7 sinais de que as pessoas te acham incrivelmente atraente

Do you also get those 3 a.m. thoughts when you overthink your life choices and go over random situations that happened? I think that’s a universal experience. 

I would lay in my bed thinking about how that guy flirted with me 2 months ago and I never realized it. Ugh, that’s the worst! Quem sabe quantas grandes oportunidades perdeste?

I actually don’t know if it’s worse when you don’t realize someone likes you or when you think someone likes you and they’re just friendly. Both are embarrassing, to be honest.

Mas sim, descodificar as pessoas é uma habilidade artística. That’s why I read so many books about body language and the psychology behind attractiveness.

And you know what? They all talk about the same things people do when they find you attractive. I’m not gonna lie, some are not really obvious but they make sense when you think about it. It all comes down to:

1. Sinais subtis da linguagem corporal

Every movement of the body means something. We don’t think much about our posture, what we do with our hands, or how we greet someone, but a linguagem corporal pode revelar muito mais do que pensamos.

For example, if someone’s arms are not crossed it means they are open and feel comfortable around you. Try to see if he leans in when you talk or faces you directly rather than looking somewhere else. This is often a good sign he’s interested! And it works both ways!

Lembro-me de uma vez em que estava sentada à frente da minha paixão num grupo de amigos numa festa. Ele inclinava-se sempre e tinha uma postura descontraída sempre que eu falava de qualquer coisa, prestava mesmo atenção às minhas palavras. Não vou mentir, isso deu-me um impulso de confiança instantâneo!

2. Olhos que revelam a verdade

Já apanhou estranhos a olharem para si em público e o seu primeiro pensamento foi: “Omg, do I have something on my face?!” Don’t worry, those are only your insecurities speaking! People stare because they admire you!

Truth hides behind eyes, so when you talk to someone, pay attention to them. It’s true when they say that os olhos são a janela da alma.

Outra dica, mais subtil do que o contacto visual, é a dilatação das pupilas! A ciência diz que falar com alguém que se considera atraente liberta as “love hormones” no cérebro que fazem as pupilas dilatarem-se. Que loucura, não é?!

3. Sorriso que fala muito

Quando as pessoas a acham atraente, sorrirão sempre para si, aconteça o que acontecer! Até os estranhos lhe darão um sorriso subtil quando passar por eles. 

Embora possa ser falsificado, it’s hard to hide it when you really like someone! It’s pretty easy to see when a person is (not) genuine around you. And if they laugh at your jokes (even the lame ones) that’s a real deal!

I’ve never been really good at telling jokes so whenever I tried to be funny no one would laugh. But not him. He would always laugh heartily even at my lamest jokes! I wish I realized sooner that maybe I had a chance with him.

4. Tomar banho com elogios

Now this one can be a bit tricky, but over some time it’ll become clear who is sincere in their words. Some might try to manipulate you to get something in return by using sweet words around you. 

No entanto, as pessoas que gostam de si, muitas vezes dão-lhe elogios que se centram em algo específico ou único. They won’t be superficial when it comes to you. Honest compliments don’t feel forced or too calculated. 

A guy once told me how my eyes get a really special spark when I talk about things I’m passionate about so he would listen to me all day even if he didn’t understand anything about it. I blushed so hard and was in awe by his words that I didn’t even realize the underlying message at that moment!

5. Espelhar o seu comportamento

Isto é algo que todos nós fazemos subconscientemente. Olhamos para as pessoas que admiramos e tentamos agir como elas para ganhar a sua aprovação. 

Se as mulheres frequentemente imitar os seus gestos com as mãos e a sua linguagem corporal, just know they’re totally into you! Sometimes they’ll even use phrases specific to you and talk in the same way. Men do the same!

Just think about how you’re acting when you’re near different people you like and you’ll see that each time you adapt and show the other side of yourself. 

6. Desejo da tua presença física

I have an incredibly attractive friend. No matter where we are, people just gravitate towards him, even strangers! They want to stand and sit next to him or join any conversation he has. He was always oblivious and didn’t realize any of it!

When people think you’re attractive they naturally want to be close to you. You are like a magnet that attracts them and they simply can’t resist it.

Há muitas pistas que elas podem dar, como sentar-se sempre ao seu lado num grupo de pessoas, ou ir onde quer que esteja. Confie em mim, aquele esbarrão aleatório em si, ou o toque subtil da sua mão não é acidental como pode pensar.

7. Procurar uma ligação

If they really like you, people can’t get enough of you! Querem sempre saber mais e nunca me canso de te ouvir falar sobre si, a sua vida, os seus passatempos, a sua paixão, o seu trabalho, o que quer que seja!

I realized this when I talked to one guy and we somehow ended on my favorite topic – science! I swear I talked so much and he just stood there and listened. Later on, he admitted he didn’t understand half of the things I was saying but just enjoyed listening to me.

Os homens também lhe farão muitas perguntas se a acharem interessante e quiserem chamar a sua atenção. Cada minuto passado contigo é precioso and men don’t want to waste their time. And trust me, women are the same!So there you have it! Decoding people doesn’t have to be so complicated anymore and you don’t need to worry about missing signals from your crush like me. Don’t be afraid to also use these cues to show someone you find them attractive. Who knows where that’ll lead you!