30 maneras de hacer que una chica se sienta especial (y se enamore de ti)

¿Quiere demostrarle lo extraordinariamente especial que es para usted? ¿Quiere hacerle saber lo hermosa y única que es por dentro y por fuera?

Do you want to show her your utter appreciation, but you’re not sure how?

Don’t worry. It’s totally understandable. Your wish to haz que se sienta especial is making you feel anxious because you’re afraid that whatever you do, it won’t be good enough.

But the truth is that it’s not at all difficult to make a girl feel special, and I’ll explain to you why.

If you’re wondering how to make a girl feel special, there is only one thing you need to remember and that is: Las pequeñas cosas son las más importantes. ¿Qué significa esto?

Significa que tu chica no espera milagros de ti como la mayoría de los hombres podrían pensar.

Las pequeñas cosas hacen que sucedan grandes cosas. La harás sentir realmente especial con gestos dulces y pequeñas cosas que le recordarán lo hermosa y única que es. Remember that you’ll make her feel special by doing all of it regularly.

Simplemente escuchándola, pidiéndole su opinión sobre ciertos asuntos, dándole un masaje, diciéndole lo guapa que está con ese vestido son algunas de las cosas que harán que su corazón lata más rápido y la harán sonreír.

And what’s more beautiful in the world than seeing your girl truly happy and knowing that you’re the one who deserves the credit for doing so?

And what’s even more awesome than having everything you need on the list below!? Here are 30 awesome ways to show your girl she’s the most precious miracle in your life!

30 MANERAS DE HACER QUE UNA CHICA SE SIENTA ESPECIAL (Y SE ENAMORE DE TI)

1. Dedícale tiempo

This one isn’t rocket science, and it means so much to the fairer sex.

Making time for her shouldn’t even be arguable. This is something that should come naturally to all men.

Para que una mujer se sienta especial, basta con dedicarle tiempo.

Independientemente de lo apretada que esté su agenda o de lo que tenga que hacer ese día, dedicar tiempo a su mujer debería ser algo obvio.

2. Haz de ella tu prioridad

This one goes together with making time for her, and it’s also something that should go without saying.

Si quieres que tu chica se sienta especial, asegúrate de que ella es tu prioridady asegúrate de que lo sepa.

If you’ve already welcomed her into your life and you want to be an important part of hers as well, then you should come at the top of each other’s priority list.

Regardless of what happens, if you’re planning something serious with her in your life and if you’re planning to tie her to yourself, then she should always come first in your life.

That being said, you should also know that nothing will make her feel special more than knowing she’s #1 in your life. 

3. Aceptarla

Pero acéptala de verdad. Acéptala por lo que es. Acéptala con todas sus perfecciones e imperfecciones.

Acepta todo lo que le gusta y lo que no. Todos sus defectos y sus pequeños rituales. Acepta de verdad todo lo que aporte a vuestra relación.

Don’t just take her good sides. Take those you normally wouldn’t like.

Accept her wholly, not just parts of her and her personality that others might not. That’s how you show her she’s special to you.

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4. Don’t try to change her

No intentar cambiarla va unido a aceptarla.

There will probably be things about her that you won’t like or things that you’d like to see. But just because you are portraying her in a certain way doesn’t mean that’s her truth.

So if she isn’t something you’d like her to be, don’t try to make her change. Leave her the way she is, and love her the way she is. That’s the way to make her feel special.

5. Apreciarla

Never let a day pass by where you don’t notice all the things she does for you. Never let a day pass by that you don’t thank her for everything she does.

Aprecia sus esfuerzos y fíjate siempre en las pequeñas cosas que hace por los dos.

By simply saying, “Thank you for doing that for me,” it will make her feel like the most special woman in the world.

6. Prestarle atención

If you think she’ll feel special if you neglect her, then you’re mistaken. No sane woman falls for those kinds of juegos mentales...ya sabes.

Si quieres que tu chica se sienta especial, préstale atención.

Pay attention to her feelings, listen to what she’s saying to you and, most importantly, look carefully at what she’s showing you.

7. Intenta ponerte en su lugar

Nada la hará sentirse más especial que ver a su hombre haciendo un esfuerzo real por ver su punto de vista.

