7 segni che le persone ti trovano incredibilmente attraente
Do you also get those 3 a.m. thoughts when you overthink your life choices and go over random situations that happened? I think that’s a universal experience.
I would lay in my bed thinking about how that guy flirted with me 2 months ago and I never realized it. Ugh, that’s the worst! Chissà quante grandi opportunità vi siete persi.
I actually don’t know if it’s worse when you don’t realize someone likes you or when you think someone likes you and they’re just friendly. Both are embarrassing, to be honest.
Ma sì, decodificare le persone è un'arte. That’s why I read so many books about body language and the psychology behind attractiveness.
And you know what? They all talk about the same things people do when they find you attractive. I’m not gonna lie, some are not really obvious but they make sense when you think about it. It all comes down to:
1. I sottili segnali del linguaggio del corpo
Every movement of the body means something. We don’t think much about our posture, what we do with our hands, or how we greet someone, but Il linguaggio del corpo può rivelare molto più di quanto pensiamo.
For example, if someone’s arms are not crossed it means they are open and feel comfortable around you. Try to see if he leans in when you talk or faces you directly rather than looking somewhere else. This is often a good sign he’s interested! And it works both ways!
Ricordo che una volta ero seduta di fronte alla mia cotta in un gruppo di amici a una festa. Lui si chinava sempre e aveva una postura rilassata ogni volta che parlavo di qualcosa, prestava davvero attenzione alle mie parole. Non voglio mentire, questo mi ha dato un'immediata iniezione di fiducia!
2. Occhi che svelano la verità
Vi è mai capitato di essere fissati da estranei in pubblico e il vostro primo pensiero è stato: “Omg, do I have something on my face?!” Don’t worry, those are only your insecurities speaking! People stare because they admire you!
Truth hides behind eyes, so when you talk to someone, pay attention to them. It’s true when they say that Gli occhi sono la finestra dell'anima.
Un altro indizio, più sottile del contatto visivo, è la dilatazione delle pupille! La scienza dice che parlare con qualcuno che si trova attraente rilascia la “love hormones” nel cervello che fanno dilatare le pupille. Pazzesco, vero?
3. Un sorriso che parla chiaro
Quando la gente vi trova attraenti, vi sorriderà sempre, a prescindere da tutto! Anche gli sconosciuti vi faranno un sottile sorriso quando passerete davanti a loro.
Anche se può essere falsificato, it’s hard to hide it when you really like someone! It’s pretty easy to see when a person is (not) genuine around you. And if they laugh at your jokes (even the lame ones) that’s a real deal!
I’ve never been really good at telling jokes so whenever I tried to be funny no one would laugh. But not him. He would always laugh heartily even at my lamest jokes! I wish I realized sooner that maybe I had a chance with him.
4. Doccia di complimenti
Now this one can be a bit tricky, but over some time it’ll become clear who is sincere in their words. Some might try to manipulate you to get something in return by using sweet words around you.
Tuttavia, le persone che vi piacciono spesso vi daranno complimenti che si concentrano su qualcosa di specifico o unico. They won’t be superficial when it comes to you. Honest compliments don’t feel forced or too calculated.
A guy once told me how my eyes get a really special spark when I talk about things I’m passionate about so he would listen to me all day even if he didn’t understand anything about it. I blushed so hard and was in awe by his words that I didn’t even realize the underlying message at that moment!
5. Rispecchiare il vostro comportamento
È una cosa che facciamo tutti inconsciamente. Guardiamo alle persone che ammiriamo e cerchiamo di comportarci come loro per guadagnarci la loro approvazione.
Se le donne spesso imitare i vostri gesti delle mani e il linguaggio del corpo, just know they’re totally into you! Sometimes they’ll even use phrases specific to you and talk in the same way. Men do the same!
Just think about how you’re acting when you’re near different people you like and you’ll see that each time you adapt and show the other side of yourself.
6. Desiderare la vostra presenza fisica
I have an incredibly attractive friend. No matter where we are, people just gravitate towards him, even strangers! They want to stand and sit next to him or join any conversation he has. He was always oblivious and didn’t realize any of it!
When people think you’re attractive they naturally want to be close to you. You are like a magnet that attracts them and they simply can’t resist it.
Ci sono molti indizi che possono darvi, come il fatto di sedersi sempre accanto a voi in un gruppo di persone o di andare ovunque voi siate. Credetemi, quell'urto casuale con voi o il tocco sottile della vostra mano non sono casuali come potreste pensare.
7. Cercare la connessione
If they really like you, people can’t get enough of you! Vogliono sempre saperne di più e non mi stancherò mai di ascoltarti parlare di sé, della propria vita, dei propri hobby, delle proprie passioni, del proprio lavoro, di qualsiasi cosa!
I realized this when I talked to one guy and we somehow ended on my favorite topic – science! I swear I talked so much and he just stood there and listened. Later on, he admitted he didn’t understand half of the things I was saying but just enjoyed listening to me.
Anche gli uomini vi faranno molte domande se vi trovano interessanti e vogliono attirare la vostra attenzione. Ogni minuto trascorso con voi è prezioso and men don’t want to waste their time. And trust me, women are the same!So there you have it! Decoding people doesn’t have to be so complicated anymore and you don’t need to worry about missing signals from your crush like me. Don’t be afraid to also use these cues to show someone you find them attractive. Who knows where that’ll lead you!
