Você é o único criador da sua própria felicidade (depende de si)

Sei que quase toda a gente já sabe isto, mas vou escrever na mesma - nunca é demais sublinhar o quanto é importante ser feliz.

Todos nós passamos por dificuldades. Todos caímos, mas conseguimos voltar a levantar-nos. Porquê? Porque queremos e decidimos fazê-lo.

No matter if someone broke your heart or you’ve lost someone, your life has to go on—it’s a little bit harsh to say that, but it’s true.

Now, it’s up to you whether you are going to dwell in the past or you are going to embrace the future and rearrange yourself—your perspective and your attitude—to be able to enjoy everything that your life has got to offer.

I always say that some higher force, or God, or whatever you want to call it, won’t ever serve you more than you can handle. You’ve been through hell.

You thought your life is going to end right at that moment. But still, here you are—still alive, still struggling to move forward.

Está a ver? Nada te pode vencer. Está a seguir em frente.

The only thing is that it’s up to you whether you will bury your past and grab for the future or keep doing what you’ve been doing—nothing.

I’m not saying that it’s easy. Heck, if it was easy, I wouldn’t have written this. I wish I could give you some kind of magic formula for you to follow and POOF!—you’re happy.

But it doesn’t work that way. I can only speak from my own experience and hope some of my words will help you, too.

Deixar de culpar o passado e deixar de pensar no passado. Não o podes mudar e sabes disso.

Stop thinking about what you would have done differently because you had your chance then and you didn’t take it. You did only what you thought was right.

Don’t worry—you will get another chance to redeem yourself for the mistakes you did in the past. That is actually what the past is all about—to make us learn from our past events.

E depois vem o futuro para nos dar a oportunidade de voltar a fazer as coisas bem. Temos sempre uma escolha, mas temos de ser pacientes.

 

 

É preciso perceber que tem a capacidade de mudar a sua vida. Só você é responsável pela sua vida, pelos seus actos e, sobretudo, pela sua felicidade.

Forget about that brain-numbing ignorance. I know that every time you decide to do something with your life—to take charge—you regret it because it’s hard and you automatically wish to go back to the life you knew before.

You think to yourself that it’s not that bad—you got used to living that way and you will make peace with it.

But no!—That’s the wrong answer. Don’t be a wuss and fight for your happiness.

I can’t stress enough that it’s up to you and it was up to you from the beginning. There is no need to put blame on others for the things that are happening to you because you are the one who has the ball in your court—you are calling all the shots.

Se algo não está bem, deixe de culpar os outros, porque a culpa é só sua.

Enquanto não perceber que a sua felicidade depende de si, ficará preso à rotina impiedosa da sua vida infeliz.