20 sinais inegáveis de que você é um verdadeiro empata intuitivo
There’s a difference between having empathy and being an empath.
While nearly every human being feels empathy toward people in pain, empaths have the ability to absorb people’s emotions and energy to the level where they feel them inside their own bodies and minds.
Então, o que é um empático intuitivo?
Um empático intuitivo is a kind of empath who’s able to read and absorb the tiniest cues people make in their behavior and even the deepest emotions they have and make intuitive assumptions on what’s happening in their life or who they truly are.
De acordo com a Dra. Judith Orloff, seis outros tipos de empatas existem também: empata físico, empata emocional, empata animal, empata sonho, empata terra e empata planta.
Embora todos os empatas tenham muitas características comuns, há sinais que apontam para um tipo específico de empata que possivelmente é e estes são os sinais de que é, de facto, um empata intuitivo, adoçado com as mais belas citações de empatas só um verdadeiro empático se pode identificar.
Escolhe sempre significativo sobre prático
It’s not that you don’t realize how to organize your life in a way that gets you the material success most people seek, it’s just that you care more about other things in life.
Aquilo por que verdadeiramente anseia é um significado para tudo o que faz. Quer que tudo o que escolhe fazer na sua vida tenha um impacto positivo em si, nas pessoas à sua volta e no mundo em geral.
You’d never choose to do something just because it makes more sense practically or financially, as that to you is an utterly shallow way of understanding life and you always dig deeper until you reach the essence of things.
Compreende facilmente as outras pessoas
“All I ever wanted was to reach out and touch another human being not just with my hands but with my heart.” ~ Tahereh Mafi
Enquanto muitas pessoas têm dificuldade em compreender profundamente o que os outros realmente querem, tu fazes isso com facilidade.
It’s natural for you to realize where other people come from and putting yourself in other people’s shoes is an easy task for you.
Since you’re able to comprehend their emotions and experiences on a higher level, you’re also able to apply those things to your own being and figure out their exact position in life, even when they don’t tell you much.
You’re a problem solver
Outro sinal importante de que possui empatia intuitiva é o facto de conseguir ver fácil e claramente o panorama geral.
Your empathic abilities help you figure things out quickly and that’s why you see a clear path to a functioning solution faster than other people.
It’s a common misconception that sensitive people are too self-involved and can’t seem to find a way to handle the ‘real world’ and the difficulties of life.
While it’s true that you can get easily overwhelmed, you can also easily find your way out of anxiety.
O seu criatividade os níveis estão fora de série
There are so many ideas in your mind, too many to make come true. Whenever a situation calls for a creative solution, you’re the one to step in.
Sente as emoções dos outros e utiliza todas as informações possíveis para criar coisas bonitas. Pode ser bastante artístico ou até escolher a arte como profissão.
Precisamos de um escape para tudo o que absorvemos e as nossas ideias criativas e a nossa arte dão-nos exatamente isso.
O seu imaginação eleva-o acima das dificuldades da vida quotidiana
Todos nós temos diferentes tipos de lutas que acompanham a nossa rotina diária regular e todos nós encontramos diferentes formas de as combater.
For empathic people, it’s their imagination that helps them create a world where they are able to get rid of stress and go back to their roots.
É por isso que valoriza imenso o seu tempo a sós. Autocuidado, descanso e imaginação são o que precisa para lidar com toda a energia de outras pessoas que absorve a toda a hora.
As pessoas beneficiam muito de o ter na sua vida
“For there is nothing heavier than compassion. Not even one’s own pain weighs so heavy as the pain one feels with someone, for someone, a pain intensified by the imagination and prolonged by a hundred echoes.” ~ Milan Kundera
It’s really amazing having you as a friend or a family member. You truly understand the pain of other people and all your talents are best used when you’re trying to help your loved ones figure out their own issues.
Os empáticos são realmente bons amigos. Por vezes, pode ser introvertido, pelo que a forma como se abre com as pessoas que lhe são próximas é verdadeiramente única e tira o melhor partido de si.
An empath is always someone you want for a friend, and that’s a fact.
Permaneceis sempre entusiasta sobre o que virá a seguir
“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have encontraram o seu caminho para fora das profundezas. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.” ~ Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
Aprecia a vida a um nível mais elevado do que uma pessoa normal e isso faz com que se sinta entusiasmado por vivê-la da forma mais gratificante possível.
