Se o seu tudo não é suficiente, então provavelmente está a desperdiçá-lo com o homem errado

You’ve poured yourself into your man and now your body is tired. You’ve constantly sought out ways to make him happy and now a tua alma está cansada.

You feel drained because you’ve given yourself entirely to him. You feel empty from inside and life has slowly lost its color.

You’ve tried hard to make him love you, you’ve done your best to make your relationship work, and that’s made you feel like you aren’t good enough.

Your feelings are selfless and he’s only been selfish. You worry more about him than about yourself.

He is all that’s important in your life. But unfortunately, you don’t get the same feeling from his side.

You constantly feel that you don’t deserve him because everything you do is wrong.

Tem de compreender que, se for amor verdadeiro, se ele for a sua alma gémea, então até as mais pequenas coisas que fizer serão adequadas para ele.

He’ll appreciate your effort more than those gestures.

You’ve been waiting for him to change far too long. You are somehow still sure that he loves you and that it will make him change for you – make him be a better person for you.

He isn’t changing. He’s only there because he knows that he can control you and you’ll do everything he asks you to do because you want to stay with him.

He’ll use your love only to feed his own ego, which is already inflated. And you’ll be left with low self-esteem issues.

He’s become the center of your life and now everything is about him.

You’ve lost your friends because of him. You’ve even distanced yourself from your family. People who were always there for you. People who were your biggest support in life.

You’ve distanced yourself from everyone who tried to tell you that man isn’t for you. Porque pensavas que eles só queriam separar-vos.

Do you believe them now? Do you see that everything they’ve been telling you about him all this time is true?

You’ve tried so hard to make his family accept you and to get them to like you. And they have. They see how kind and good a woman you are.

Quantas vezes já fez planos para o fim de semana ou preparou um jantar romântico, para depois ele a abandonar e sair com os amigos? Nunca lhe farias uma coisa dessas.

Ele é a única pessoa com quem se pode abrir, mas nunca tem tempo para a ouvir. Quantas vezes já chorou até adormecer por causa das acções dele?

Então, quantas vezes se maquilhou na manhã seguinte e agiu como se nada tivesse acontecido?

You are missing some great things that will be so much better for you. Maybe you are missing the one who’ll love you like he never did. Who will love and appreciate everything you do for him.

Great things are waiting for you and all you have to do is to let go of him. Let go of that wrong man who’s proven to you so many times that he isn’t your destiny.

A tua vida é um livro e tu és o único autor. Encare esta relação como uma das suas maiores lições de vida.

Name that lesson “What love should never feel like” and close that chapter.

Confia em mim que és suficientemente bom. Tu és melhor do que isso. Ele é um homem cego e nada do que fizeres o fará ver o tipo de mulher que tem ao seu lado.

Until he loses you. Then he’ll understand. Then he’ll regret it. Then he’ll wish to turn back time and undo all those lousy things he put you through.

Every second of your life is precious, so please stop wasting it on the wrong man. You’ll only lose yourself that way.

And there is nothing worse than that. To lose yourself in love. To lose yourself for someone who didn’t deserve you in the first place.

It’s hard to pick yourself up after that. It’s hard to learn to love yourself again.

Faça a escolha certa. Parem de desperdiçar o vosso precioso tempo. Por favor, escolha-se a si próprio por uma vez.

You’ll see how beautiful life can be without him. His absence will bring back colors to your life.