30 maneiras de fazer uma rapariga sentir-se especial (e apaixonar-se por si)
Quer mostrar-lhe como ela é extraordinariamente especial para si? Quer mostrar-lhe como ela é bela e única por dentro e por fora?
Do you want to show her your utter appreciation, but you’re not sure how?
Don’t worry. It’s totally understandable. Your wish to fazê-la sentir-se especial is making you feel anxious because you’re afraid that whatever you do, it won’t be good enough.
But the truth is that it’s not at all difficult to make a girl feel special, and I’ll explain to you why.
If you’re wondering how to make a girl feel special, there is only one thing you need to remember and that is: As pequenas coisas são as mais importantes. O que é que isto significa?
Significa que a sua rapariga não está à espera de milagres seus, como a maioria dos homens pode pensar.
Pequenas coisas fazem grandes coisas acontecerem. Fará com que ela se sinta verdadeiramente especial ao fazer gestos doces e ao fazer todas as pequenas coisas que a lembrarão de como ela é bonita e única. Remember that you’ll make her feel special by doing all of it regularly.
Simplesmente ouvi-la, pedir a sua opinião sobre determinados assuntos, dar-lhe uma massagem, dizer-lhe como está bonita com aquele vestido, são algumas das coisas que farão o seu coração bater mais depressa e fazê-la sorrir.
And what’s more beautiful in the world than seeing your girl truly happy and knowing that you’re the one who deserves the credit for doing so?
And what’s even more awesome than having everything you need on the list below!? Here are 30 awesome ways to show your girl she’s the most precious miracle in your life!
30 MANEIRAS DE FAZER UMA RAPARIGA SENTIR-SE ESPECIAL (E APAIXONAR-SE POR SI)
1. Arranjar tempo para ela
This one isn’t rocket science, and it means so much to the fairer sex.
Making time for her shouldn’t even be arguable. This is something that should come naturally to all men.
Quando se quer fazer com que uma mulher se sinta especial, basta arranjar tempo para ela.
Independentemente de quão ocupada possa ser a sua agenda ou do que está na sua lista de tarefas para esse dia, reservar tempo para a sua mulher deve ser algo que não é preciso dizer.
2. Faça dela a sua prioridade
This one goes together with making time for her, and it’s also something that should go without saying.
Se quer que a sua rapariga se sinta especial, certifique-se de que ela é a sua prioridadee certificar-se de que ela o sabe.
If you’ve already welcomed her into your life and you want to be an important part of hers as well, then you should come at the top of each other’s priority list.
Regardless of what happens, if you’re planning something serious with her in your life and if you’re planning to tie her to yourself, then she should always come first in your life.
That being said, you should also know that nothing will make her feel special more than knowing she’s #1 in your life.
3. Aceite-a
Mas aceita-a verdadeiramente. Aceita-a pelo que ela é. Aceita-a com todas as suas perfeições e imperfeições.
Aceitar todos os seus gostos e desgostos. Todos os seus defeitos e todos os seus pequenos rituais. Aceitar verdadeiramente tudo o que ela traz à vossa relação.
Don’t just take her good sides. Take those you normally wouldn’t like.
Accept her wholly, not just parts of her and her personality that others might not. That’s how you show her she’s special to you.
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4. Don’t try to change her
Não tentar mudá-la é o mesmo que aceitá-la.
There will probably be things about her that you won’t like or things that you’d like to see. But just because you are portraying her in a certain way doesn’t mean that’s her truth.
So if she isn’t something you’d like her to be, don’t try to make her change. Leave her the way she is, and love her the way she is. That’s the way to make her feel special.
5. Apreciá-la
Never let a day pass by where you don’t notice all the things she does for you. Never let a day pass by that you don’t thank her for everything she does.
Aprecie os seus esforços e repare sempre nas pequenas coisas que ela faz por vocês os dois.
By simply saying, “Thank you for doing that for me,” it will make her feel like the most special woman in the world.
6. Prestar-lhe atenção
If you think she’ll feel special if you neglect her, then you’re mistaken. No sane woman falls for those kinds of jogos mentais, sabe.
Se quer fazer com que a sua rapariga se sinta especial, então preste-lhe atenção.
Pay attention to her feelings, listen to what she’s saying to you and, most importantly, look carefully at what she’s showing you.
7. Tentar pôr-se no lugar dela
Nada a fará sentir-se mais especial do que ver o seu homem a fazer um esforço real para ver o seu ponto de vista.
