7 maneras de saber que tu hombre lo siente de verdad

In this day and age, where we are surrounded by men who are just looking for a fling or nothing serious and who only want a victim to play with, it’s very hard to find a man who is truly in love with you and really does respect you.

But how do we even know that they’re great guys? How do we know that these men, when they hurt us, really mean it when they apologize and tell us how sorry they are?

Para que sepas que lo siente de verdad y que no se está disculpando sólo para que te calles el problema, hay ciertas formas de ver si sus disculpas son auténticas o no.

1. He doesn’t repeat that mistake

     

La más obvia, pero la mayoría de nosotros nos disculpamos, sabemos lo que hicimos mal pero aun así no hacemos nada para cambiar nuestro comportamiento.

Simplemente nos olvidamos de ello o en realidad no nos parece un problema tan grave, así que nos quedamos como estamos.

But if your man is really sorry, if he does regret what he has done, he won’t ever repeat that same mistake again.

Hará lo que haga falta para demostrarte que ha cambiadoSólo para ti.

2. Es consciente del problema

Everyone can say that they’re sorry. But for what? If your man is aware of what he did wrong, if he is aware of the fact that he hurt you really badly and he knows how to make it up to you, then his apology came from the heart.

Conoce cada pequeño error que cometió y que te hizo enfadar, así que al final, cuando vino a disculparse, pudo abordar todos los problemas en juego.

3. Te pide perdón

It isn’t something that happens every day when you see a man really apologizing for what he has done and begging for your forgiveness. Just by telling you ‘por favor, perdóname‘, your heart skips a beat.

By telling you that he is sorry AND on top of that openly asking for your forgiveness, it’s obvious that he really is sorry.

4. Se ofrece a hacer algo para que le creas

If he asks you the, “What can I do to make it better?” question, you don’t know how genuine he really is with his apology, because this way he is asking you to tell him what to do and he doesn’t have to think about things himself.

Pero si se ofrece a hacer cosas por ti él solo, para compensarte, ¡más vale que le creas!

Telling you that he will do all the chores for days, that he will watch the kids so you can go out with friends, block his ex and that woman flirting with him from all social media and so on means he’s genuine.

5. Hizo que todo girara en torno a ti

Cuando un hombre es egoísta y poco sincero con su disculpalo hace todo sobre sí mismo.

He says that he must be the victim in this situation or that he didn’t know how something like that could happen to him when he is always such a perfect boyfriend. When a man is honest about his apology then he makes it all about you!

He tells you that you’re the perfect girlfriend for him, that he wants to spend his life with you and that he will do whatever it takes to make YOU happy.

6. Te da tiempo para procesarlo

If he gets angry at you for not ‘being over it’ in just a few days then his apology was probably there just to shut you up.

A man who meant his apology knows that he has done something to upset you and he’s ready to give you enough time and space to get over it and process it properly without rushing you.

7. He doesn’t make excuses

If his apology is genuine he won’t try to find excuses for his behavior.

He won’t try to rationalize what he did wrong but he’ll rather just explain the scene in which he behaved the way he did.

He doesn’t want you to believe that he’s the victim but he wants you to understand what actually happened.