Não há problema em continuar a sentir algo por ele, mesmo que tenha seguido em frente

After spending years and years convincing yourself that he would change, you’ve finally moved on, and thank God for that. You’ve saved yourself from many disappointments and much heartbreak.

You still aren’t aware that leaving him is the best decision you’ve ever made and that’s because you still have feelings for him. That’s perfectly normal and you should not feel bad about it.

Unfortunately, you can’t make your heart stop loving him.

It’s all so confusing for you. You hate him but at the same time, you still care for him and have some romantic feelings for him.

You know that it’s not the same love you used to feel, but it’s still something deep and strong.

It’s perfectly normal to feel the whole range of emotions – from love to hate – because forgetting someone who was your entire world doesn’t happen overnight.

Isso leva tempo. E tu precisas de tempo porque o amaste verdadeiramente com todo o teu coração. O teu coração precisa de mais tempo para sarar.

O tempo é a vossa única esperança porque só isso curará as vossas feridas.

You are probably wondering if you’ll ever stop having these feelings for him. I am happy to tell you that you won’t and that’s actually a good thing.

Estes sentimentos lembrá-lo-ão sempre de que nunca mais deve entregar-se a outra pessoa ou a uma relação.

Salvar-te-ão dos homens maus e dos amores errados. Eles manterão o teu coração seguro e não permitirão que ninguém o quebre nunca mais.

Those feelings you still have for him will fade over time. Despite everything he did to you, you’ll never forget him and nor should you.

Ele foi uma grande parte da sua vida. Essa relação deixou-o com o coração partido e ensinou-lhe a lição mais difícil da sua vida.

I know that all of this is becoming overwhelming for you but please, hang in there. Don’t buckle under the pressure of your mixed feelings and make some bad decisions that you’ll regret later.

Be strong. Don’t let the confusion make you return to him. To the man who ripped your heart out once and would do it again.

He is expecting you to return to him and it would massage his ego hugely. He thinks that you can’t live without him and that because of this he has the right to treat you as he wants. Prove him wrong.

People say that good things happen slowly and your healing is the best proof of that. It’ll take days, months, maybe even a whole year, but you’ll heal and you’ll become yourself again.

You’ll become that girl who chooses to see only good in people again, the girl who is in love with her life. Only this time, you’ll be stronger and wiser.

You won’t let um homem brinca contigo outra vez. You won’t put someone at the center of your universe. You won’t love someone else more than you love yourself.

You were hurt but you shouldn’t think of yourself as someone who needs to be fixed. Yes, your heart is broken but it will heal.

Voltará a ser puro, pronto para voltar a amar alguém ao máximo. Confia em mim, o tempo é o teu único aliado.

É ele que precisa de ser corrigido. Ele fez jogos consigo. Ele fez apaixona-se por ele tão profundamente, só para poder partir-te o coração mais tarde.

É que há algo de errado com o coração dele, não com o teu. No entanto, não te deves preocupar com isso. Deixa o karma tratar do seu destino. Um dia, ele vai apanhá-lo de certeza.

As time goes on, you’ll realize that you two would never have made it in the long run. You’ll realize that the o universo tem algo mais planeado para si.

As time goes on, you’ll still have some feelings for him, but you’ll be aware of many things that you couldn’t see before because your love blinded you.

As time goes on, everything will be easier…

Pode encarar isto como uma das suas maiores lições de vida.

Nunca se deve amar outra pessoa mais do que se ama a si próprio e deixar que ela assuma o papel principal na história da sua vida, porque essa parte pertence-lhe a si e só a si.