Quando é que ele se vai declarar? 13 sinais de que ele está pronto para fazer a pergunta
Open your eyes wide and engage every possible sense you have. Only then will you get the answer to your question of when he will propose, and might I add, you’ll get the correct answer to a very important question.
Porque é que é tão importante reconhecer os sinais correctos? You don’t want to get yourself into a situation where you’re ready to be proposed to and furthermore, you’re convinced ele vai fazer a perguntamas nunca acontece nada.
Deve ter lido mal os seus sinais subtis e imaginado que um pedido de casamento estava no horizonte.
Até fizeste uma manicura e imaginaste aquele anel do teu joalheiro preferido no teu dedo anelar. Até já escolheu as suas damas de honor.
Imagine the heartbreak and disappointment you’d be faced with just because you thought something was a sure sign and it turned out to be nothing.
That’s why it’s important to recognize all the subtle ways he lets you know something’s up, and he’s getting closer to revealing an engagement ring.
Qualquer pessoa pode surpreender-nos a qualquer momento e, normalmente, quando menos esperamos.
Just make sure you don’t make a terrible mistake by assuming a romantic proposal is going to take place, if you’re not sure.
Isso pode criar uma situação desconfortável ou pode mesmo levar a uma rutura súbita.
For example, I had a friend who took his girlfriend on a romantic getaway to Paris on Valentine’s day.
I get it, Paris is the most romantic city in the world (at least that’s the city’s reputation), so crazy ideas start running through your mind and you can easily get carried away.
He took her to the Eiffel Tower and she thought, ‘there it is, he’s going to pop the question’, already imagining the ring size and thinking about calling her family members.
Of course, he didn’t plan on proposing to her, he just wanted them to have a nice trip and enjoy a few date nights in a romantic city to the fullest.
I cannot stress enough that the ride from the tower to the hotel was a very awkward one, since she was convinced he was going to propose to her, and he hadn’t.
Depois de ele lhe ter perguntado o que se passava, ela limitou-se a dizer de uma forma muito desapontada que estava tudo bem, mas era tão óbvio que estava terrivelmente desapontada.
Algumas semanas mais tarde, separaram-se porque a sua relação deu uma volta inesperada para pior depois desse pequeno incidente.
Read the signs right and you’ll get the correct answer to your question of when he will propose (or whether you should parar de esperar que ele a peça em casamento)!
Quando é que ele se vai declarar? 13 sinais de que ele está pronto para fazer a pergunta
1. He’s seriously thinking about marriage
As suas conversas começam a ter um tom mais sério. As suas perguntas estão relacionadas com o futuro.
He’ll suddenly be interested in what you want to do in five years, where you want to be.
He is interested in topics related to kids and parenting. He’ll ask about more serious topics than he usually does.
As suas convicções políticas e a sua visão da vida em geral vão, de repente, interessá-lo bastante.
Not only will he be more interested in your life by asking you a ton of questions, he’ll talk to your family and friends more.
No guy will ask you to marry him unless he is absolutely sure you’ll fall into his arms with a big fat, “YES!”.
So, in order to be sure you’ll say yes, every guy will do everything in his power to get a positive vibe on the marriage issue.
2. O momento é perfeito
This sign you have to figure out on your own, but be careful not to ‘imagine’ things which are actually not happening just because you want to tie the knot so badly.
A principal razão pela qual os homens decidem assentar e casar é o momento certo e a certeza de que estão com a pessoa certa.
Chegam a uma certa idade em que já não têm necessidade de andar atrás de mulheres diferentes e de evitar compromissos, e querem mesmo o oposto disso.
Passaram muito tempo a viver e agora querem assentar, encontrar uma boa mulher e passar o resto das suas vidas juntos.
Usually, they won’t settle down before they have their life planned out, before they have a secure future with a steady job.
And if your man checks these boxes, that is indeed a good sign he’s getting ready to propose.
3. Começa a levar a sério a poupança de dinheiro
Os casamentos custam dinheiro; toda a gente sabe isso. Também a vida em comum e a constituição de uma família custam dinheiro.
Antes de decidir assentar e levar as coisas para o próximo nível, todos os homens querem ter a certeza de que o seu futuro está planeado financeiramente. Afinal de contas, têm de comprar o anelo que não é um investimento pequeno.
So if you’ve noticed your significant other is starting to put some money aside without hiding it but he’s not telling you why he needs that money and he kind of avoids that topic in general, he’s most probably going to ask you to marry him.
4. Atraem-se mutuamente
Pode dizer a si próprio o que quiser, mas a aparência é importante. Tem de haver algum tipo de atração física entre os dois se quiser passar o resto da sua vida num casamento feliz.
Just liking each other on the first date isn’t going to cut it. You really need to feel a great atração sexual e, dessa atração, nascerá o amor.
Having said that, hotter people don’t easily get married like average-looking people.
Maybe this sounds a bit too harsh but it’s true. The reason for that is perfectly logical. Hotter people don’t look like people who will stay faithful.
As suas opções são mais vastas porque, em termos técnicos, as suas hipóteses de seduzir alguém são um pouco maiores.
