6 tipos de chicos con los que no deberías salir este año
En 2025, probablemente saldrás con más de un hombre y algunos de ellos incluso se convertirán en tus novios.
Well, if you’re one of those people who always start another January with some New Year’s resolutions, here’s a suggestion: This time, decide to at least try to save yourself from a heartbreak.
Por supuesto, nunca se es demasiado precavida cuando se trata de hombres cuyo único objetivo es hacerte daño, pero aunque sólo sea eso, puedes evitar a cierto tipo de tipos. No todos merecen tu atención y tu tiempo.
Aquí tienes 6 tipos de hombres de los que deberías alejarte este año.
The one who doesn’t know what he wants
Let this year be the one where you’ll finally finish with all the almost-relationships, Relaciones NSA ...aventuras casuales y otras situaciones indefinidas.
Deja ir a todos los chicos que se niegan a poner una etiqueta a tu relación, que desaparecen y reaparecen en tu vida como quieren y que son demasiado inmaduros para comprometerse.
Forget about the man who’s actually a boy in disguise and doesn’t have a clue about what he wants. About a guy who’ll bring nothing good to your life and only waste your time.
Sé que este tipo de hombre suele ser el que aporta más emoción. Nunca puedes saber qué va a pasar a continuación y no tienes ni idea de qué esperar de él, lo que hace que vuestra relación sea bastante emocionante.
However, you’re not a kid anymore and you don’t need someone to make your life a living hell, without ever giving you what you need. The last thing you need is someone who plays with you and drains you emotionally.
El jugador que espera cambiar
¿Cuántas veces se ha encontrado con un jugador que tiene más de una chica en sus manos a la vez?
¿El hombre encantador que te dejó boquiabierta a primera vista, que sabe exactamente qué decirte y qué hacer para meterse en tu piel?
This is another man you shouldn’t date in 2025 because he’s actually just trying to get in your pants. I know he’s hard to resist, but trust me when I tell you, you’re not the only girl digging his stories.
So, instead of being aware of all of this and running for your life the moment he tries to enter your life, you do completely the opposite – you take him as a challenge and hope to be the one to change him.
Well, this is exactly what you shouldn’t be doing because you’ll achieve nothing besides breaking your own heart.
Remember: A serial cheater always remains a cheater and there’s nothing you can do to magically turn him into a committed monogamist.
El que quiere cambiarte
The same way you shouldn’t get yourself involved with a man you want to change, you shouldn’t date a man who has the intention of changing you either.
Aléjate de los chicos que ya tienen una imagen de su novia perfecta y quieren que encajes en esa caja, sin tener en cuenta tu individualidad.
Your boyfriend should inspire you to be better – there’s no doubt in that. However, he shouldn’t force you to make some modifications you don’t want to make yourself.
Don’t date a maniático del control who wants to take over all aspects of your life and transform you into a person you’re not.
Don’t be with the one who doesn’t accept you for who you are, with all of your flaws and imperfections, and who won’t love you for them.
At first, you might be willing to make some alterations regarding your appearance or personality for the sake of this guy’s love.
However, after you see that you’ve lost yourself, you’ll be angry at both of you – at him for being the cause of your transformation and at yourself for allowing it.
El de la carga emocional
At your age, it is impossible to find a man who doesn’t have some kind of a romantic past. Besides, you wouldn’t even want an inexperienced guy you’d have to teach everything.
That said, it’s one thing if you meet a guy who’s got a few relationships behind him, yet completely different if you get involved with someone who has some unresolved issues from the past.
The last thing you want to become is a man’s rebound and a third wheel in someone else’s on-and-off relationship, without even being aware of it.
This guy’s emotional baggage will ruin your relationship before it even starts. You’ll end up getting yourself dragged into someone else’s problem that you have nothing to do with – and who wants that?
Please, don’t date a guy who has just gotten out of a long term relationship, a guy who is just using you to prove to himself and his ex-girlfriend that he’s moved on, or a guy who still has feelings for someone from his past.
Of course, you can’t know all of this from the beginning, but as soon as you realize who and what you’re dealing with, don’t waste another minute of your time on someone you clearly have no future with.
Por mucho que intentes sacar algo de esta relación y ayudarle a olvidar a su ex, ten en cuenta que este hombre es emocionalmente no disponible y nunca podrá darte su amor incondicional.
¿De verdad quieres estar con alguien que se acuesta contigo, pero sueña con otra mujer?
El inseguro
Another type of guy you’ll be better off without this year are the ones with a huge ego yet incredibly low self-esteem. The men who are just looking for a victim they can heal their insecurities through.
Hombres que tienen problemas para amarse a sí mismos y, por lo tanto, nunca podrán amarte de verdad a ti tampoco.
This is the guy who’s intimidated by your every success and uses every opportunity to put you down, just because it’s the only way to make himself feel better and start seeing himself as a bigger man.
En lugar de empujarte hacia adelante como debería hacerlo un verdadero compañero, te frena y arruina tu sentido de la autoestima.
En chico inseguro like this can never become your equal partner. Instead, he’ll constantly feel like he’s beneath you and mask his insecurities by trying to make you believe that you’re not good enough.
Tu ex
Finally, please don’t go back to your ex this year. Leave the past in the past where it belongs and take a leap into the bright future that awaits you.
I know you think you still love this guy, but trust me, this is just because you haven’t had the chance to run into someone worthy of your attention.
Cada vez que pienses en reconciliarte con él, recuerda todas las razones por las que rompisteis.
No, neither of you has changed and this time won’t be any different. You’ll just prolong your agony for another year and your relationship will end up the same way it did all those times before.
Instead of repeating the same mistakes and doing the same things over and over again yet expecting a different result, start this year fresh. If this guy was meant to be yours, you two would’ve still been together.
Así que deja de dar segundas oportunidades a alguien que nunca las mereció en primer lugar y, por una vez, date la primera oportunidad de ser feliz.