You’re aware of yourself, your surroundings and the fact that life doesn’t always deal you the best cards but you find a way to recover from anything, no matter how hard it is.
You’re excited to see what new things life has in store for you.
Fighting pain, you’ve learned to surround yourself with positivity
“Because empaths absorb the energy and emotions of those around them, being around toxic and/or negative sources can take a huge toll on o empático’s physical and mental well-being. They are natural care-givers and want to help (or at least try to) fix situations, which can end up hurting o empático. It’s not always easy for them to recognize when it is time to walk away.” ~ Ari Eastman
The thing about you is that people with negative energy drain yours completely and that’s why you use your high senses to try and pick those with positive energy.
When you’re in the vicinity of toxic people, energy vampires and narcisistas (que arranjam sempre maneira de entrar na nossa vida), podemos até sentir sintomas físicos de mal-estar, ansiedade e nervosismo.
Para manter a sua saúde mental e continuar a viver a sua vida da melhor forma possível, escolhe sempre aqueles que vos inspiram e espalham positividade por todo o lado, o que faz de si uma pessoa mais positiva e feliz.
Atingir harmonia onde quer que vá
“Empaths are born that way, but being empático is something all, or most, of us can learn. They put others in front of themselves as long as it’s doable. A harmonia em qualquer circunstância é algo que se esforçam por criar. They are being affected by others’ emotions and energies—so balance is super-important to them. They want to make the desires and wishes come true for the ones around them as often as possible. Querem motivar e inspirar os outros a crescerem também.” ~ Kristine Einang
You have a natural yearning for harmony and peace. Since you’re able to sense other people’s emotions, energy and vibes, it is completely natural to you to use that knowledge in order to do good things.
People’s feelings are important to you and whenever there’s conflict near you (which doesn’t even have to include you as one of the parts of the conflict), you try to make peace and help people reach a compromise.
You’re a talented decision maker
You’re passionate but not keen on making rash decisions so you invest time and energy into making the most insightful and inspiring choices you can make.
Sendo um bom solucionador de problemas e capaz de ver facilmente o panorama geral, procura todos os aspectos da vida que a sua mente possa alcançar e incorpora-os no seu processo de tomada de decisões.
You don’t only pay attention to all the available information, you also always consider the feelings of others when deciding what to do.
Sabe como verdadeiramente ouvir
“I do not ask the wounded person how he feels, I myself become the wounded person.” ~ Walt Whitman
When you talk to someone, you give them all of your attention. You like listening to other people’s stories and finding out about their experiences.
Sabe que pode realmente ajudar as pessoas e dá tudo o que pode para que elas se sintam compreendidas, vistas e aceites. Não há muitas pessoas que possam dizer isto de si próprias e tu és realmente uma joia.
You absorb other people’s emotions
“Highly pessoas sensíveis são demasiadas vezes vistos como fracos ou como bens danificados. Sentir intensamente não é um sintoma de fraqueza; é a marca registada do verdadeiro ser vivo e compassivo. Não é o empático é a sociedade que se tornou disfuncional e emocionalmente deficiente. Não há vergonha em expressar os seus sentimentos autênticos. Those who are at times described as being a ‘hot mess’ or having ‘too many issues’ are the very fabric of what keeps the dream alive for a more caring, humane world. Nunca te envergonhes de deixar as tuas lágrimas iluminarem este mundo.” ~ António St. Maarten
People don’t have to verbally share their emotions with you, as you intuitively feel their emotions on a higher level. If someone were to ask what intuitive empathy is, that would be the simplest possible explanation.
Sometimes you realize you’ve suddenly started feeling different since you started a conversation with someone or even when a certain person entered a room; that’s just how sensitive your sensors are.
Consegue ler as pessoas como um livro aberto
Ler a linguagem corporal e outras pistas que as pessoas dão involuntariamente é uma das os traços empáticos. You feel like you really know the people you communicate with, even when you haven’t really known them for a long time.
This is a great benefit when making friends or a potential romantic interest. There’s hardly anything that’s a mystery to you when it comes to human behavior.
As pessoas altamente intuitivas conseguem ler uma pessoa numa questão de minutos, por vezes sem sequer a ouvirem falar.
