Si te identificas con estas 5 cosas, eres extremadamente atractivo

If there’s some topic people will never stop talking about, then it must be what makes someone beautiful and how to know if people find us attractive.

One thing people don’t realize is that ser atractivo no es todo sol y arco iris. While you might think they have everything easy just because of their looks, you’re actually wrong.

Incluso la investigación ha demostrado que encontrar el amor verdadero es mucho más difícil para las personas atractivas. This is exactly because others want to be with them solely because they are attracted to their physical look and don’t care about what’s underneath the surface.

Entrenador de citas Jacob Lucas confirms that being attractive is not so easy, but hey, someone’s gotta do it, right? All jokes aside, attractive people actually have 5 common things they share, see if you relate to any of them.

1. You don’t have many friends of the same gender

Lucas comienza su vídeo diciendo que a las personas atractivas a menudo les cuesta hacer amigos de su mismo sexo.

Si alguna vez te has dado cuenta de que te juntas con muchas personas del sexo opuesto pero tienes ninguno o pocos amigos del mismo sexo que tú, it might be a good sign you’re attractive. Jacob says:

“This is because a lot of people are jealous of you because of your good looks and they see you as competition.”

Hay división de opiniones al respecto. Algunos están de acuerdo con él porque tiene sentido a veces los demás se sienten intimidados por tus cualidades and they can’t stand someone else is better than them.

However, others say they are actually more eager to be friends with someone attractive. I think this is the case but only if you’re also confident in your looks so you don’t have a problem being around other beautiful people. 

2. Los demás a menudo quieren hacerte sentir inseguro

You’ve been bullied many times throughout your life? People use jokes to hide the fact they’re actually insulting you? Yeah, you probably have something they don’t have.

Jacob lo explica diciendo:

“This is because your good looks makes them feel insecure and they wanna make you feel the same way.”

Cuando la gente es mala contigo, especially if they’re commenting something negative about your looks, they’re probably just reflecting their insecurities onto you. 

Esto es definitivamente cierto porque una persona verdaderamente feliz que está satisfecha consigo misma nunca perdería su tiempo y energía en hacer que los demás se sientan mal. Por el contrario, lo que quiere es elevarlos, no hundirlos.

3. Being with you boosted your ex’s ego

Tengo una amiga que es extremadamente guapa y atractiva. Todo el mundo quiere estar con ella o al menos cerca de ella. Cuando rompió con su novio, de repente se volvió tan engreído porque sabía que estaba con el malo que todos desean.

Como dice el entrenador de citas:

“This is because once before they managed to get you and it makes them think there’s something special about them. When in reality they were just in the right place at the right time and got lucky that you picked them.”

Oof, this might be hard to hear for some people… But yeah, when you’re really attractive everyone will feel flattered they know you or once had a chance to be with you. 

4. La gente se esfuerza por impresionarte

¿Se desvive la gente por presumir todo el tiempo cuando está cerca de ti?

Jacob dice:

“This is because they are trying to impress you so you feel more attracted to them.”

Eso demuestra they want to show you they’re worthy of you. They’re trying to gain your attention and make you think you’re on the same level as them so you’re compatible. 

If they only knew that being authentic and genuine could get them further than bragging about their money, clothes, or accomplishments maybe they would actually end up with someone even if they’re out of their league.

5. Everyone’s surprised you’re single

Last but not least, if you literally shock others every time you mention you’re single, then be sure you’re attractive! 

People often assume that if you’re super pretty, smart, and have all the qualities everyone searches for, you must be taken. Of course, they’re surprised when that’s not the case. You would also pick the most beautiful flower from the garden, wouldn’t you?

People were pretty honest in the comments, although I’m not sure about modest. Mucha gente dijo que había experimentado las 5 cosas and everyone’s jealous of them. Some were enlightened and realized that maybe they are attractive after all. 

Otros eran más humorísticos o pesimistas and said they didn’t relate to any of these signs. A top comment with the most likes under this video was:

“I have 0 friends. I must be extremely gorgeous.”

¿Y usted? ¿Te has enfrentado alguna vez a estos problemas? ¿Cree usted que esta es una prueba exacta de atractivo or it’s more complicated than this?