you.

Shock everyone with your choice. Make them think that you’ve gone insane.

Find someone who’ll never call to say he misses you. Someone who couldn’t care less whether you’re seeing him or not.

Find someone who won’t care that you’re crying because of him and actually won’t even care what he says in front of you or if it hurts your feelings.

Namore com alguém que nunca se esforçará para que vocês os dois consigam, alguém que seja totalmente indiferente.

Encontra um homem que te faça sentir como um pedaço de merda sem valor. Alguém que te faça duvidar de ti própria e da tua sanidade mental.

Namorar um homem que nunca pedirá desculpa pelas coisas que lhe fez. Alguém que não tem interesse na sua vida e toma-o por garantido.

Confia em mim, sai com um homem assim.

Fall head over heels in love with him. Pretend you’re blind to everything he does to you and make excuses for him because you don’t want to admit that he is nothing but a piece of shit.

Try to change him and pretend it’s working even though you know that he will never really become someone else.

Fica ao lado dele e sacrifica as tuas próprias necessidades e a tua vida pela dele.

Believe that he is going to turn his life around and one day he will thank you and love you for the rest of his life. Be in complete denial, it’s great!

Ama-o mesmo quando ele está no seu pior. Mostra-lhe que te preocupas quando ele é o maior idiota do planeta.

After you’ve done everything, fall apart. Take as long as you need to grieve and cry as many tears as you like. Break up with him and take care of your broken heart.

Culpa-te a ti próprio por seres um idiota e não veres o que é um idiota manipulador ele é. Culpa-te por teres caído nos seus truques.

Odeia-te a ti próprio, se for preciso, por teres acreditado nas suas falsas promessas. Imagine e interrogue-se sobre o que teria acontecido se tivesse feito as coisas de forma diferente.

Odeia-te e culpa-te por deixares que ele não queira saber de ti.

But… and this is why you had to keep on reading to understand…

One day, nothing will hurt anymore. You’ll find the strength to move on. You’ll pick up your broken pieces and you’ll put them back together.

You’re going to be as good as new except for one little thing. Memories of him will haunt you. You will remember all the things he did to you.

But they won’t hurt as much. They will remind you of what you’ve been through and you will not do it ever again. They’ll remind you of everything you don’t deserve.

You have to date someone who doesn’t care about you because when you date someone who treats you poorly, you’ll realize that is not how you deserve to be treated.

You’ll see what you want and what kind of a man you need by your side. You’ll know exactly what to look for and whom to date.

You won’t waste any more of your time on fuckboys, manipulators, and players because you’ll know how to recognize them, first-hand.

You won’t be scared anymore of the little girl inside who wants to make everyone feel good.

You’ll turn into a stronger person who wants to take care of herself. Someone who knows what she wants and how she’ll get it.

Date someone who doesn’t give a damn about you, because when you see what it’s like, you’ll never let anyone like that get near you again. You’ll never settle for less than you deserve.