There’s almost no chance anyone can fool you
Since you’re that much in tune with people’s emotions, vibes and personalities, you immediately notice when what a person is saying and the real truth behind their words are in conflict.
You may not always be able to put a finger on what’s wrong exactly but your intuition tells you whenever there’s something you should be paying additional attention to.
Sabes como estar sozinho
Os empáticos intuitivos precisam do seu tempo a sós. Gosta dele e sabe como utilizá-lo para refrescar a sua energia. Muitas pessoas têm dificuldade em estar sozinhas, mas tu não.
Aprecia a experiência única de estar sozinho e aprecia a capacidade de trabalhar em si próprio e de expandir a sua compreensão da sua própria mente e corpo.
Gosta de fazer tudo o que acredita que o torna melhor para si próprio e para o mundo.
You’re a curandeiro natural
"Pessoas sensíveis care when the world doesn’t because we understand waiting to be rescued and no one shows up. We have rescued ourselves, so many times that we have become self taught in the art of compassion for those forgotten.” ~ Shannon L. Alder
Has anyone ever told you that they feel better just by being close to you? That’s a clear sign of you being an intuitive empath.
Tem uma capacidade de cura que vem da sua profunda compreensão da forma como as emoções humanas funcionam.
Not only are you able to figure out what someone’s going through but you are also always willing to help.
Por vezes, os locais com muita gente deixam-no sobrecarregado
“Empaths did not come into this world to be victims, we came to be warriors. Be brave. Stay strong. We need all hands on deck.” ~ Anthon St. Maarten
HSPs (highly sensitive people) don’t tend to have any kind of mental illness but this particular trait does make empaths develop certain mental conditions, such as anxiety, more often than other people.
Being that sensitive to everything around you (the noises, the smells, the emotions, the energy…) can overwhelm and exhaust a person.
Sempre que passamos mais tempo no meio de grandes multidões, sentimos que precisamos de muito tempo a sós para reenergizar e descansar.
You can’t get yourself not to care
“Empaths may hesitate to save themselves first because they think that doing so is selfish, which is not the case. If you’re an empath, sabe como é importante cuidar de si primeiro para poder ajudar os outros. Sometimes there is only so much you can do for others; you might even be doing everyone a disservice by stepping over boundaries.” ~ Catherine Chea
It’s incredibly hard for you to tell yourself you shouldn’t care about something. You carry so much pain within you and you worry about every human being, even people you don’t know.
Ouvir falar de histórias humanas tristes é insuportável para si.
Sometimes, you wish to get the opportunity to rest from all these overwhelming thoughts and emotions but you just can’t seem to shake it off. It’s who you are and you’ve come to accept that fact.
Encontrar um escape para todas estas vibrações é, no entanto, extremamente importante.
As pessoas confiam em si a toda a hora
People know that they can tell an intuitive empath anything and there’s nothing they wouldn’t understand. Even people who haven’t met you before feel the urge to tell you things about themselves and their life.
You often hear them say, ”I don’t even know why I’m telling you this but…”
Espalha positividade, bondade e uma energia suave e acolhedora onde quer que vá. Pode não ver isto como a virtude espantosa que é, mas as pessoas valorizam-no certamente por isso.
Sometimes, you feel like you just don’t fit in
"O empático ajuda os outros absorvendo parte da sua dor, mas que ajuda o empático?” ~ Donna Lynn Hope
Realizing what your own emotions are in the messy web of emotions of practically anyone you’ve ever spoken to is hard.
This unsettling feeling can get you to start questioning your own identity. You sometimes feel like while you’re there to understand everyone, no one really understands what it’s like to be you.
A complexidade da vida de cada pessoa que se cruza no seu caminho está integrada na sua alma e na sua mente, o que torna difícil compreender a sua própria personalidade e encontrar um mundo onde se encaixa melhor.
Being an empath is not easy…
It’s not easy being that one person who feels everything and understands the world so much better than the people around you. Still, it’s the most beautiful a person can be.
Learn to never be ashamed of your emotions and who you are because let’s be honest, you’re one of those keeping this world from sinking and we all ought to thank you.
Lembre-se sempre que ser um empata intuitivo é tão gratificante e gratificante quanto o permitir.