É claro que a sua aparência é apenas uma parte do pacote completo que cada pessoa procura em alguém.
Pegue na sua personalidade e em tudo o resto, para além da aparência, e terá a pessoa perfeita para si.
The most important thing which can assure you that someday you’ll get married is the attraction—it always has to be present.
5. He says you’d be a great mother
He’s sending you a huge sign that he’s definitely ready to be a father. If you didn’t know, men also have a biological clock, and it’s ticking.
At some point in a relationship, most men will feel the need to become a father, to become someone’s role model and take care of somebody who depends on them to survive.
Ter filhos é a principal razão pela qual a maioria dos homens decide casar-se.
Otherwise, commitment is a big issue that’s always very much present.
6. His friends claim he’s different around you
Not bad different but just different—meaning considerate and loving, careful and gentle.
He most surely isn’t the same person they are used to having around.
None of them have seen him as happy as when he’s with you, and he never treated any of his past girlfriends the way he treats you. One other important thing.
Before you, he would never mention marriage, but now, it’s a frequent topic of discussion.
7. He comments on your friends’ engagement rings
It would be super strange if he came to you all of a sudden asking you what type of engagement ring you’d like one day.
It would raise questions, and you’d definitely suspect he was preparing to propose to you.
Research says that 66% of grooms report picking out the perfect ring for their better half by commenting on other people’s engagement rings whenever they post it on their social media.
That’s how they get the general idea of what you like and what you don’t like.
If you notice your partner trying to get some clues as to what kind of jewelry you like, especially engagement rings, you can be sure he’s going to ask you to marry him very soon. Play it cool. Don’t show you know, it will ruin the surprise.
8. Sai com a tua família e amigos sem ti
Is he sneaking out without you knowing to meet your family or your best friend? If you ask me, that’s a particularly shady behavior, and there must be something hidden behind it. But don’t worry, it’s nothing bad, it’s the complete opposite.
He’s gathering information about you, so that the proposal he’s planning sweeps you off your feet.
Mandar uma mensagem de texto à sua melhor amiga sempre que tiver uma ideia só para a discutir com ela e falar com a sua família são as melhores formas de o fazer. Quem é que o conhece melhor do que eles?
9. Insistiu no compromisso logo no início da relação
If this isn’t a sign he’s going to marry you, I don’t know what is.
We all know at least a few men who’ve been in long-term relationships which failed and right after their relationship, they met someone else and got married very soon. There is only one simple reason for that.
When you meet someone you know is right for you, you don’t wait; you go all in because you don’t want to lose them.
If your guy insisted on commitment early on, you can be almost positive about what the next step is—it’s marriage of course.
10. Ele quer saber os seus planos com antecedência
No que lhe diz respeito, o pedido de casamento surgiu de repente e foi uma grande surpresa.
What you don’t know is that his every move was carefully planned with the intention of keeping you clueless.
Não tem noção de quanto esforço foi feito para que a proposta fosse uma surpresa.
Só depois de ele fazer a grande pergunta é que começamos a pensar como é que ele o fez.
E depois voltamos atrás e lembramo-nos de todas as perguntas sobre os nossos planos, onde íamos estar, o que planeávamos fazer e quando.
All those questions weren’t in vain. They were part of making the plan.
11. Os seus amigos estão subitamente muito interessados no seu parceiro
Como já sabe, se o seu parceiro começa a sair com os seus amigos e, sobretudo, com os membros da sua família, é porque anda a tramar alguma coisa, o que também significa que os seus pais e a sua família sabem o que ele anda a tramar.
If you’re suspecting he might pop the question, the best way to be sure he’s going to propose is by paying attention to how your family treats him.
Let’s say they weren’t so keen on him at the beginning of the relationship, but now all of a sudden, they show interest in everything about him. Isn’t that a bit strange?
12. He’s a bit edgy and nervous
Of course he is, he’s about to make the biggest decision of his life. No one would stay indifferent before making a decision like that. The general change in his attitude is a huge sign that something is about to happen.
If your relationship is going exactly how you want and there aren’t any problems, then the reason why he’s tense is obvious—he’s going to ask you to marry him.
There are two biggest moments in every guy’s life, and those are asking a girl out on a primeiro encontro e pedir alguém em casamento.
If you see he has changed and is constantly asking for confirmation of your love (assuming that your relationship is not in crisis), prepare yourself to say, “Yes,” when the right time comes along.
13. He’s interested in other people’s weddings
Os casamentos são normalmente algo que os homens tentam evitar, especialmente se não estiverem a falar a sério consigo.
But if your partner shows interest in going to a wedding with you for some reason, I say it’s a huge sign, and you should go in search of a wedding dress.
Pense da seguinte forma. Ele quer ir a um casamento consigo porque quer ver as suas reacções à música, à decoração ou quer saber a sua impressão geral.
Ele quer saber do que gostas e o que te faria feliz.
Don’t be hasty, and don’t form a conclusion before you are absolutely sure he’s going to propose to you.
On the other hand, just be patient and you’ll see, but don’t be crazy and wait for one guy your whole life.
