Qual é a melhor resposta quando alguém o ignora: 88 exemplos

Come on, you all, let’s admit it… Todos nós já fomos ignorados ou abandonados por alguém pelo menos uma vez na vida. And those moments are the worst because you simply don’t know whether you should play their game and go silent or send them a text and express your feelings.

If you choose the second option, to stand up for yourself and give them a piece of your mind via text, I’ve compiled a list of texts I found online. I hope this collection will help you achieve your goal.

Se continuarem a ignorá-lo, lembre-se de que o amor-próprio é tudo e deixe-os ir. Let them ignore and waste someone else’s time. They obviously aren’t your true friend, and they most definitely don’t care about you.

Qual é a melhor resposta quando alguém nos ignora? 50 ótimos exemplos

Então, quando alguém nos dá o tratamento do silêncio on purpose, here are some of the best texts you should send them. Of course, don’t send ALL of them, just the one you like the most. 😂

1. You know I’m always here for you if you need to talk.

2. Tenho muitas saudades de falar contigo.

3. Ser fantasma é uma treta, and I’m bummed that this is the way you communicate with someone you are no longer interested in. I hope you find what you’re looking for. No hard feelings.

4. Estava a pensar numa coisa engraçada que me aconteceu hoje e que me fez pensar em si.

5. Estou um pouco confuso porque deixaste de falar comigo. Queres dizer-me o que correu mal? Compreendo se não o fizeres.

6. I feel sad and confused by you going silent on me. Clearly, we’re not looking for the same thing. Best of luck to you.

7. Is everything okay? I’m worried. Please answer as soon as possible.

8. Estás bem? Na verdade, estamos bem?

9. It appears that we have different degrees of communication. If that’s the case, we should definitely see other people.

10. O que fez é bastante cobarde, mas é preciso ser um verdadeiro homem para ver isso.

11. If I’m being honest, this comunicação quente e fria style is very stressful for me. I think I’m going to move on.

12. Espero ter notícias vossas em breve.

13. I am getting the sense I’m being ghosted. If you want to end things, that is okay. However, if we can have an honest conversation about where your head is at, I would appreciate it. It can be over the phone or in person.

14. Just so you know, I’m here for you.

15. I wish I could say I was surprised, but honestly, I’m not. I can detetar um jogador a uma milha de distância.

16. Ghosting may be the norm, but don’t expect me to respond to you after three weeks of silence.

17. Com base no teu silêncio, vou assumir que já não estás interessado em nós como casal. Desejo-vos felicidades.

18. I’m just wondering if you’re busy or if you want to talk.

19. I can’t believe I fell for all your lies and tricks, but I guess that’s what happens when you are trusting and have a big heart. I will share this heart with someone serious about me.

20. It hurts my feelings when I’m left on read.

21. I enjoyed getting to know you the last few weeks, but I realize our time has come to an end. I’d still love to have a talk in person about what happened first if you’re willing to do that. Let me know.

22. I was wondering if you had a minute to chat? I feel like we haven’t talked in a while, and I miss hearing your voice.

23. Since you don’t have the decency to let me know you are no longer interested, I’ll help you out by blocking you.

24. I’m sad that we aren’t talking right now.

25. Being ghosted is not fun, and I’m sure you wouldn’t want someone doing that to you. I hope you find what you’re looking for.

26. Do you want to share what you’re thinking?

27. I’m sorry, and I respect your space.

28. As pessoas mudam de sentimentos a toda a hora, mas tu podias ter sido adulta em relação a isso. Faz-me um favor e apaga o meu número. Não tenho tempo para brincadeiras.

29. Since you do not feel comfortable sharing your feelings about what our deal is, I will close the door on us. Please do not reach out in three weeks and expect me to respond. I won’t.

