Se te identificas com estas 5 coisas, és extremamente atraente

If there’s some topic people will never stop talking about, then it must be what makes someone beautiful and how to know if people find us attractive.

One thing people don’t realize is that ser atraente não é só sol e arco-íris. While you might think they have everything easy just because of their looks, you’re actually wrong.

Até a investigação demonstrou que encontrar o verdadeiro amor é muito mais difícil para as pessoas atraentes. This is exactly because others want to be with them solely because they are attracted to their physical look and don’t care about what’s underneath the surface.

Jacob Lucas, treinador de encontros confirms that being attractive is not so easy, but hey, someone’s gotta do it, right? All jokes aside, attractive people actually have 5 common things they share, see if you relate to any of them.

1. You don’t have many friends of the same gender

Lucas começa a sua vídeo ao dizer que as pessoas atraentes têm muitas vezes dificuldade em fazer amigos do mesmo sexo.

Se alguma vez reparou que anda com muitas pessoas do sexo oposto mas tem nenhum ou poucos amigos do mesmo sexo que você, it might be a good sign you’re attractive. Jacob says:

“This is because a lot of people are jealous of you because of your good looks and they see you as competition.”

As opiniões dividem-se quanto a este assunto. Algumas pessoas concordam com ele porque faz sentido os outros sentem-se por vezes intimidados pelas suas qualidades and they can’t stand someone else is better than them.

However, others say they are actually more eager to be friends with someone attractive. I think this is the case but only if you’re also confident in your looks so you don’t have a problem being around other beautiful people. 

2. Os outros querem muitas vezes torná-lo inseguro

You’ve been bullied many times throughout your life? People use jokes to hide the fact they’re actually insulting you? Yeah, you probably have something they don’t have.

Jacob explica este facto dizendo:

“This is because your good looks makes them feel insecure and they wanna make you feel the same way.”

Quando as pessoas são más para ti, especially if they’re commenting something negative about your looks, they’re probably just reflecting their insecurities onto you. 

Isto é definitivamente verdade porque uma pessoa verdadeiramente feliz e satisfeita consigo própria nunca desperdiçaria o seu tempo e energia a fazer com que os outros se sintam mal. Em vez disso, quer elevá-los e não arrastá-los para baixo. Em vez disso, quer elevá-los e não arrastá-los para baixo.

3. Being with you boosted your ex’s ego

Tenho uma amiga que é extremamente bonita e atraente. Toda a gente quer estar com ela ou, pelo menos, perto dela. Quando ela acabou com o namorado, de repente ficou tão convencido de si próprio porque ele sabia que estava com o vilão que todos desejam.

Como diz o treinador de encontros:

“This is because once before they managed to get you and it makes them think there’s something special about them. When in reality they were just in the right place at the right time and got lucky that you picked them.”

Oof, this might be hard to hear for some people… But yeah, when you’re really attractive everyone will feel flattered they know you or once had a chance to be with you. 

4. As pessoas esforçam-se para o impressionar

As pessoas estão sempre a gabar-se quando estão perto de si?

diz Jacob:

“This is because they are trying to impress you so you feel more attracted to them.”

Isso só prova que they want to show you they’re worthy of you. They’re trying to gain your attention and make you think you’re on the same level as them so you’re compatible. 

If they only knew that being authentic and genuine could get them further than bragging about their money, clothes, or accomplishments maybe they would actually end up with someone even if they’re out of their league.

5. Everyone’s surprised you’re single

Last but not least, if you literally shock others every time you mention you’re single, then be sure you’re attractive! 

People often assume that if you’re super pretty, smart, and have all the qualities everyone searches for, you must be taken. Of course, they’re surprised when that’s not the case. You would also pick the most beautiful flower from the garden, wouldn’t you?

People were pretty honest in the comments, although I’m not sure about modest. Muitas pessoas disseram ter experimentado as 5 coisas and everyone’s jealous of them. Some were enlightened and realized that maybe they are attractive after all. 

Outros eram mais humorísticos ou pessimistas and said they didn’t relate to any of these signs. A top comment with the most likes under this video was:

“I have 0 friends. I must be extremely gorgeous.”

E tu? Já lidou com estes problemas? Acha que este é um teste preciso de atratividade? or it’s more complicated than this?