Não se pode amar alguém para que nos ame
Por muito duro e devastador que possa parecer, é verdade - não se pode amar alguém para que nos ame.
You can wait and hope, you can try to impress them, but nothing will work if they don’t feel the same.
Nothing will help; not romanticizing the conversations you had or talking to your friends who will look for the smallest signs of affection…
Don’t feed your feelings with memories, it’s only going to make things worse.
That’s the worst feeling ever; the feeling like you’re not enough for the person you love with all your heart and soul.
If they don’t feel the same, there’s nothing you can do.
There’s no point in trying to change yourself to fit their needs or likes. Nobody can change themself completely and be happy and it doesn’t guarantee you success.
If someone doesn’t like you as you are, why would you like to spend your time with them? They’re obviously not the right person for you.
There’s no point in waiting for somebody to catch feelings for you.
Firstly, it’s not likely that that will happen and secondly, it is degrading to wait for someone to decide you’re lovable enough.
Nobody should settle for halfway love. Love is the one thing in life you don’t settle for but genuinely and truly enjoy. It’s what makes your life.
Love is an unpredictable feeling—you never know when will it show up and when it’s gone. It doesn’t follow rules and it’s not logic. You can’t plan or predict love.
No entanto, o efeito do amor na nossa vida é sempre enorme.
That’s one thing people keep searching for their whole life, consciously or subconsciously.
It’s funny how little it takes to fall in love and be completely immersed in another person and how long and painful the process of forgetting them is.
It’s no wonder why many people just give up on love and close their hearts forever. When you give nothing but love but receive pain and rejection, it makes you want to protect your heart.
Qualquer sinal de defesa é sinal de um coração que já amou demasiado.
Estar na defensiva é uma forma de nos protegermos da dor. Apesar da dor e da rejeição, eu defendo que se mantenha o coração vulnerável.
Porquê?
Acumular mais dor e rejeitar o amor acabará por resultar em mais dor. Por outro lado, um coração vulnerável tem mais probabilidades de encontrar e reconhecer um coração semelhante, mesmo que demore algum tempo.
Keeping your heart open and vulnerable is believing in love. A love that doesn’t judge and puts you second; a love that’s pure and doesn’t take advantage.
Quando experimentares esse tipo de amor, saberás que tudo o que aconteceu antes não passou de uma preparação. Todas as dores que sentires farão de repente sentido.
You’re worthy of the love that will always put you first and consider your feelings before anything else.
You’re worthy of a man who will accept you as you are and make you love yourself.
True love will shed light on you and reveal the person you are at your best. Your true potential will shine through and even when you’re not at your best, it will know that’s just a momentary weakness that will pass.
Ninguém é perfeito, mas o amor genuíno é a coisa mais próxima da perfeição.
Uma relação é um compromisso de duas pessoas que se protegem mutuamente e se respeitam mais do que tudo no mundo.
When you’re with the person who understands that, you won’t feel the need to convince them.
Eles amá-lo-ão facilmente e a vossa relação será fácil porque saberão sempre o verdadeiro significado por detrás de tudo o que fizerem.
You’ll always have a safe place to come back to.
Don’t lose hope because of one person who was busy with their own challenges but keep believing in love because of that one person who will make your life complete.
Como sempre, todas as coisas boas acontecem quando menos se espera e a melhor de todas será o amor que merece.
