Está bien seguir sintiendo algo por él, aunque lo hayas superado

After spending years and years convincing yourself that he would change, you’ve finally moved on, and thank God for that. You’ve saved yourself from many disappointments and much heartbreak.

You still aren’t aware that leaving him is the best decision you’ve ever made and that’s because you still have feelings for him. That’s perfectly normal and you should not feel bad about it.

Unfortunately, you can’t make your heart stop loving him.

It’s all so confusing for you. You hate him but at the same time, you still care for him and have some romantic feelings for him.

You know that it’s not the same love you used to feel, but it’s still something deep and strong.

It’s perfectly normal to feel the whole range of emotions – from love to hate – because forgetting someone who was your entire world doesn’t happen overnight.

Se necesita tiempo. Y tú necesitas tiempo porque realmente lo amabas con todo tu corazón. Tu corazón necesita más tiempo para sanar.

El tiempo es tu única esperanza porque sólo eso curará tus heridas.

You are probably wondering if you’ll ever stop having these feelings for him. I am happy to tell you that you won’t and that’s actually a good thing.

Estos sentimientos siempre te recordarán que nunca más debes volcarte en otra persona o en una relación.

Te salvarán de los hombres malos y de los amores equivocados. Mantendrán tu corazón a salvo y no permitirán que nadie lo rompa nunca más.

Those feelings you still have for him will fade over time. Despite everything he did to you, you’ll never forget him and nor should you.

Fue una gran parte de tu vida. Esa relación te dejó con el corazón roto y te enseñó la lección más difícil de tu vida.

I know that all of this is becoming overwhelming for you but please, hang in there. Don’t buckle under the pressure of your mixed feelings and make some bad decisions that you’ll regret later.

Be strong. Don’t let the confusion make you return to him. To the man who ripped your heart out once and would do it again.

He is expecting you to return to him and it would massage his ego hugely. He thinks that you can’t live without him and that because of this he has the right to treat you as he wants. Prove him wrong.

People say that good things happen slowly and your healing is the best proof of that. It’ll take days, months, maybe even a whole year, but you’ll heal and you’ll become yourself again.

You’ll become that girl who chooses to see only good in people again, the girl who is in love with her life. Only this time, you’ll be stronger and wiser.

You won’t let que un hombre vuelva a jugar contigo. You won’t put someone at the center of your universe. You won’t love someone else more than you love yourself.

You were hurt but you shouldn’t think of yourself as someone who needs to be fixed. Yes, your heart is broken but it will heal.

Volverá a ser puro, listo para volver a amar a alguien plenamente. Créeme, el tiempo es tu único aliado.

Es a él a quien hay que arreglar. Jugó contigo. Él hizo te enamoras de él tan profundamente, sólo para poder romperte el corazón después.

Verás, hay algo mal en su corazón, no en el tuyo. Sin embargo, no debes preocuparte por eso. Deja que el karma se encargue de su destino. Un día, lo atrapará con seguridad.

As time goes on, you’ll realize that you two would never have made it in the long run. You’ll realize that the el universo tiene algo más planeado para ti.

As time goes on, you’ll still have some feelings for him, but you’ll be aware of many things that you couldn’t see before because your love blinded you.

As time goes on, everything will be easier…

Puedes ver esto como una de tus mayores lecciones en la vida.

Nunca debes amar a otra persona más de lo que te amas a ti mismo y dejar que ocupe el papel principal en la historia de tu vida, porque esa parte te pertenece a ti y sólo a ti.