7 maneiras de saber se o seu homem está realmente arrependido

In this day and age, where we are surrounded by men who are just looking for a fling or nothing serious and who only want a victim to play with, it’s very hard to find a man who is truly in love with you and really does respect you.

But how do we even know that they’re great guys? How do we know that these men, when they hurt us, really mean it when they apologize and tell us how sorry they are?

Para que saiba que ele está verdadeiramente arrependido e que não está apenas a pedir desculpa para que se cale sobre o problema, há certas formas de ver se o pedido de desculpas é genuíno ou não.

1. He doesn’t repeat that mistake

A mais óbvia, mas a maioria de nós pede desculpa, sabe o que fez de errado, mas não faz nada para mudar o seu comportamento.

Simplesmente esquecemo-nos disso ou, na verdade, não achamos que seja um problema assim tão grande e ficamos como estamos.

But if your man is really sorry, if he does regret what he has done, he won’t ever repeat that same mistake again.

Ele fará tudo o que for preciso só para te mostrar que ele mudousó para si.

2. Ele está consciente do problema

Everyone can say that they’re sorry. But for what? If your man is aware of what he did wrong, if he is aware of the fact that he hurt you really badly and he knows how to make it up to you, then his apology came from the heart.

Ele sabe todos os pequenos erros que cometeu e que a deixaram zangada, por isso, no final, quando veio pedir desculpa, pôde abordar todos os problemas em causa.

3. Ele pede-lhe que o perdoe

It isn’t something that happens every day when you see a man really apologizing for what he has done and begging for your forgiveness. Just by telling you ‘por favor, perdoa-me‘, your heart skips a beat.

By telling you that he is sorry AND on top of that openly asking for your forgiveness, it’s obvious that he really is sorry.

4. Oferece-se para fazer algo para que acreditem nele

If he asks you the, “What can I do to make it better?” question, you don’t know how genuine he really is with his apology, because this way he is asking you to tell him what to do and he doesn’t have to think about things himself.

Mas se ele se oferecer para fazer as coisas por si, para a compensar, então é melhor acreditar nele!

Telling you that he will do all the chores for days, that he will watch the kids so you can go out with friends, block his ex and that woman flirting with him from all social media and so on means he’s genuine.

5. Ele fez com que tudo girasse à tua volta

Quando um homem é egoísta e dissimulado com o seu pedido de desculpas, ele faz com que tudo seja sobre ele próprio.

He says that he must be the victim in this situation or that he didn’t know how something like that could happen to him when he is always such a perfect boyfriend. When a man is honest about his apology then he makes it all about you!

He tells you that you’re the perfect girlfriend for him, that he wants to spend his life with you and that he will do whatever it takes to make YOU happy.

6. Ele dá-te tempo para o processares

If he gets angry at you for not ‘being over it’ in just a few days then his apology was probably there just to shut you up.

A man who meant his apology knows that he has done something to upset you and he’s ready to give you enough time and space to get over it and process it properly without rushing you.