Se ele fizer estas 9 coisas, nunca se apaixonará por ti

1. Faz planos contigo à última da hora

Let’s be honest, he probably had some plans with his friends but since they ditched him, he called you because he doesn’t want to sit in a bar alone.

É a sua última opção e prefere passar algum tempo consigo do que ir para casa e ficar aborrecido.

2. He doesn’t introduce you as his girlfriend

If he doesn’t introduce you as his girlfriend, it’s because he doesn’t see you as one. It is a sign that he probably has someone else (or more of them) but he wants to keep you as an option.

He doesn’t think you are important in his life and he doesn’t want to introduce you to the people who matter to him.

3. Ele só estende a mão quando quer

Se o apanhaste a mandar-te mensagens às 2 da manhã a dizer que tem saudades tuas e que quer que fiques perto dele, isso significa que não passas de uma booty call para ele.

He just uses you to get what he wants and he doesn’t want to commit at all. He plays games but it is up to you how long you will put up with them.

4. He doesn’t want to meet your friends

Even if you said that there are people in your life who are extremely important to you, he will never want to meet them. In fact, he won’t even want to get to know you better either.

He just wants you to be there when he is into it and to leave him alone when he needs space. If you see these red flag signs, you should tell him that you are not his puppet and that he can’t do whatever he wants with you.

5. He disappears and doesn’t contact you

A man who is into you will tell you if he won’t be available because he knows you would worry. But if your boyfriend disappears for a couple of days and acts normal when he comes back, you should know that he doesn’t respect you.

Um homem assim nunca a vai amar. Se ele está a fazer todas estas coisas no início da vossa relação, pode imaginar o que fará quando as coisas se tornarem sérias.

6. Ele demora muito tempo a responder às suas mensagens

Ok, todos conhecem a tática de não responder a uma mensagem imediatamente após um rapaz ou uma rapariga envia-lhe mensagens but a man who is interested in you won’t play any mind games.

He will show you that he is available at any time and that he is glad you reached out. But if he ignores your texts for a day or more and you see him actively answering other people then he is just a loser who doesn’t deserve you.

Avançar enquanto não é demasiado tarde.

7. Ele diz que a ex era uma cabra

Já ouviste aquele ditado: Só se deve falar bem de pessoas mortas e de ex-namorados?

Mas se ele repete constantemente que a ex era uma cabra e que ela é a culpada da separação, há uma hipótese de ele ainda não a ter esquecido e de você ser apenas uma rapariga de recuperação para ele.

Also, if he talks like that about her, he will talk about you in the same way. He simply can’t stand the fact that he was the one who messed things up!

8. Convida-te para ir a tua casa só para ter sexo contigo

Se ele a convida para ir a casa dele só para ter sexo consigo e lhe diz que tem de se levantar cedo depois de terminarem, é um sinal de que não está interessado em si.

He will never love you and the sooner you get that, the easier it will be for you. He is just a fuckboy who wants to take advantage of you and he doesn’t have any plans to make any effort for you.

9. Ele não faz qualquer esforço para a conquistar

A guy like this has the attitude that he shouldn’t make any effort to win you over. He wants you to do all the work. And once you do all of it, he will then say he is not the right one for you and will leave.

The thing is that he really doesn’t know what he wants. He is just a spoiled brat who got every girl he wanted but ele nunca poderia comprometer-se a qualquer um deles.

So, if you see this behavior, don’t put up with it but instead give him a one-way ticket out of your life.

Christine é autora de ‘Encarando os olhos da ansiedade e da depressão’Um livro que irá mudar a forma como combate a ansiedade e a depressão.