30. Foi um prazer conhecer-te. Desejo-vos as maiores felicidades na vossa viagem de namoro.

31. I’m just wondering if you’re okay; you haven’t been replying to my messages.

32. I’m sad that we feel distant right now.

33. Espero que possamos falar em breve.

34. I don’t know how to respond to ghosting, but I hope no one else has to go through this with you. Goodbye.

35. I’m bummed that our story had such an anticlimactic ending, but I guess that is now in the past. We’re cool. Boa sorte.

36. I take it you’re not a great texter. Want to meet for drinks and an IRL convo?

37. I understand if you need some time. Just let me know if there’s anything I can do.

38. Espero que esteja tudo bem convosco.

39. I’m not sure if something went wrong or if you simply lost interest, but I’m going to take the fact that I haven’t heard from you as your way of saying you have moved on. Now I will do the same.

40. It sounds like you’re having a tough time. I’m here for you.

41. Esperava que pudéssemos construir algo juntos, mas, claramente, não somos um bom partido um para o outro. Obrigado por nada.

42. Gostava que me tivesses avisado que podia sair com outras pessoas, já que aparentemente acabámos. Boa sorte por aí.

43. This is the last attempt I’m going to make to reach out to you. For real.

44. I’ve been enjoying getting to know you, but I lose interest when contact lags. I’m not into something so on and off.

45. I’m wondering if you’re free for a quick call?

46. Hey, it seems like you’ve lost interest, and we aren’t on the same page anymore. While that is totally fine, I do wish you had considered my emotions and let me know this was the case. I deserve that much. That said, I wish you well.

47. Hey, is there a reason you didn’t respond?

48. I hope you’re doing well, but I also wanted to let you know that I’m here for you if you need to talk or anything.

49. I totally get it if you’re not feeling a connection. That’s cool. But I can’t read your mind, and I don’t want to assume anything.

50. Devo dizer que pensei que tínhamos uma grande ligação, por isso o seu desaparecimento surpreendeu-me muito. Embora não tenha a certeza absoluta do que aconteceu entre nós, vou assumir que a sua falta de contacto significa que já não está interessado. Desejo-te o melhor.

Ver também: 30 melhores respostas de Ghosting que ele vai lembrar para sempre

Qual é a melhor resposta quando alguém nos ignora? 12 exemplos sarcásticos

Se quiser mudar um pouco o seu tom e mostrar à outra pessoa que o seu tratamento silencioso o incomoda profundamente, aqui estão os exemplos de texto certos para si:

1. That was a yes or no question. This isn’t difficult. You wouldn’t do well with “Sophie’s Choice.”

2. Então, esqueceste-te de como usar o teu telefone?

3. Pensei que éramos ambos adultos, mas estava claramente enganado. Tem uma boa vida.

4. Lolol, thanks for responding. I’ll just continue the conversation with myself. That’s cool.

5. Sorry if I am annoying you with my friendship. Don’t worry. I will NEVER annoy you again! Goodbye!

6. Até agora, pensei que éramos um bom par, mas preciso de um parceiro que saiba comunicar.

7. I love it when you do that adorable thing when you don’t text me back for hours. So cute.

8. Oh, you’re ignoring me? Perhaps I should start being a jerk because being nice clearly isn’t entertaining enough for you.

9. Hey, I’m coming to help you since you obviously broke your thumbs and can’t respond.

10. I wish you the best in your future dating pursuits! Hopefully you’re a little less ghostly to the next person.

11. You must be so popular if you don’t have time to text me back! 😱

12. Boa conversa.

26 Textos engraçados para enviar quando alguém te ignora

If it’s your best friend or a family member and you consider their ghosting funny or a part of some game, you should play along with that game and send them a texto engraçado. Os exemplos mais hilariantes estão à sua espera na lista abaixo:

1. Did you fall off a cliff? Wait, you don’t exercise. Pause your Netflix and respond b*tch.

2. Make sure to add “ghosting” as one of your hobbies on Hinge in the future.

3. Oh, então desmaiaste com a excitação de receber uma mensagem minha? É totalmente compreensível. Manda-me uma mensagem quando acordares.

