Se uma rapariga te trata como um rei sem o anel, não a tomes por garantida

Vamos ser honestos - nunca deste a esta rapariga muitas razões para te amar.

Nunca prometeu passar o resto da sua vida com ela, nunca lhe mostrou que está totalmente empenhado nela e nunca lhe deu a segurança de que ela precisa.

You have never shown her that you are all in—that she can count on you through good and bad days, through sickness and health and through thick and thin.

You have never given her assurance, something to help her know that she’s the one for you.

Nunca te certificaste de que essa rapariga sabe que entraste na vida dela com o intenção de ficar—that she isn’t a temporary girl you’ll turn your back on the second someone more convenient comes along.

Nunca a tratou como a sua prioridade número um, nem lhe mostrou o quanto ela é importante para si.

No entanto, de alguma forma, esta rapariga encontrou a força para te amar como nenhuma outra.

Despite the fact that you don’t try around her the way you should, she is still putting all of her efforts into this relationship, trying to make it work.

And the best part is that she isn’t looking for anything in return. She doesn’t expect you to change overnight and to become the man you are not.

She doesn’t need your gratitude and she doesn’t want you to spoil her because she doesn’t consider her behavior extraordinary—she is convinced that this is just the way a girl should treat the man she loves.

No entanto, o mínimo que podias fazer era apreciá-la.

If nothing else, you could show her that you respect her love, her sacrifices and everything she’s doing for you.

Because trust me—this girl is one of a kind. I know you assume that you’ll find another her around the corner, if it happens that you lose her.

Que ela é apenas mais uma rapariga que passa pela sua vida e que é facilmente substituída.

You might think that she doesn’t feel unwanted just because she isn’t some drama queen who demands to be the center of your universe.

That she doesn’t need you giving her back all the love you’ve been getting from her just because she isn’t needy and desperate.

That she doesn’t feel emotionally neglected just because she doesn’t go around begging for your love.

Remember this—just because this girl has dignity and just because she is proud enough not to chase you to give her what she deserves, it doesn’t mean that she is foolish.

It doesn’t mean that she doesn’t see that she deserves much more and it definitely doesn’t mean that one of these days, she won’t ficar cansado de ficar ao vosso lado.

Sim, está convencido de que não há nada que possa fazer para que ela deixe de o amar.

That she’ll never leave your side, no matter what happens and that you can spend eternity playing these toxic mind games with her.

Well, guess what? You couldn’t be more wrong. The truth is that this girl is one in a million.

Isso she is someone you can’t afford letting go e que nenhuma outra mulher o aturaria como ela o faz.

Sim, ela é forte e autossuficiente, mas também tem uma incrível capacidade de amar.

Most importantly—she knows how to love YOU. And let’s face it—you are anything but easy to love.

Então, de que é que está à espera para mudar de atitude e ver o seu valor?

O que mais precisa de acontecer para que ganhe juízo e olhe para as coisas de forma realista?

Why do you keep on taking her for granted, as if she’ll remain by your side forever?

Why do you continue treating her like shit, as if she’ll never get tired of your immature behavior?

Why don’t you finally start appreciating her presence before you are forced to feel her absence?

Why don’t you see what you have in time before you are forced to realize what you’ve lost?

Acredite em mim quando digo que está a ficar sem tempo, porque um dia destes será demasiado tarde.

One of these days, she’ll realize that you’re not worth the trouble and she will walk away from you.

E quando ela toma a decisão de dizer o seu despedida final, there won’t be anything you could do to change her mind.