Não a faças perder tempo se estás à procura de algo temporário
Antes de se envolver com esta rapariga, há algumas coisas que deve saber sobre ela. É que ela é diferente de toda a gente.
She is not a part-time girl and she isn’t looking for part-time love.
She won’t be there just when she is convenient for you, so you could dump her the very next moment. She isn’t looking for casual flings or meaningless affairs.
She isn’t looking for a no strings attached relationship or for a friend with benefits.
This girl isn’t looking for sex only. She isn’t looking for someone for the night, to warm up next to, or someone whose name she wouldn’t know the next morning.
Don’t get me wrong—if casual relationships are your thing, this is perfectly fine with her. But you should also respect the fact that this is not something she sees herself in.
You should be honest enough and tell her your intentions straightforwardly, before she falls for you and before she wastes her time on something that isn’t going anywhere.
Podem chamar a esta rapariga uma tola. Poderá pensar nela como uma romântica sem esperança. Pode chamar-lhe antiquada ou mesmo infantil.
Mas a verdade é que ela acredita no amor. Amor verdadeiro, incondicional e eterno.
She believes in real-life fairy tales and she is certain that one day she’ll run into her Prince Charming.
The truth is that she doesn’t fit in with today’s modern dating. She can’t imagine herself sleeping with someone on the first date or being with a man until someone better comes along, just so she isn’t alone.
Instead, she wants to find her soulmate. A man with whom she’ll form a deeper, more intimate connection and with whom she’ll bond on a spiritual level.
No, it doesn’t mean that she thinks of sex as unimportant. And it definitely doesn’t mean she doesn’t enjoy it.
It’s just that this girl can’t seem to separate her body, mind and soul from one another. If you want to have her, you are getting the entire package. Or you aren’t getting anything.
She knows that nothing in life can be planned. She is aware that things don’t always end up the way she expected them to.
E ela sabe que não há garantias de que uma relação seja bem sucedida.
Mas ela quer, pelo menos, ter alguma esperança. Quer poder planear um futuro com o homem que está ao seu lado, em vez de saber que tudo entre os dois tem uma data de validade.
She doesn’t want a relationship which she knows is condenado ao fracasso from day one. She doesn’t want to waste her precious time and energy on something or someone that isn’t worthy of her.
This girl doesn’t want temporary, short-term or partial love that’s full of uncertainty. She wants it all or nothing.
She doesn’t want a relationship in which she’ll feel alone or a relationship without labels and without commitment.
Ela quer um amor verdadeiro, único, sincero e recíproco. Um homem que a amará por inteiro, um homem com quem pode contar e um homem com quem se vê a envelhecer.
Ela quer uma alma gémea e um homem para sempre, tudo numa só pessoa.
Tudo o resto não seria mais do que um ajuste de contas. E isso é a última coisa que esta rapariga está disposta a fazer. Porque ela prefere sempre ficar solteira a aceitar menos do que aquilo que sabe que merece.
So please, don’t string this girl along if you can’t give her what she needs. Don’t go after her if you think that she is asking too much or if the two of you don’t want the same things from life.
Don’t enter her life if you have a runaway plan for the moment when things get serious or if you don’t plan to stay.
Don’t make her promises you can’t keep. Don’t fill her heart with hope if you plan on letting her down.
Don’t try to play with her heart because you’ll break it, without being aware of it. Don’t date her if you can’t commit to her.