4. Uma vez que te fantasmaste, devo confessar que esta conversa chegou a ser um pouco boo-ring.

5. The only excuse I’ll accept is if you’re eating guac and don’t want to get it on your phone. Because avocados are life.

6. You must be Danny Phantom because I can see you’re “going ghost.”

7. Now, I’m gonna ignore you so hard that you’ll start doubting your own existence.

8. Okay, I’ll answer for you. Yes, you’re going out tonight. Glad we had this convo.

9. OMG, your replies are coming too fast. Slow down a bit, please. I can’t keep up like this.

10. Esta conversa está a começar a parecer um caso para os Ghostbusters.

11. Your response time is longer than Ross and Rachel’s entire relationship. 10 seasons. You couldn’t text me back for 10 seasons?!!

12. I see you’re prepping for Halloween early with this ghostly charade.

13. Yo, dawg, I heard you like ignoring me. Now I’m ignoring you while you’re ignoring me so we can ignore the ignoring that is being ignored together.

14. Que resposta tão inteligente e espirituosa. Nada. Tão filosófica.

15. Next time you want to ghost, at least hit me with a “Boo!” so I know what’s happening.

16. You haven’t replied for a while now… I really hope you’re writing me an essay… for your own well.

17. Well, I can cross “dating a ghost” off my bucket list, at least.

18. No tempo que demorou a responder, os dinossauros poderiam ter retomado a Terra.

19. Now I have to cleanse my phone because there’s clearly a petty ghost trapped in it.

20. I’m not really sure if my text messages aren’t going through or if I’m being ignored on purpose? If you aren’t getting the texts, please call me.

21. OMG, wait, you met Chris Hemsworth, and he’s professing his love for you??!! No? Okay, then you can def text me back.

22. Your favorite emoji must be 👻.

23. O Noah escreveu 365 cartas à Allie, por isso acho que podes pelo menos responder-me.

24. I apologize for asking if you were coming to watch Bachelor. Clearly, the decision has caused you a serious reflection on your priorities. I’m sorry to have caused you this existential crisis.

25. Devia ter usado um tabuleiro Ouija para falar contigo?

26. Mandaste-me uma mensagem e depois decidiste atirar o teu telemóvel para o outro lado do oceano?! Lol, nada depressa. Preciso de uma resposta.

Devo responder depois de ser ignorado?

Well, you can’t call it replying because you’re being ghosted after all, and it would be like you’re replying to yourself. However, you can send that person one more message just to make it clear to them that you know you’re being ignored on purpose.

Talvez isso os faça mostrar algum tipo de reação e acabar com o tratamento de silêncio. If they don’t want to make you angry, hurt you, or lose you, I’m sure they’ll answer your texts.

You can also invite them out and ask them to resolve your issues face-to-face. After all, certain things can’t be solved through social media or simple texting.

On the other hand, if they keep ghosting you, you should consider it their reply, as they’re telling you they don’t want to see or talk to you. Either they’re really and at you, or they simply don’t care about you at all. Either way, that’s definitely when you should stop texting them.

No fim

Então, o que é que acha? Qual é a melhor resposta quando alguém nos ignora? Já encontraste o teu exemplo de texto perfeito e já o enviaste para o teu ghoster?

Lembre-se sempre que, por muito frustrante que seja o tratamento de silêncio, tem de manter a sua dignidade. Behave like a grown-up and don’t attack them immediately or start bombarding them with texts.

Give both of you some time. Perhaps you’ll also figure out the reason for their silent treatment. If you really did do something that hurt them, apologize and give them time to reach out to you.If you didn’t do anything and the other person is simply ignoring you because they don’t care about you, then you need to let it all go. Pense na sua própria saúde mental e no seu bem-estar geral. Don’t ever obsess about someone who clearly shows how much (actually, little) they care about you.