Não faz mal se quiseres ser adorado, tu mereces

Crescemos a pensar que querer ser adorado é algo muito egoísta.

We are being taught that it’s wrong to think of ourselves as someone who is wonderful enough to be loved and appreciated to the point where someone actually puts in effort to keeping us around.

There is this misconception that if we want to be loved we need to be humble and act like we don’t know our own worth, so that we don’t scare off someone we’re interested in.

Mas porque é que é assim?

People get offended the moment you tell them that you know how good you are at what you’re doing or if you tell someone that you are a true catch. It’s like we automatically lower their worth, when in fact it’s nothing like that.

Se quiser ser adorado, não há nada de mau nisso. Quer saber porquê? Bem, porque o merece.

You deserve to be treated with the utmost respect someone can give you and you should be someone’s priority.

You aren’t looking for something impossible, but rather something every single woman on this planet should have in a relação de amor e carinho.

Merece que a sua cara-metade lhe telefone todas as manhãs, só para lhe desejar um bom dia.

If you’ve been mad at your partner and he comes knocking on your door to ask for your forgiveness, don’t feel bad because he did; he’s just making up for what he did wrong.

Mereces todo o carinho que alguém te possa dar, porque tu também te dás.

Fazes tudo o que podes para fazer o teu parceiro feliz e mereces ser tratada da mesma forma.

You love your partner to the point where you would do anything for him to be happy, so wanting the same in return isn’t selfish.

Eu, como qualquer outra mulher, quero ser adorada.

Throughout the years, I’ve always considered myself not good enough for that because those women who are adored are these wonderful fairy-like creatures.

They are so beautiful that my low self-esteem didn’t let me see my own beauty, which led to me doing unbelievable stuff to please my partner and to make him feel loved and adored, when he wouldn’t do anything for me.

If you’re giving yourself away this much, you really do need to see your own value to get the same amount of affection, love and attention in return.

Mas, o que fazer if you’re not adored by the man que significa tanto para si? Deixa-o ir. Mereces melhor.

You deserve all the best things in this world of ours and if he can’t provide you with them, then it’s not your fault.

He simply can’t see what a catch you actually are and that is what makes him not worthy of your time and energy.

Don’t just sit around waiting for it to change.

És uma mulher forte e maravilhosa, o que significa que podes amar-te a ti própria o suficiente, até que alguém apareça e te sintas suficientemente segura novamente.

Basta que te deixes perceber estas coisas e saibas que és tudo o que alguém pode precisar e querer, sem qualquer dúvida sobre a tua própria capacidade de crescer todos os dias e de te tornares alguém que os homens vão perseguir, porque tu já és tudo o que queres ser e os homens vão adorar-te, no momento em que decidires adorar-te a ti própria.