Por isso, o que quer que aconteça entre vocês os dois, o que quer que ela faça, antes de tomar uma decisão, antes de a julgar, certifique-se de que vê tudo da perspetiva dela.
Here, you’ll need to cultivate compassion, and show her that you feel whatever she’s feeling.
Never dismiss her feelings easily or take them lightly. She has a reason to feel the way she’s feeling, so hold her hand through whatever she’s going through.
8. Estar lá para ela no final de um dia difícil
I’m not saying she can’t fight her battles alone, but we all need someone’s shoulder to lean our head on after a hard day.
If you want to make her feel special, then be her safe haven. Be someone she knows she can count on. Be someone who won’t ask questions or make her feel worse when she tells him what happened.
Be someone with whom she’ll be able to enjoy the silence, someone with whom she’ll recharge her batteries, and someone who will send her a parágrafo de boa noite.
9. Interessar-se pela vida dela
If you really like this girl and want her to fall for you, you can’t do that by not knowing what’s going on in her life. So, show some interest.
Interesse-se genuinamente pelas coisas de que ela gosta, pelas coisas que fazê-la felizno seu futuro e em tudo o que a inspira.
Ask her how her day was, what her plans are for the next day, month, year or her entire life. If this doesn’t make her feel special, I don’t know what will.
10. Ouvir os problemas dela
Perhaps there will be things that aren’t so big of an issue, but to her, those things may be the heaviest burdens she has ever carried on her shoulders.
So before you say how it’s not that big of a deal, listen to what she has to say.
Make sure you’re the first person she’ll come to when she has a problem, and make sure she knows she has someone who’ll help her no matter how much she messes up or what happens.
If you want to make her feel special, then make sure she knows she isn’t alone in her mess.
11. Don’t let her down
A última coisa que quer fazer se quiser que a sua rapariga se sinta especial é desiludi-la.
She should know that you would never do anything on purpose that would make her feel bad. So show her you won’t ever hurt her, and be there when you say you’ll be there.
Don’t make promises you won’t be able to keep, and don’t turn your back on her when she needs you the most.
12. Ser um homem adulto
Don’t play games with her. Don’t do things immature men or boys do. Admit your feelings to her.
Lift her when she falls. Stick to your word. Don’t keep your options open.
Take responsibility for your actions. And if you really want to make her special, treat her like a lady. Show her that you’re material de namorado.
13. Mantém os olhos nela
Always keep your eyes on her. This can’t be stressed enough. The proudest woman is one who can say with confidence that her man only has eyes for her.
When you’re out together, don’t flirt with the waitress. Don’t check out other women, and don’t compare your girl with other girls.
A melhor maneira de a fazer sentir especial é mostrar-lhe que só tem olhos para ela.
14. Make sure she knows she’s the only one
When you really want to make her feel special, you don’t keep other options open.
Se a quer mesmo, então concentre-se apenas em conquistá-la e em fazê-la sentir-se especial.
If you’re texting other girls and going out with other women, if you’re still online on dating sites, how could you possibly make her feel special?
Do it right, and show her she’s the only one. Remind her that she’s the one you want to be with and that she is truly special to you. Don’t just talk about it, do it.
15. Antiquado não é demasiado foleiro
Holding doors or opening them for her, paying attention to which side of the sidewalk she’s on, buying her roses, kissing her on the forehead or on the hand will never get outdated.
Bringing breakfast in bed, cooking for her, holding her hand in public and other things aren’t cheesy—they are the tools that will help you make her feel special.
16. Mostrar afeto publicamente
If you’re going to make her feel special when you two are on your own and then pretend like she doesn’t exist in public, then don’t bother doing it at all.
Está bem, algumas coisas devem permanecer privadas, mas o facto de gostares dela deve ser gritado em voz alta publicamente.
Not only will you be telling the world how you feel about her, but you’ll also make her feel special if you take her hand in public, if you stand close to her, if you buy her drink or if you proudly introduce her as your girlfriend to your friends or other people you know.
17. Fazer um esforço para se dar bem com os amigos e a família dela
If you really want to be different and special in her eyes, then it’s up to you to make things work between you and her friends and family.
Most likely those will be the people she cares about the most in her life, and by getting along with them, you’ll be showing her how special she is to you and how much she means to you.
18. Ser aberto e honesto
Se quiser que ela saiba qual é o lugar dela na sua vida, então tem de criar um lugar especial só para ela.