Así que, pase lo que pase entre vosotros, haga lo que haga, antes de tomar una decisión, antes de juzgarla, asegúrate de verlo todo desde su perspectiva.

Here, you’ll need to cultivate compassion, and show her that you feel whatever she’s feeling.

Never dismiss her feelings easily or take them lightly. She has a reason to feel the way she’s feeling, so hold her hand through whatever she’s going through.

8. Estar a su lado al final de un día duro

I’m not saying she can’t fight her battles alone, but we all need someone’s shoulder to lean our head on after a hard day.

If you want to make her feel special, then be her safe haven. Be someone she knows she can count on. Be someone who won’t ask questions or make her feel worse when she tells him what happened.

Be someone with whom she’ll be able to enjoy the silence, someone with whom she’ll recharge her batteries, and someone who will send her a párrafo de buenas noches.

9. Interesarse por su vida

If you really like this girl and want her to fall for you, you can’t do that by not knowing what’s going on in her life. So, show some interest.

Interésate de verdad por las cosas que le gustan, por las cosas que hazla felizen su futuro y en todo lo que la inspira.

Ask her how her day was, what her plans are for the next day, month, year or her entire life. If this doesn’t make her feel special, I don’t know what will.

10. Escuchar sus problemas

Perhaps there will be things that aren’t so big of an issue, but to her, those things may be the heaviest burdens she has ever carried on her shoulders.

So before you say how it’s not that big of a deal, listen to what she has to say.

Make sure you’re the first person she’ll come to when she has a problem, and make sure she knows she has someone who’ll help her no matter how much she messes up or what happens.

If you want to make her feel special, then make sure she knows she isn’t alone in her mess.

11. Don’t let her down

Lo último que querrías hacer si quieres que tu chica se sienta especial es defraudarla.

She should know that you would never do anything on purpose that would make her feel bad. So show her you won’t ever hurt her, and be there when you say you’ll be there.

Don’t make promises you won’t be able to keep, and don’t turn your back on her when she needs you the most.

12. Ser un hombre adulto

Don’t play games with her. Don’t do things immature men or boys do. Admit your feelings to her.

Lift her when she falls. Stick to your word. Don’t keep your options open.

Take responsibility for your actions. And if you really want to make her special, treat her like a lady. Show her that you’re material novio.

13. No la pierdas de vista

Always keep your eyes on her. This can’t be stressed enough. The proudest woman is one who can say with confidence that her man only has eyes for her.

When you’re out together, don’t flirt with the waitress. Don’t check out other women, and don’t compare your girl with other girls.

La mejor forma de hacerla sentir especial es demostrarle que sólo tienes ojos para ella.

14. Make sure she knows she’s the only one

When you really want to make her feel special, you don’t keep other options open.

Si realmente la quieres, céntrate sólo en conquistarla y hacerla sentir especial.

If you’re texting other girls and going out with other women, if you’re still online on dating sites, how could you possibly make her feel special?

Do it right, and show her she’s the only one. Remind her that she’s the one you want to be with and that she is truly special to you. Don’t just talk about it, do it.

15. Lo anticuado no es demasiado cursi

Holding doors or opening them for her, paying attention to which side of the sidewalk she’s on, buying her roses, kissing her on the forehead or on the hand will never get outdated.

Bringing breakfast in bed, cooking for her, holding her hand in public and other things aren’t cheesy—they are the tools that will help you make her feel special.

16. Mostrar afecto públicamente

If you’re going to make her feel special when you two are on your own and then pretend like she doesn’t exist in public, then don’t bother doing it at all.

De acuerdo, algunas cosas deben permanecer en privado, pero el hecho de que te gusta debe gritarse públicamente.

Not only will you be telling the world how you feel about her, but you’ll also make her feel special if you take her hand in public, if you stand close to her, if you buy her drink or if you proudly introduce her as your girlfriend to your friends or other people you know.

17. Hacer un esfuerzo por llevarse bien con sus amigos y familiares

If you really want to be different and special in her eyes, then it’s up to you to make things work between you and her friends and family.

Most likely those will be the people she cares about the most in her life, and by getting along with them, you’ll be showing her how special she is to you and how much she means to you.

18. Ser abierto y honesto

Si quieres que sepa qué lugar ocupa en tu vida, tienes que crear un lugar especial para ella.

