6 tipos de rapazes que não deves namorar este ano

Em 2025, é provável que saia com mais do que um homem e que alguns deles até se tornem seus namorados.

Well, if you’re one of those people who always start another January with some New Year’s resolutions, here’s a suggestion: This time, decide to at least try to save yourself from a heartbreak.

É claro que nunca se pode ser demasiado cuidadosa quando se trata de homens cujo único objetivo é magoá-la, mas, quanto mais não seja, pode evitar certos tipos de homens. Nem todos merecem a sua atenção e o seu tempo.

Aqui estão 6 tipos de homens de quem se deve manter afastado este ano.

The one who doesn’t know what he wants

Let this year be the one where you’ll finally finish with all the almost-relationships, Relações NSA , namoros casuais e outras situações indefinidas.

Deixe de lado todos os rapazes que se recusam a colocar um rótulo na sua relação, que desaparecem e reaparecem na sua vida como querem e que são demasiado imaturos para se comprometerem.

Forget about the man who’s actually a boy in disguise and doesn’t have a clue about what he wants. About a guy who’ll bring nothing good to your life and only waste your time.

Sei que este tipo de homem é normalmente o mais excitante. Nunca se sabe o que vai acontecer a seguir e não se faz ideia do que esperar dele, o que torna a vossa relação bastante emocionante.

However, you’re not a kid anymore and you don’t need someone to make your life a living hell, without ever giving you what you need. The last thing you need is someone who plays with you and drains you emotionally.

O jogador que espera mudar

Quantas vezes já se encontrou com um jogador que tem mais do que uma rapariga nas suas mãos ao mesmo tempo?

O homem encantador que a deixou de rastos à primeira vista, que sabe exatamente o que lhe dizer e o que fazer para a conquistar?

This is another man you shouldn’t date in 2025 because he’s actually just trying to get in your pants. I know he’s hard to resist, but trust me when I tell you, you’re not the only girl digging his stories.

So, instead of being aware of all of this and running for your life the moment he tries to enter your life, you do completely the opposite – you take him as a challenge and hope to be the one to change him.

Well, this is exactly what you shouldn’t be doing because you’ll achieve nothing besides breaking your own heart.

Remember: A serial cheater always remains a cheater and there’s nothing you can do to magically turn him into a committed monogamist.

Aquele que quer mudar-te

The same way you shouldn’t get yourself involved with a man you want to change, you shouldn’t date a man who has the intention of changing you either.

Afaste-se dos homens que já têm uma imagem da namorada perfeita e querem que você se enquadre nessa caixa, sem ter em consideração a sua individualidade.

Your boyfriend should inspire you to be better – there’s no doubt in that. However, he shouldn’t force you to make some modifications you don’t want to make yourself.

Don’t date a maníaco por controlo who wants to take over all aspects of your life and transform you into a person you’re not.

Don’t be with the one who doesn’t accept you for who you are, with all of your flaws and imperfections, and who won’t love you for them.

At first, you might be willing to make some alterations regarding your appearance or personality for the sake of this guy’s love.

However, after you see that you’ve lost yourself, you’ll be angry at both of you – at him for being the cause of your transformation and at yourself for allowing it.

O que tem uma bagagem emocional

At your age, it is impossible to find a man who doesn’t have some kind of a romantic past. Besides, you wouldn’t even want an inexperienced guy you’d have to teach everything.

That said, it’s one thing if you meet a guy who’s got a few relationships behind him, yet completely different if you get involved with someone who has some unresolved issues from the past.

The last thing you want to become is a man’s rebound and a third wheel in someone else’s on-and-off relationship, without even being aware of it.

This guy’s emotional baggage will ruin your relationship before it even starts. You’ll end up getting yourself dragged into someone else’s problem that you have nothing to do with – and who wants that?

Please, don’t date a guy who has just gotten out of a long term relationship, a guy who is just using you to prove to himself and his ex-girlfriend that he’s moved on, or a guy who still has feelings for someone from his past.

Of course, you can’t know all of this from the beginning, but as soon as you realize who and what you’re dealing with, don’t waste another minute of your time on someone you clearly have no future with.

Por mais que tente fazer algo desta relação e ajudá-lo a esquecer a ex, saiba que este homem é emocionalmente indisponível e nunca poderá dar-vos o seu amor sincero.

Queres mesmo estar com alguém que dorme contigo, mas sonha com outra mulher?

O inseguro

Another type of guy you’ll be better off without this year are the ones with a huge ego yet incredibly low self-esteem. The men who are just looking for a victim they can heal their insecurities through.

Homens que têm dificuldade em amar-se a si próprios e, por isso, também nunca poderão amá-la verdadeiramente.

This is the guy who’s intimidated by your every success and uses every opportunity to put you down, just because it’s the only way to make himself feel better and start seeing himself as a bigger man.

Em vez de o fazer avançar como um verdadeiro parceiro deveria fazer, ele retém-no e arruína o seu sentido de autoestima.

Um homem inseguro like this can never become your equal partner. Instead, he’ll constantly feel like he’s beneath you and mask his insecurities by trying to make you believe that you’re not good enough.

O seu ex

Finally, please don’t go back to your ex this year. Leave the past in the past where it belongs and take a leap into the bright future that awaits you.

I know you think you still love this guy, but trust me, this is just because you haven’t had the chance to run into someone worthy of your attention.

Sempre que pensares em fazer as pazes com ele, lembra-te de todas as razões pelas quais vocês se separaram.

No, neither of you has changed and this time won’t be any different. You’ll just prolong your agony for another year and your relationship will end up the same way it did all those times before.

Instead of repeating the same mistakes and doing the same things over and over again yet expecting a different result, start this year fresh. If this guy was meant to be yours, you two would’ve still been together.

Por isso, pare de dar segundas oportunidades a alguém que nunca as mereceu em primeiro lugar e, por uma vez, dê a si próprio a primeira oportunidade de ser feliz.