Si hace estas 9 cosas, nunca se enamorará de ti

1. Hace planes contigo en el último minuto

Let’s be honest, he probably had some plans with his friends but since they ditched him, he called you because he doesn’t want to sit in a bar alone.

Usted es su última opción y prefiere pasar tiempo contigo que irse a casa y aburrirse.

2. He doesn’t introduce you as his girlfriend

If he doesn’t introduce you as his girlfriend, it’s because he doesn’t see you as one. It is a sign that he probably has someone else (or more of them) but he wants to keep you as an option.

He doesn’t think you are important in his life and he doesn’t want to introduce you to the people who matter to him.

3. Extiende la mano sólo cuando quiere

Si le has pillado mandándote mensajes a las 2 de la mañana diciéndote que te echa de menos y que quiere que estés cerca, significa que no eres más que un botín para él.

He just uses you to get what he wants and he doesn’t want to commit at all. He plays games but it is up to you how long you will put up with them.

4. He doesn’t want to meet your friends

Even if you said that there are people in your life who are extremely important to you, he will never want to meet them. In fact, he won’t even want to get to know you better either.

He just wants you to be there when he is into it and to leave him alone when he needs space. If you see these red flag signs, you should tell him that you are not his puppet and that he can’t do whatever he wants with you.

5. He disappears and doesn’t contact you

A man who is into you will tell you if he won’t be available because he knows you would worry. But if your boyfriend disappears for a couple of days and acts normal when he comes back, you should know that he doesn’t respect you.

Un hombre así nunca te querrá. Si él está haciendo todas estas cosas al principio de su relación, se puede imaginar lo que va a hacer una vez que las cosas se vuelven serias.

6. Tarda mucho en responder a tus mensajes

Vale, todos conocéis esa táctica de no responder a un mensaje inmediatamente después de que un chico o una chica te envía un mensaje but a man who is interested in you won’t play any mind games.

He will show you that he is available at any time and that he is glad you reached out. But if he ignores your texts for a day or more and you see him actively answering other people then he is just a loser who doesn’t deserve you.

Siga adelante mientras no sea demasiado tarde.

7. Dice que su ex era una zorra

¿Has oído ese dicho? ¿Deberías hablar sólo cosas buenas de los muertos y los ex?

Pero si repite constantemente que su ex era una zorra y que ella es la culpable de su ruptura, existe la posibilidad de que aún no la haya superado y que tú sólo seas una chica de rebote para él.

Also, if he talks like that about her, he will talk about you in the same way. He simply can’t stand the fact that he was the one who messed things up!

8. Te invita a casa sólo para tener sexo contigo

Si te invita a su casa sólo para tener sexo contigo y te dice que tiene que madrugar cuando terminéis, es señal de que no está interesado en ti.

He will never love you and the sooner you get that, the easier it will be for you. He is just a fuckboy who wants to take advantage of you and he doesn’t have any plans to make any effort for you.

9. No hace ningún esfuerzo por conquistarte

A guy like this has the attitude that he shouldn’t make any effort to win you over. He wants you to do all the work. And once you do all of it, he will then say he is not the right one for you and will leave.

The thing is that he really doesn’t know what he wants. He is just a spoiled brat who got every girl he wanted but nunca podría cometer a cualquiera de ellos.

So, if you see this behavior, don’t put up with it but instead give him a one-way ticket out of your life.

Christine es autora de ‘Mirar fijamente a los ojos de la ansiedad y la depresión’Un libro que cambiará tu forma de combatir la ansiedad y la depresión.