You need to welcome her, and make sure she knows she isn’t just a fling. She needs to know that you’re always going to be upfront with her regarding everything and that you won’t lie to her.
Welcome her into your world, and open up to her. Tell her things you’ve never told anyone else. Show her you trust her. That’s how you make her feel special.
19. Fazer-lhe elogios
But don’t let it be those compliments that anyone could give her. Make sure you compliment the things nobody else sees. Something that makes her special in your eyes.
E tente fazê-lo também numa base diária. Isso vai certamente aumentar o ego dela e fazê-la sentir-se especial.
20. Dizer-lhe o que gostas nela
Maybe you love how she bites her lip when she’s nervous or how she turns her head when she’s shy. Maybe you love her passion or you admire her kindness.
Whatever it might be, make sure you don’t keep it to yourself. Feel free to say out loud all the things that only you like about her.
21. Dar-lhe pequenos sinais de afeto
Talvez possa começar por se lembrar das músicas de que ela mais gosta e fazer uma lista de reprodução só para ela no seu carro.
Publicar de vez em quando uma história com ela também serve.
De vez em quando, compre-lhe pequenas coisas como chocolate ou rosas. Gabar-se dela aos outros. Planeie encontros. Use tudo o que puder para a fazer sentir-se especial.
22. Recordar ocasiões especiais
Never forget her birthday, and if you’re a person with a bad memory, then just keep a list of all important things and dates.
Surprise her for Valentine’s Day, remember when and where you first kissed her, don’t forget the date when you started the relationship, and always do something to celebrate those days.
23. Surpreende-a
It doesn’t have to be anything big, but organizing a romantic dinner here and there, sending her a história romântica para adormecer, having your room filled with candles and your bed with roses or buying her a bag or a dress she’s been talking about for a long time will do the job, too.
And I don’t even have to talk about a romantic getaway or a picnic under the stars. It might be from a movie seen too many times, but it always works!
24. Enviar-lhe a primeira mensagem
Don’t be one of those guys who waits before they double-text or those who wait for girls to texto primeiro.
Certifique-se de que o seu nome é a primeira coisa que ela vê no ecrã de manhã.
Envie-lhe uma mensagem de texto só para saber como foi o dia dela ou só para lhe dizer como ela é maravilhosa e como tem sorte por a ter na sua vida.
25. Don’t forget the love notes
Stickers on the mirror, a small letter on her pillow, a message you tuck into her pocket while she isn’t watching or sending an email that tells her how much you love her will make her feel like she’s the only woman in this world.
26. Beija-a
As much as you can, as often as you can and wherever you can. Just a small, gentle kiss on her cheek, a kiss on the shoulder, a hug from the back and a kiss on the neck in front of everyone or when you’re on your own will mean the world to her.
Nunca deixe que o seu afeto se esgote e nunca a deixe adormecer sem o seu beijo.
27. Ser coerente
Have something that’s special only for the two of you. It can be a cute goodnight message.
It can be a special coffee shop you go to every week, whatever you want, but something that will remind her of you even when you’re away.
28. Falar sobre o futuro
Esta é a melhor forma de fazer com que a sua rapariga se sinta especial. Saber que está a planear um futuro com ela e que a quer ver ao seu lado nos dias que ainda estão para vir são sussurros silenciosos de que ela é, de facto, alguém especial para si.
That she’s the person you’re planning to spend your life with.
29. Pedir a opinião dela sobre as decisões
Faça com que ela faça parte das suas lutas, decisões e escolhas diárias. Peça a opinião dela sobre todos os assuntos, porque quer mesmo ouvir o que ela tem para dizer.
Appreciate her opinion and thank her for being there for you just as you’re being there for her. By making her a part of your life, you will make her feel truly special.
30. Dizer-lhe o quanto a valorizas pela pessoa que ela é
Diz-lhe que estás loucamente apaixonado por todas as suas peculiaridades e defeitos.
Diga-lhe que as imperfeições dela são o que a torna perfeita aos seus olhos e que ela nunca deve mudar.
Diga-lhe o quanto valoriza tudo o que ela traz para a mesa e o quanto gosta de cada pedacinho do seu ser por dentro e por fora.
If you do that, you will make her feel like she’s the only girl in the world, and there is nothing more special than that.
This list of obvious signs shows that you don’t need much to make a woman feel special.
To be honest, these are all the things a man who’s truly in love would be willing to do on his own.
Estas são todas as coisas que deveriam ser naturais para ele. E estas são todas as coisas que todas as mulheres merecem ter na vida.
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