F*ck Him For Like You, But Not Enough To Commit (Foda-se ele por gostar de você, mas não o suficiente para se comprometer)

Some believe that when it comes to love, there is no grey zone. Either you’re no amor or you’re not. There’s no room for anything in between.

But what happens when the one you’re in love with wants to spend time with you but doesn’t want to commit? He wants to be with you, but he doesn’t want a relationship? Why would he show interest and then bail on you?

Sinto a tua frustração. Pode ser tão confuso quando alguém é tão atencioso connosco, nos faz sentir tão amadas e depois se afasta e nos deixa sem nada para fazer durante algum tempo. Pode ser um desafio tentar decifrar o que pode levar um homem a comportar-se de forma tão cruel.

Regardless of how much it kills you not knowing and trying to get to the bottom of his behavior, don’t waste your precious time and nerves on figuring out somebody who clearly has no idea o que ele quer and cannot appreciate a good thing, even when it’s standing right in front of him.

If you want the honest truth, here it is. Yeah, he likes you – just not enough to commit to you. And screw him for that!

É por isso que ele volta sempre a rastejar para si depois de terminarem. Porque ele gosta claramente da sua companhia, mas não o suficiente para um compromisso permanente.

F*ck anyone who treats you like you’re not enough!

Ele que se lixe por ter passado um fim de semana fantástico contigo e depois se recusar a atender as tuas chamadas durante toda a semana seguinte.

Ele que se lixe por te dizer que és fantástica e depois te enganar durante semanas a fio.

Ele que se lixe por enviar uma mensagem de texto a altas horas da noite a dizer que tem muitas saudades tuas, mas por se recusar a pôr um rótulo na vossa relação.

Ele que se lixe por não se esforçar nada, depois de te garantir que quer estar contigo, mas desta vez a sério.

You’ve experienced enough lies and tricks from him to expect nothing more than empty words substantiated by occasional professions of affection, which usually translates to sex and a few scattered texts.

You’re better than uma chamada para sexoLembre-se disso, não importa o quão bom amante ele seja ou o quão suavemente ele consiga convencê-la a perdoá-lo pela bilionésima vez. O suficiente é suficiente. Que se lixe isso.

The most important thing here is to know better than to take it personally. You should know by now that it most definitely isn’t you. It’s him. It’s not your fault that he can’t appreciate you for the amazing woman that you are.

Never change who you are for someone who won’t know how to appreciate you either way. Never change how you see yourself due to somebody not being able to see you in your full glory. And never let someone diminish your worth by treating you like you’re only what he makes of you.

I know you’re hurting right now. But the reason for that is not because you’re losing the guy who’s right for you because he’s not.

The reason you’re hurting is because your ego has been rocked by his inconsistent pattern of behavior. Don’t let that faze you too much. He’s not important enough to shatter your self-confidence.

This sucks, sure. But you can’t force people into feeling things that aren’t there. As brutal as it is to hear this, it’s true.

Tudo o que pode fazer é apreciar aqueles que sabem o seu valor e deixar de lado todos os que o fazem sentir-se inferior.

You’re a smart, badass, sexy specimen of a human being. And no temporary man can prove you otherwise. Let that f*cker go, and make yourself available for when the right guy comes along.