7 modi per sapere che il vostro uomo è veramente dispiaciuto

In this day and age, where we are surrounded by men who are just looking for a fling or nothing serious and who only want a victim to play with, it’s very hard to find a man who is truly in love with you and really does respect you.

But how do we even know that they’re great guys? How do we know that these men, when they hurt us, really mean it when they apologize and tell us how sorry they are?

Affinché possiate sapere che è veramente dispiaciuto e che non si sta scusando solo per farvi tacere sul problema, ci sono alcuni modi per capire se le sue scuse sono genuine o meno.

1. He doesn’t repeat that mistake

La più ovvia, ma la maggior parte di noi si scusa, sa cosa ha sbagliato ma non fa nulla per cambiare il proprio comportamento.

Semplicemente ce ne dimentichiamo o non lo consideriamo un problema così grande e quindi rimaniamo così come siamo.

But if your man is really sorry, if he does regret what he has done, he won’t ever repeat that same mistake again.

Farà tutto ciò che gli serve per dimostrarvi che è cambiato, solo per voi.

2. È consapevole del problema

Everyone can say that they’re sorry. But for what? If your man is aware of what he did wrong, if he is aware of the fact that he hurt you really badly and he knows how to make it up to you, then his apology came from the heart.

Conosce ogni piccolo errore che vi ha fatto arrabbiare, così alla fine, quando è venuto a scusarsi, ha potuto affrontare tutti i problemi in gioco.

3. Vi chiede di perdonarlo

It isn’t something that happens every day when you see a man really apologizing for what he has done and begging for your forgiveness. Just by telling you ‘per favore, perdonami‘, your heart skips a beat.

By telling you that he is sorry AND on top of that openly asking for your forgiveness, it’s obvious that he really is sorry.

4. Si offre di fare qualcosa perché gli si creda

If he asks you the, “What can I do to make it better?” question, you don’t know how genuine he really is with his apology, because this way he is asking you to tell him what to do and he doesn’t have to think about things himself.

Ma se si offre di fare le cose da solo, per farsi perdonare, allora è meglio che gli crediate!

Telling you that he will do all the chores for days, that he will watch the kids so you can go out with friends, block his ex and that woman flirting with him from all social media and so on means he’s genuine.

5. Ha fatto in modo che tutto fosse incentrato su di voi

Quando un uomo è egoista e falso con le sue scuse, fa tutto per se stesso.

He says that he must be the victim in this situation or that he didn’t know how something like that could happen to him when he is always such a perfect boyfriend. When a man is honest about his apology then he makes it all about you!

He tells you that you’re the perfect girlfriend for him, that he wants to spend his life with you and that he will do whatever it takes to make YOU happy.

6. Vi dà il tempo di elaborarlo

If he gets angry at you for not ‘being over it’ in just a few days then his apology was probably there just to shut you up.

A man who meant his apology knows that he has done something to upset you and he’s ready to give you enough time and space to get over it and process it properly without rushing you.