You need to welcome her, and make sure she knows she isn’t just a fling. She needs to know that you’re always going to be upfront with her regarding everything and that you won’t lie to her.

Welcome her into your world, and open up to her. Tell her things you’ve never told anyone else. Show her you trust her. That’s how you make her feel special.

19. Hacerle cumplidos

But don’t let it be those compliments that anyone could give her. Make sure you compliment the things nobody else sees. Something that makes her special in your eyes.

Y procura hacerlo también a diario. Aumentará su ego y la hará sentirse especial.

20. Dile lo que te gusta de ella

Maybe you love how she bites her lip when she’s nervous or how she turns her head when she’s shy. Maybe you love her passion or you admire her kindness.

Whatever it might be, make sure you don’t keep it to yourself. Feel free to say out loud all the things that only you like about her.

21. Dale pequeñas muestras de afecto

Quizá puedas empezar por recordar qué canciones le gustan más y hacer una lista de reproducción sólo para ella en tu coche.

Publicar una historia de vez en cuando con ella también servirá.

Cómprale de vez en cuando pequeñas cosas, como chocolate o rosas. Presume de ella ante los demás. Planifica citas. Haz todo lo posible para que se sienta especial.

22. Recordar ocasiones especiales

Never forget her birthday, and if you’re a person with a bad memory, then just keep a list of all important things and dates.

Surprise her for Valentine’s Day, remember when and where you first kissed her, don’t forget the date when you started the relationship, and always do something to celebrate those days.

23. Sorpréndela

It doesn’t have to be anything big, but organizing a romantic dinner here and there, sending her a cuento romántico para dormir, having your room filled with candles and your bed with roses or buying her a bag or a dress she’s been talking about for a long time will do the job, too.

And I don’t even have to talk about a romantic getaway or a picnic under the stars. It might be from a movie seen too many times, but it always works!

24. Envía su primer

Don’t be one of those guys who waits before they double-text or those who wait for girls to texto primero.

Asegúrate de que tu nombre sea lo primero que vea en su pantalla por la mañana.

Envíale un mensaje sólo para saber cómo le ha ido el día o para decirle lo maravillosa que es y lo afortunado que eres de tenerla en tu vida.

25. Don’t forget the love notes

Stickers on the mirror, a small letter on her pillow, a message you tuck into her pocket while she isn’t watching or sending an email that tells her how much you love her will make her feel like she’s the only woman in this world.

26. Bésala

As much as you can, as often as you can and wherever you can. Just a small, gentle kiss on her cheek, a kiss on the shoulder, a hug from the back and a kiss on the neck in front of everyone or when you’re on your own will mean the world to her.

No dejes que tu afecto se agote y no permitas que se vaya a dormir sin tu beso.

27. Ser coherente

Have something that’s special only for the two of you. It can be a cute goodnight message.

It can be a special coffee shop you go to every week, whatever you want, but something that will remind her of you even when you’re away.

28. Hablar del futuro

Es la mejor forma de hacer que tu chica se sienta especial. Saber que estás planeando un futuro con ella y que quieres verla a tu lado en los días que aún están por llegar son susurros silenciosos de que, efectivamente, es alguien especial para ti.

That she’s the person you’re planning to spend your life with.

29. Pedirle su opinión sobre las decisiones

Hazla partícipe de tus luchas, decisiones y elecciones cotidianas. Pídele su opinión sobre cualquier asunto porque realmente quieres oír lo que tiene que decir.

Appreciate her opinion and thank her for being there for you just as you’re being there for her. By making her a part of your life, you will make her feel truly special.

30. Dile lo mucho que la valoras por la persona que es

Dile lo locamente enamorado que estás de todas sus rarezas y defectos.

Dile que sus imperfecciones son lo que la hace perfecta a tus ojos y que nunca debe cambiar.

Hazle saber lo mucho que valoras todo lo que aporta y lo mucho que amas cada una de las pequeñas partes de su ser.

If you do that, you will make her feel like she’s the only girl in the world, and there is nothing more special than that.

This list of obvious signs shows that you don’t need much to make a woman feel special.

To be honest, these are all the things a man who’s truly in love would be willing to do on his own.

Estas son todas las cosas que deberían serle naturales. Y estas son todas las cosas que toda mujer merece obtener en la vida.

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